Im not seeing the problem to be honest. He's responding appropriately. If you want him to be more lewd then go bold and flash him. If that doesn't bring out his wild side then I'm wrong and you're right, but I honestly think he's just making every effort not to blow it
He's way into you. He's just being respectful. The photo was classy, not trashy- so he remained classy with his response as well. I think it's a good thing.
Maybe he is like me. Lingerie does absolutely zip for me. Seriously, I think it is a giant waste of time. I am not at all turned on by it. I am turned on by her and what is under it. So give me naked every time.
Firstly lingerie looks awesome, secondly I guess he has a low sex drive cos he seems to not be fussed by anything sexual which I feel sorry for you. I would say he's interested just not a sex person tho
1. He might not be as attracted to you as you think he is. 2. He might not have been turned on because of some reason not having to do with you. 3. Maybe you are too use to guys just wanting sex from you. Your body looks sexy in the lingerie.
Girls expect too much from a text. What did you think was going to happen? It’s a freaking text. If you want excitement and passion use your face to make words at people directly, look at them and interact with them. Don’t expect “excitement” in text.
Is does, and that's probably what happened. He got a cheeky unexpected text, enjoyed it... and now we're here for some reason. The only problem seems to be that you expected something different to happen. I don't see anything weird about his reaction. Everything here is the epitome of normality.
I'm not the kind of guy to say very sexual things in general but that doesn't mean I don't take an interest in women or show it. He's probably the same way.
It seems like he has respect for you. It was a good response, considering that you haven`t dated for that long. Maybe he is the type to take things slow? Either way I wouldn`t worry.
He said it looks very good on you, so what's the deal? you already know he is shy, most likely won't say anything of sexual nature until he feels completely at ease with you.
You need to be blunt back if you got all these question marks in your head. Just ask straight up, do you not find me attractive? Obviously he is going to say I do find you attractive, then ask, then why...
No I don’t 😂 got enough of that as it is. I just know most guys like white blonde girls so I’ve got my answer. It won’t even let me delete this damn post.
I had a female friend that sent me a nude picture that emphasized her breasts. I told her she doesn't need to do that because I don't think of her in that way. Maybe he doesn't see you in that way?
@dreamgirl97xo Would you prefer a man who wants to be in your company and enjoys your personality? Or a man who wants to see you bend forward spreading your ass cheeks?
He responded pretty flirty tho? Your responses to his flirting was kinda dry so I see why he kinda just stopped
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Look, first that photo is brill and anyone is going go want you! Second, i do think he really likes you. He is just shy and trying to respect you which certainly isn't bad. Maybe just ask him outright if he wants a night somewhere with you cos your ready? I mean i wouldn't want to miss an opportunity with you 😍😍
Im just saying the outfit was cute but it looked nothing more then a swimsuit. He was extremely complimetary with so little skin shown, so clearly he liked it and you are completly overthinking. Realize this is how respectful men act
I mean, I definitely wouldn’t know how to respond to a nude from my current partner so, it’s a possibility. He probably doesn’t want to upset you by saying the wrong thing so he sent a safe answer.
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Im not seeing the problem to be honest. He's responding appropriately. If you want him to be more lewd then go bold and flash him. If that doesn't bring out his wild side then I'm wrong and you're right, but I honestly think he's just making every effort not to blow it
He's way into you. He's just being respectful. The photo was classy, not trashy- so he remained classy with his response as well.
I think it's a good thing.
Maybe he is like me. Lingerie does absolutely zip for me. Seriously, I think it is a giant waste of time. I am not at all turned on by it. I am turned on by her and what is under it. So give me naked every time.
Firstly lingerie looks awesome, secondly I guess he has a low sex drive cos he seems to not be fussed by anything sexual which I feel sorry for you. I would say he's interested just not a sex person tho
1. He might not be as attracted to you as you think he is.
2. He might not have been turned on because of some reason not having to do with you.
3. Maybe you are too use to guys just wanting sex from you.
Your body looks sexy in the lingerie.
