WWas a coworker realy staring at my chest while saying something to me? He has never done this before?

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He is an older guy. My chest was covered, unless the lighting made my shirt see through (you never know with how thin and poor quality women's tops are these days).

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Kiss_Me | 123 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Perhaps he was... The real question is- How do you feel about it? An older guy noticed and appreciated your shape. Is that a bad thing? Was it a long, lustful stare that creeped you out?
You are probably right, it was most likely a matter of being in the right place, with the right shirt, right lighting, etc to draw his attention.
I'd take it as a compliment.

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DavidFox

Yoda

If that was your gut feeling then he probably was. Guys are visual and can see boobs and stare at them even unconsciously.

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DavidFox

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Did the attention make you feel badly?
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No he's secretly really attractive to me. So i took it as him checking me out. Lol even tho he maybe wasn't
DavidFox

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That’s what I was curious about because many guys are hyper aware of sexual harassment at work.
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DavidFox

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Do other guys stare or did you notice him because you like him?

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DavidFox

Did the attention make you feel badly?

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Asker

No he's secretly really attractive to me. So i took it as him checking me out. Lol even tho he maybe wasn't

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DavidFox

That’s what I was curious about because many guys are hyper aware of sexual harassment at work.

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DavidFox

Do other guys stare or did you notice him because you like him?

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gandolph3

Yoda

Did you have on a necklace or have some printing on your shirt

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Anonymous

sometimes I avoid eye contact when I am trying to think. Maybe he was just averting his eyes

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Crazyguy222rt

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Are you complaining about women's short quality?

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Yeah just had to throw that in there. Hopefully they start making womens shirts better.
Crazyguy222rt

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They make these sheer shirts cuz there is demand in market..
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Ohhh
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Crazyguy222rt

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Yeah... lol

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Asker

Yeah just had to throw that in there. Hopefully they start making womens shirts better.

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Crazyguy222rt

They make these sheer shirts cuz there is demand in market..

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Crazyguy222rt

Yeah... lol

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Flakey-Flake

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Does it really matter lmao

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WWas a coworker realy staring at my chest while saying something to me? He has never done this before?

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