What did it mean that a coworker said this to me?

[Anonymous]

He has beeb flirting and being friendly for months. Now ge said:

You intrugue me. Ever since we met. There's something about you. you're so innocent. We have to keep in touch. Just in case"

Just curious what it means if a COWORKER says that

[Jenom]

It means he's probs interested in you and wants to maintain contact in case either of you leave the job.

[Asker]

But recently after he said that, he's started paying ton of attention to a new girl at work. So did he lose interest THAT fast?

[Jenom]

Then he's probs a player. Don't worry about him.

[Asker]

Ah okay. Thanks.

[slatyb]

He wants to date you. Is he single? Do you want to date him? If you do, invite hm to coffee or lunch or whatever.

[Asker]

Um he has a girlfriend so why would he say he wabts to date me? he's invited me to drink at bar and in park and invited me to a restaurant. I declined always. I dont drink and he knows that. So I don't know what goes on in his brain but it seems like he doesn't have the wires going in the right directions.

[slatyb]

Then tell him you would rather keep your conversation professional.

[ChefPapiChulo]

I feel like I’ve seen this before.

[jordnaus]

he want's some fuck

[Asker]

He knows i do not fornicate

[jordnaus]

that doesn't stop him from wanting that tho to be realistic. So yeah it is what it is and how you deal with it is up to you.

[Asker]

What part hinted that its sexual to you?

[jordnaus]

You must be very naive and innocent. For starters you said he's been flirting with you for months.. And just "You intrugue me. Ever since we met. There's something about you. you're so innocent. We have to keep in touch. Just in case"

Would he say that to another guy? No. He wants to date you or try to at least i don't know the situation other that what you said.

[Asker]

Well he has a girlfriend and i guess if he wants to date me he'd have to say so clearly. Cause I don't know what to do with vague flirting like this.

[jordnaus]

Well you never said that. That's a guy you don't want to date then.

How would you feel if your boyfriend flirted with a girl and said that shit?

[Asker]

Yeah i don't want him. Its weird he would hint to dating me or whatever he was saying if he's taken. Very odd

[jordnaus]

Red flags. Avoid him.

[Asker]

you're right. he's probably insane. He has no shame about any of this

[Asker]

His girlfriend on IG has lots of couples pics with him. Its a sham.

[jordnaus]

He has a fake girlfriend?

[Asker]

I don't know, i was just saying that it makes it look like he's a faithful guy in a strong relationship.

[Asker]

But he flirts to this extent behind her back