Coworker said this, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

Coworker and I always looking at eachother and sometimes talk. The other day they said " We're coworkers because we could be trouble" what does this mean? Are they flirting with me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that's a pretty interesting and ambiguous comment from your coworker there. The whole "we're coworkers because we could be trouble" thing - that's definitely got some flirty undertones to it.

It kind of sounds like they're hinting that if you two weren't coworkers, there could be something more going on between you. Like they're implying there's some sort of connection or chemistry there that you have to be careful about since you work together.

The way you mentioned you two have been making eyes at each other and chatting more, that adds to the suspicion that they might be trying to flirt with you on the low. Saying you "could be trouble" together is a pretty playful, suggestive kind of remark.

Honestly, I'd take that as a sign they're definitely interested in you romantically, not just as a friendly coworker. They're kinda testing the waters, seeing if you pick up on the flirty vibe.

Just be cautious with this, though. Getting involved with a coworker can get really messy, real fast. You gotta weigh whether it's worth the potential drama and awkwardness at work if things don't work out.

My advice would be to not reciprocate the flirty comments for now. Keep things professional and try to steer clear of any more suggestive remarks. If they keep pushing it, you may need to have a serious talk with them about crossing boundaries.

Your job and comfort should come first, girl. Don't let a coworker romance ruin that for you. But if you do think there could be something real there, just tread carefully. Use your best judgment. Let me know if you need any other advice on this!

[SleepingHazard]

"We're coworkers because we could be trouble."
No. I have no idea. Ask them, to be sure.