Do guys miss girls they spoke everyday?

[Anonymous]

I used to speak to this guy everyday for 7 months, we became friends with benefits and then 2 weeks ago he called me telling me that he thinks I've caught feelings for him and that he doesn’t wanna hurt me so we should stop speaking, so we have and i just want to know if he misses me? i expected him to call or text me by now. But he hasn’t and i miss him so much, i want to know if he does too? 😒

[sadMeester]

If he doesn't care at all about you then no. Even if he does miss you that doesn't always mean he has deeper feelings for you

[Asker]

Should i call him?

[spartan55]

If you are asking this then you definitely should Not be doing a friends with benefits arrangement. If he does contact you, it won't be because he misses 'you'. It's because he misses his free 🥧 pie.

[Snowman666]

something else happened or he is just shitty like that. Possibly he caught feelings

[Asker]

Should i call him?

[Snowman666]

What you got to lose? I say call him.

[spartan55]

@Snowman666
Why would he back out if he had feelings for her? That doesn't even make sense. Dude got a new girlfriend is my guess.

[Asker]

He told me his mom was tryna set him up with some family friends daughter and he's such a mamas boy so he said okay :(

[Snowman666]

@spartan55 catching feelings if it is a freind with benifits situation. He could be jelous about someone else or wanted to play her his way. Mind games, leaving her creates a vaccume and longing. She would then question her feelings about him.(like she is now) by saying it is because she is catching feelings could be his projection placed on her or get her to think about feelings as he creates a void in her life. Some people play chess and some play checkers. Like when i want a girl to want me i play like i don't care and put her down softly/playfully. This can create her wants for what she can "not" have, if only to create intrest before playing my hand towards her. simply put reverse psychology can work. 50/50 Shot.

[Snowman666]

sorry that sounds like a fake excuse. Because blind dates set up by parents work, right.😒

[Asker]

Thats so smart by the way and yh he's a weirdo for listening he just loves his mum a lot

[spartan55]

@Snowman666
That is an interesting theory, but you are talking about a guy playing hard to get, hiding his true feelings, and all that type of crap. There are VERY few guys that use those tactics. The is some chick he was fucking with no strings. Too much work to do all that stuff.

[Snowman666]

yeah i am married now, but i used to play games quite well. It can always go south but you would be surprised how often they work. It helped that i was played by some of the best myself. Hope i never have to play again though.