Thank you, at least someone appreciates the pic
@dreamgirl97xo
You have looked wonderful in every photo that I have seen of you on here.
Girls expect too much from a text. What did you think was going to happen? It’s a freaking text. If you want excitement and passion use your face to make words at people directly, look at them and interact with them. Don’t expect “excitement” in text.
Does lingerie pics not turn you on then? I don't know I thought guys liked cheeky unexpected texts lol
Is does, and that's probably what happened. He got a cheeky unexpected text, enjoyed it... and now we're here for some reason. The only problem seems to be that you expected something different to happen. I don't see anything weird about his reaction. Everything here is the epitome of normality.
He sounds like he enjoyed it and he asked you to hang out what is it that you're perceiving as a lack of interest?
Well I’m used to guys saying “damn sexy body” or “you look so hot” I suppose he’s more respectful?
I'm not the kind of guy to say very sexual things in general but that doesn't mean I don't take an interest in women or show it. He's probably the same way.
It seems like he has respect for you. It was a good response, considering that you haven`t dated for that long. Maybe he is the type to take things slow? Either way I wouldn`t worry.
Thanks hun
He said it looks very good on you, so what's the deal? you already know he is shy, most likely won't say anything of sexual nature until he feels completely at ease with you.
And if he said something else you would be complaining about that too. Guys aren't always going to say exactly what you want.
I don't know what else did you expect. His answer was pretty positive to me.
You need to be blunt back if you got all these question marks in your head. Just ask straight up, do you not find me attractive? Obviously he is going to say I do find you attractive, then ask, then why...
I mean... I've never heard of girls responding well to stuff like "i want to fuck you" or "damn, i just masturbated to this."
It's always the subtle pseudo-compliments that have girls begging for more affection.
Aww he's shy and innocent. That's actually cute you just need to dirty up his mind a little.
Hmm or maybe he’s not sexually attracted to me. I bet if it was a hotter girl he’d be more dirty
You just want me to simp on you. Not gonna happen! lol
No I don’t 😂 got enough of that as it is. I just know most guys like white blonde girls so I’ve got my answer. It won’t even let me delete this damn post.
Omg and someone probablythinks she's #ados. So help the actually black women!
I had a female friend that sent me a nude picture that emphasized her breasts. I told her she doesn't need to do that because I don't think of her in that way. Maybe he doesn't see you in that way?
As in he’s got respect for me?
@dreamgirl97xo
Would you prefer a man who wants to be in your company and enjoys your personality? Or a man who wants to see you bend forward spreading your ass cheeks?
The 1st one 😂 but at the same time I want my man to be all over me ☹️
He responded pretty flirty tho? Your responses to his flirting was kinda dry so I see why he kinda just stopped
Look, first that photo is brill and anyone is going go want you!
Second, i do think he really likes you. He is just shy and trying to respect you which certainly isn't bad. Maybe just ask him outright if he wants a night somewhere with you cos your ready? I mean i wouldn't want to miss an opportunity with you 😍😍
He legit complimented you respectfully on a “lingerie” outfit that was not even anything jaw dropping. What more do you want
Ouch, I put a lot of effort into that lol
Im just saying the outfit was cute but it looked nothing more then a swimsuit. He was extremely complimetary with so little skin shown, so clearly he liked it and you are completly overthinking. Realize this is how respectful men act
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Thank you for your advice
I immediately thought that he wasn’t sure what the right thing to say was
Come on, what young 23 year old guy doesn’t know how to react to a sexy lingerie pic?
I mean, I definitely wouldn’t know how to respond to a nude from my current partner so, it’s a possibility. He probably doesn’t want to upset you by saying the wrong thing so he sent a safe answer.
Are you serious? He asked you out and your doubting? I can’t. It’s like the subtle hints for sex I missed in high school... it’s that cringe.
What’s cringe?
Slang I think... that feeling when you remember doing something super embarrassing along time ago... that’s cringe.