Do I need to be fit to attract a fit guy?

[Anonymous]

People tell me I’m beautiful and I think I’m pretty but I only seem to attract men I don’t find attractive. I’m not overweight or super skinny, I’m just average. I don’t look like a supermodel but I do think I’m pretty. I’m attracted to pretty boys and guys who are fit and have a nice body with muscles who frankly do look like models. I dress nice and fix myself up and people say I look nice but I never seem to attract many men. If I do, which I’d rare, they’re either much older than me (like old enough to be my father) or completely not my type. I’ve tried dating sites and I just can’t seem to find any guys who are my type. Is it because I’m just not meeting any, or would I have better luck if I were to be more fit myself? I really don’t meet many attractive men who are my type, where can I go to meet these men? I don’t want fuckboys, I want a serious relationship with a kind and chivalrous man. Sometimes I believe there just aren’t any men out there like that. Or if so, I’ve never met one. Where is he?

Obviously I like blondes. 😂

[Anonymous]

You have a problem. You claim:
"I don’t want fuckboys, I want a serious relationship with a kind and chivalrous man."Yet you want a man that looks like the above.
The two are all but mutually exclusive. If you want a decent, kind, chivalrous man who is relationship oriented, than why are you chasing body types that do not fit with that image. Guys look like the above because they spend all their time chasing women and going to the gym.

[Asker]

That’s not true. Just because a guy looks like that doesn’t mean he’s a jerk.

[Asker]

That’s judging a book by the cover.

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds like a nice theory, the whole book-cover thing, but there is a strong causal link here. Guys that look like that make a point of doing so for the purposes of getting women, specifically multiple superficial women. Chivalrous guys do no do that.

[Asker]

I guess I just like to look for the good in people and have too much hope...

[madgoat]

Guys like your pictures have 1000's of women vying for their attention. So you're going to need to stand out from the crowd because they can afford to be choosy.
Being beautiful and super fit may not be enough.

[Carterrrrbby]

U like the model type of guys that are ‘famous’.
Try to become famous lol, get a YouTube channel, try to go viral on tiktok, become an Instagram model. That’s how you will end up meeting people that look like that. Most famous people date other famous people. Don’t change yourself to get a man like that, just try to attract their attention. If u get a little cloud they’ll come.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Fit people usually get attracted to the type they are.

[gagsucs]

nah, guys dont like muscular girls and that will jus make guys more unnatracted to you,
if u wanna be attractive to guys jus dont be fat... thats all u gotta do... jus be a normal average weight girl

[ecfresh]

Yes, being healthy gives you a better chance of it.

[coolfreeusername]

Not necessarily, but keeping fit takes a lot of time and work and sharing such a time consuming hobby might benefit your chances.

[Anonymous]

I don't want to be rude but if you aren't fit then why should a guy who looks perfect be with you when he can find a woman who looks like a perfect 10

[Asker]

I’m not unfit. I have an average body (in my opinion) but a pretty face. I’ve been told I’m beautiful many times. I personally don’t see it, but that’s why I’m wondering if I need to put in more effort, you know?

[dthomas89]

But you'll still date other hair colors, right?

[Anonymous]

Depends what you look like

[Chill_Meta]

It would help

[coolhotchacha]

Little bit Yes

[Nice222]

It definitely helps