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I sent him a lingerie pic and he responded with this? why didn’t he get excited? (Page 2)
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Lol next week? This guy isn't exactly taking a hint.
Do you think he should have said “what are you doing tonight?”
Or "what are you doing right now?" Depending on his circumstances obviously
Honestly I’m used to these kind of responses. My looks always hold me back.
I don't see why that would be the case.
He was excited. You couldn't tell?
What bit on that text showed he was excited?
The part where he said "I've got no complaints.". And then he winked!
He just says things in a subtle way. That's his personality.
by the way, I totally agree with GlitterFairy, but I can't give her a like because somehow she felt the need to block me for correcting her spelling. It was just a joke! 🤷
really? we are supposed to get excited over damn lingerie pic?
Hmmm
Guys won’t make a move on a woman if they feel like her body language is off. Touch him playfully and invite him to make a move.
Is my body language off?
Also we always meet up in public places so bit hard to make a move in a restaurant 😂
Hold his hand. Put his hand on your butt when walking. Invite him to touch you. The more touch the better. Give him compliments.
Curious - why do you need a hotel room?
He is not crazy about your tattoo and he does not like the lingerie. It is obvious.
What makes you think that?
It seems like he liked it
Babe if that had been sent to me I would have replied.
You look sexy af I love how it shows off your perfect body. When do you want to hook up
He doesn't want to overdo it xD.
my opinion by the texts. it looks to me like he's not all that into you and just want to hook up or get togeather to use you. i mean im a very shy guy myself but even texting is not difficult to reply nicely without worry.
If he’s not into me why is he asking me out to dinner or bowling. Pls be aware I never arrange these dates it’s him.. I doubt he’s using me for a hookup as he’s never initiated sex. Maybe I’m in the friendZone I don't know but I’m used to it. That’s the life of an ugly girl for you
he maybe is not into you but wouldn't mean he wouldn't want sex and leave. im sure your looks are fine. dont worry
Look at my profile pic. My looks are not fine. I’m dark ugly and skinny. I’m just going to call things off with him
i dissagree. you are not ugly. you look very good. nice skin and great style
That response is kinda booty
I feel like he would probably be more excited in person
He seems timid. I don't know
Like he has no experience in sexting lol
What does booty mean by the way?
Bad.
It's also possible he didn't want to come off as overly thirsty or something
“I’m mean I have no complaints “ sooo dead
The possibilities are endless
Imma go on our 4th date and see what happens
Gl
Thank you 😊
I dont see why he did that i would have definitely flirted back lol
2 months and no sex? i probably wouldn't be too responsive either, but it did seem like he got interested for a sex date
So after I sent that pic and he said “do you wanna do something next week” you probs think he wants to maybe hook up?
yeah. if you don't have sex with him he'll probably never talk to you again. take that for what you will.
What if he date is in a public place like movies or a dinner.. that means he don’t wanna fuck
honestly two months is too long to wait for a normal guy. if he's not fucking you he's fucking someone else
Ffs ☹️ he said he only goes on dates with me
Also he could have a low sex drive
that's why you have to interpret it for yourself. maybe you are the only one he dates. what does that mean? he's fucking the others for free? you get less time b/c you play hard to get?
"yeah. if you don't have sex with him he'll probably never talk to you again.". @Dreamgirl97xo This is complete bullshit. @Sevenpointfive is my friend, but, with all due respect, do not listen him.
Yeah not gonna lie @Sevenpointfive gives some shitty advice 😂
i feel like my experience is underrated here lol
Seems like you feel that sex is the most important thing in the world and because he hasn’t tried to fuck me after 2 months that’s weird
it is abnormal. why would you date a girl if you weren't attracted to her? are you a friend or a love interest?
Why would you take a girl out to dinner and pay for everything tho? He always insists on it. Friends don’t always pay for each other do they? I think it’s cute tbh
that's why you have to interpret it for yourself. you know my opinion
@Sevenpointfive Maybe her just doesn't feel like it's time for that yet. Some people prefer to move slowly.
"he", not "her.". Tyoo
Typo
@Jamie05rhs no. that's not how guys work
@Sevenpointfive Not all guys are the same.
@Jamie05rhs we are to an extent. i am only speaking for the type of guy i believe him to be
Tbh if he doesn’t suggest an intimate place like a hotel or his house I’m gonna dip cause y’all making me very self conscious that he isn’t into me cause he ain’t fucked me so next week should be interesting
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i agree. respect your own wishes first
@Dreamgirl97xo. So he has to have sex with you to prove that he likes you? Is that it?
