Why would a fit guy flirt with me when I am curvy?

[Anonymous]

I have a huge crush on a guy who is really good looking and has a fit body. However, I am curvy. Why would someone like him show interest and flirt with me almost everyday please?

[Citizenkirk]

I'm confused. You say that you have a huge crush on this guy, and he flirts with you everyday. I don't see the problem, or the relevance of all that other stuff you are talking about that this is guy probably doesn't even think about. He likes you, you like him, and somehow, you want someone to too help you sabatage this relationship before it even gets off by the ground because of you got half the Earth's butterfly population fluttering around inside your metaphorical abominable regions. Ask him out. Or sit there and torture yourself everyday. If your afraid if losing face if he rejects you or makes an insensitive remark, don't wait until you get too be my age too realize you don't lose face from someone else's asenine behavior. You only do by showing fear of a non issue. How he responds negatively is a non issue. How he responds positively isn't, so ask him out, or else I will make fun off you🤪. Go getting, kiddo!

[Asker]

I can propose him but he is working abroad right now, so presently it won't change our situation.

[Citizenkirk]

If he feels the same way you do, than he might be worth waiting for. Keep positive and open to new possibilities.

[Asker]

Exactly. I am focusing on my personal growth too and I'm letting everything unfold naturally.

[Citizenkirk]

😉👍

[TruthBringer]

Define "curvy". There is a difference between someone who is curvy and someone who is fat. Not saying you're fat (so try not to get your feelings in the way). Because often, fat people say "curvy" in order not to feel so bad.

Also, doesn't matter if he's fit. Many dudes like curvy girls who got some more meat. That includes fit guys. I have dated a curvy girl aswel who is actually chubby while I'm fit. So it could simply be his preference. It can also be that he thinks you're more insecure and an easier target to get in bed. Yeah, there are lots of dudes like that. In order to counter that, you'd have to go out on multiple dates and make a relationship a requirement for sex. That's if you don't want to get pumped and dumped by anyone, especially not your crush. No fuckboy will have the patience for that.

[Asker]

I have curves in all the right places. I am not fat but not thin too. I can say all little chubby but I am working out to shed those extra pounds.

[TruthBringer]

@Asker then you fit the category of curvy. And like I said, even fit guys like curvy girls. Because they got a feminine body. We don't like girls with no boobs or ass. Or girls with fat overpowering their curves.

[Asker]

I am not insecure and easy to get in bed. Although I am a bit curvy, I don't give in easily just because he is really handsome.

[TruthBringer]

@Asker That's what he should find out in case he does think you're insecure and try to use that to his advantage to bed you

[Asker]

I'm not ugly though.

[iseekpinetrees]

Because fat can go away. Shitty attitudes can't. Though I understand you I was always curvy and getting with skinny guys. One guy was super fit totally didn't understand why he liked me but I was into it. Til he became shady and I lost all interest.

[Asker]

You're right. He does show interest in me. I am going with the flow right now because he is presently pursuing his dream job abroad.

[DizzyDesii]

Some guys like some meat on the bones. Plus he’ll be a good influence to get you in shape. And he can give that body a workout of a lifetime 😝 and i ain't talkin bout in the gym hehe

[Asker]

I certainly would give him a good time too ;)

[Kenneth14621]

Are you kidding me? 26 year old girls get with 80 year old men. Lust knows no bounds. He probably is just a really horny mother fucker. Try to keep turning him on. And then after maybe something happens. It might turn into something more. Curvy girls miss out on guys cause they don't try to turn them on as if they can't. To snag a big fish some times you got to let out a little line and work with it. Then slowly reel him in.

[Asker]

You are right we flirt a lot. Maybe I am just thinking low of myself because he gets so many girls chasing him.

[Anonymous]

"You meg, are what we call a practice girl" -peter griffin

Well. Have it ever occured to you that he likes you?

How "curvy"?

Are you interpreting flirts correctly?

If you really like him. Go for it. But dont give too much.

[Asker]

I am a little chubby but I am hitting the gym to lose weight. I am attractive although I have a little extra fat right now.

[Opinion Owner]

You sound great, i dont see a problem. Maybe change your own selfesteem?

[Asker]

You are right. I already have a pretty face although I am a bit chubby.

[Guanfei]

Depends on how curvy you are I guess, because I've seen "curvy" used by fat people. Now, since he's fit and probably not much into people out of shape, you start with a handicap.
But personality can make a difference, and if he likes who you are, that might be enough.

[Asker]

I am a little chubby, big butt and nice boobs. I am presently hitting the gym to lose the extra fat. I have a pretty face though.

[Guanfei]

After that description, I wouldn't mind seeing what you look like :p
But I think he's probably interested, if you're like I imagine.

[Asker]

Maybe. We even exchange pictures often.

[Guanfei]

Well then he finds you physically attractive. Lucky him. Hope someday you'll do us the privilege of seeing you too :p

[Asker]

We send nudes to each other.

[Guanfei]

Yeah, well, I guess he's really interested.

[Asker]

But he doesn't talk much about his feelings towards me.

[Guanfei]

Why don't you make the first move? He might be interested in just sex with you, or maybe he just waits for you.

[Asker]

I told him I have a crush on him but he doesn't say yes or no, he only said "oh ok along with a "hesitant" emoji

[Guanfei]

Then you have 2 choices.
Keep going with all the nudes and flirting, and maybe ending up fucking him, not knowing if it will go further.
Or stop it now and move on.

[Asker]

In truth, I am loving the flirt and also I think whatever is bound to happen will happen with him.
But he keeps on talking to me after confessing my feelings.

[Guanfei]

Well if he wants to have sex with you, he has to talk to you, and your confession isn't a problem

[Asker]

I would not mind to sleep with him because I just want to feel good.

[Guanfei]

Well it's up to you. But you know he might now want more, and since you want more, you might be pretty disappointed.

[Asker]

I just want something no strings attached right now.

[Guanfei]

Well you have it, he'll certainly give it to you.
He's lucky, I'd love to have that too.

[Asker]

However, I still play hard to get. Does it keep him interested in me please.

[Guanfei]

Honestly, no. Most guys will usually go so far. Playing hard to get will just get him bored and think you're not interested, and he'll leave.
Either you're interested and then you go for it, or you're not and then you should move on.

[Asker]

But shall I respond his messages quickly? Because right now I wait a little so not to appear really clingy.

[Guanfei]

Wait a few minutes. Not too long.

[Asker]

Not hours? Because sometimes he will open my message and won't respond for hours and then after some hours he would send me some.

[Guanfei]

Send him a nude and see how fast he answers.

[Asker]

Oh no I let him come to you because I've sent the last message so the ball is in his court now.

[Guanfei]

Well, that's between you and him, I don't think I can help more for now.

[Asker]

Yeah thank you very much for your help.

[LolaMexico]

I have the same issues as you. But I realize sometimes we can not see what they see in us. Don't think to much and just enjoy it
Ir not now, when?

[Asker]

You are right because I have a pretty face although I'm little fat.

[Bad_Man55]

Just because he is fit and trim doesn't mean that is what he is attracted to. He may be draw to his opposite

[Asker]

You are totally right. Maybe I am underestimating myself.

[Bad_Man55]

You certainly are

[Asker]

Because I have a pretty face although I am a bit fat.

[Anonymous]

I hate this euphemism crap. It took me a few seconds to figure out why you would think a man WOULDN'T flirt with a curvy girl. Then I realized you didn't mean curvy.

Some guys like fat girls. Maybe he's one of em.

[Asker]

I am not fat but not thin too.

[Opinion Owner]

So you're a LITTLE bit fat. No big deal. Most of us are. I'm working on mine, and you're apparently working on yours, which is great. I just like to call things what they are instead of using feel-good substitutes.

I'm a little bit fat. Not husky or big-boned or thick. Calling it fat keeps me focused on getting rid of it instead of playing it off like it's nothing to bother with

[Asker]

Exactly I'm working out to reach my desired weight.

[Natehunter199]

Every guy has they own thing that they look for in a girl. Guys like curvs, trust me. Maybe you are the type of girl that is is intrested the most.

[Asker]

In fact I never dated a guy thinner than me before. This is why it keeps me wondering if an athletic guy like him would actually want me.

[Natehunter199]

Only one way to find out

[Asker]

How?

[Natehunter199]

Talk to him and see if he would like to go out for dinner or what not

[Asker]

Unfortunately he is working abroad right now :(

[prettygurlrock]

Sis he probably like what he sees. Maybe he prefer curvy women. Go with the flow and flirt back.