@Jamie05rhs this is why i think you missed the point i was making
What he means is that my guy is gay or not into me cause he’s not initiated sex but there’s some guys out there that can hold back sex and just focus on getting to know me. I’m so glad I don’t deal with fuck boys like you @Sevenpointfive
don't misjudge me. you hold back your vagina ( i don't know why) because that's not the prize. the prize is you. so it leaves a guy wondering, how's it going to be if i get in a relationship with this girl? how high maintenance is she? does she even like me or does she want something else?
You’re contradicting yourself because you said earlier that me and him should already be fucking by now yet you just said keep him wondering and I’m the prize not my vagina. So why are you pressuring him to have sex with me and saying he’s abnormal. Need to be careful what you say because by you saying that is implying that I’m not good enough for him
that's correct. i don't have his story so if i did i'd have a better way to counsel
It likely just didn't turn him on. He likely has different turn ons than most men do.
That is some nice lingerie. Should keep it.
Next week 🤦 tell him life is short
You: sends a nude
Him: what are you wearing underneath
He’s busy this week tho
You think he’s probs not into me and I should cancel the date right?
Did he use the word 'busy' on you? Because if a girl says that to me instead of a open and honest explanation then I'm going to be mad and ditch.
It’s his bday this week and he’s spending it with family. Which I understand
Oh okay I guess that's different. Hmmm. Well just see how next week goes
Yeah thats a lame ass response.
What more do you want? 😕
Dude just has zero game.
Should I just cancel the date he arranged with me then?
Yes and go out with me
I'll cook you a special meal and ask I to dance to music that isn't playing
@dreamgirl97xo Not necessarily. It really depends on what you want to happen with him. Are you still in to him?
Yes I am. But like you said zero game. Obvs just sees me as a friend.
Not obvious that he sees you as a friend. More obvious that he has zero game. Happy to discuss further if you'd like.
Pls discuss more. I need help!! And he’s arranged another date next week so I’m not sure if I should still go
Hit me on messages.
I think he could just be shy and self conscious
He just doesn't know how lucky he is
I was getting ready to call the simp police.
Well first, I didn't like it. It's all pink.
What colour lingerie do you like then?
Show me options, i would prefer black white, gold or silver.
Maybe he’d rather receive nudes?
Maybe. Bear in mind we’ve not had sex and been on like 4 dates so I’m surprised he hasn’t taken me to a hotel or anything
Ahh ok, thanks for the reply. Do you want to have sex that soon?
Yes. Sex brings people closer. I heard if a guy likes you already when you give him sex he’ll be hooked to you
Cool, well make sure he knows that.😊
Seems like he’s excited to me!
How so?
Yes I agree he is not attracted to u...
Why does he want to meet next week then?
U all ever had sex before
We haven’t had sex yet. Both been in previous relationships so we’re both not virgins. He just always likes to take me out for dinner or go bowling. I guess sex isn’t a priority for him either that or he thinks I’m butt ugly
To me u aren't ugly at all... but u hav to be smart... petty love is no love... and u havn't had sex yet so that cud be th reason...
Do you think I should ask him if he wants to go to a hotel or wait for him?
Why u want to ask him that?
And do u think he likes u?
Erm so we can have sex 😂 and it’s been 2 months and went on 5 dates so I do think he likes me as he keeps taking me out to dinner BUT don’t know if he wants to sleep with me
Well take yr time and find out
Ask him... in person.
Shouldn't be dating during a virus
Maybe this is him being excited.
Not very vocal lol but yeah I get you
HE'S SECRETLY GAY.
Send it to me it will get me turn on
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you should listen to your friends
He's gay
So it’s nothing to do with my looks or anything,?
No of course not
Is he gay?
Heyyo.
letter secrecy
Who would put something if they know it would be next day in Internet. Cmon. You can't just share every message.
What omg
Let me smash instead
He wasn't aroused by your body
Why take me out on all these dates then and he has recently asked me to meet up next week? 🧐
He doesn't like you sexually... simple..
Otherwise he likes you as a person
And you know this Because?
Seeing the conversation
He’s literally just asked me if I want to go for dinner and a hotel next Saturday.. pretty sure you don’t take a girl you find ugly to a hotel
I never said he finds you ugly... dear...
I said he isn't sexually attracted to you
Same thing hun
Not the same