[Asker]

I am indeed flirting back but I tend to think it is too good to be true as he gets attention from lots of girl.

[prettygurlrock]

Sometimes look don't be what attractive a guy. You probably have a good personality that stands out from the other girls.

[Asker]

Perhaps since he messages me almost everyday.

[DepressionXglitter]

Hey girl, maybe curvy is his type. Or he could like you for your personality.

[Asker]

You are so right. He sends me a lot of pictures of himself and says I'm pretty. Maybe I was underestimating myself.

[TheAfrikan]

Rule of attraction there is no boundaries at all. So when it is attraction it is totally attraction curvy can totally pair with a fit body.
Muscles vs flesh.

[Asker]

I am working out to lose weight though. Not because of him but I wanted to lose some weight before meeting him.

[TheAfrikan]

A nice way to challenge yourself lady, if it is what you feel like then go ahead for it.😊

[Asker]

You are right because I feel my confidence level is rising up as a result of working out almost everyday.

[TheAfrikan]

Am truly happy for you on that journey madam Asker 😊☺ pump up get strong no giving up.

[NYlatefun]

You must be attractive.. or at least attractive to him.

[Asker]

I don't know why but lots of guys stare at me although I'm not thin.

[NYlatefun]

It doesn’t matter, not all attractive girls are thin, there are tons of not thin girls who are gorgeous

[Asker]

You are right somehow I am attractive because I get a lot of attention from men.

[NYlatefun]

I’m sure you are

[Asker]

Yeahh

[LittleMissPenny]

My question to you is, Why would you assume that guys don't like curves? Guys like lotsof things.

Tour selling yourself short

[nikooo0ooo]

Ye I like mayonnaise

[Asker]

Because he has six pack while I am a little tummy. I am hitting the gym to lose weight. I have a pretty face though.

[nikooo0ooo]

gettem girl, you fucking got this. Omg uwu

[Asker]

@nikooo0ooo I have a big butt, nice boobs and face too.

[nikooo0ooo]

damn girl sounds like maybe he should be wondering why you want him...

[Asker]

@nikooo0ooo Although I don't have a flat stomach?

[nikooo0ooo]

flat and not flat both hot

[nikooo0ooo]

I'm good looking somewhat and fit and I like thick girls and I would date one.

[Asker]

@nikooo0ooo He is really sexy but I am too. I am working out almost everyday to shed the excess pounds.

[HannahSparkles]

SOME GUYS LOVE CURVY WOMEN

[Asker]

Is it because we got big assets?

[Anonymous]

Many fit guys like women who has some extra in the right places. Don't worry about it, if he's flirting with you he's probably into you.

[IlluminatiExposed0]

Does he flirt with everyone or is it just you?

[Asker]

I don't know because he is actually pursuing his career abroad.

[Crazyguy222rt]

I like to flirt curvy girls.

[LittleMissPenny]

Me too. I like to flirt with everyone. Its not about curves, its about who they r

[Crazyguy222rt]

@LittleMissPenny yeah kinda. Are you lesbian or bi?

[Asker]

Why is that?

[Fuentes]

I like me them thick curvy chicks

[Asker]

Why?

[Fuentes]

Cause that ass shakes when im behind it

[Asker]

So you mean there are thin guys who love curvy girls.

[Fuentes]

Im not fat n ill dive up in a thick chick as long as u not fat like a whale lol

[Asker]

Hahaha I'm not fat like a whale 🤣

[Fuentes]

Then why u worried about all that then? Haha

[Asker]

I don't know why a lot of guys stare at me especially at the gym.

[Fuentes]

Cause u think ru bad tho?

[Asker]

I really don't know why guys stare at me although I'm not thin.

[Dave31989]

why not

he likely likes curves

[Asker]

Maybe. He says I am pretty and sexy but I thought it seemed to good to be true since there are a lot of girls who are after him.

[Anonymous]

He got a dumb brain

[Asker]

You serious?

[Opinion Owner]

That was sarcasm.
Guys are wired to be attracted to feminine features like curves

[Asker]

Even if I'm a bit fat?

[Opinion Owner]

Ya. Most guys don't care about a bit fit. Only shallow guys look at girls that are fit like them. Good guys don't care about fit and fat

[Asker]

You are right. I don't know why but lots of guys stare at me.