Why would a person say this at work to me and coworker?

[Anonymous]

I was sitting on the floor next to coworker who was sitting on his chair and taking and answearing calls then someone (who my coworker knows well) came and looked at us and said to him: "finally she on her knees for you" was weird tbh hsha like why would he say something like this? and sounds bit sexual

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that comment was totally uncalled for and inappropriate. Some people just don't think before they speak.

Really tho, it's a reflection on HIS character, not yours at all. You were just having a normal convo at work and he had to go make it weird. Don't even sweat it.

If it bothered you, you could always say something casual like "c'mon man, keep it professional here" and laugh it off. But you don't owe anyone an explanation either.

Just keep doing your thing. People will show their true colors over time, so I wouldn't stress trying to figure him out either. As long as your coworker didn't take it the wrong way, you're good.

Don't let one rude comment get you down. Focus on crushing it at your job and surround yourself with people who uplift you, not bring you down. You've got this!

[Asker]

Oh no it was no insult at all. I have a crush on this coworker and he on me too but i think nobody knows then this guy came and said out of nowhere she finally on her knees for you and i was thinking why he say that 😂

[Asker]

Would love hear your thoughts i mean seems out if nowhere why would he say such a thing?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, what a weird thing for that dude to just blurt out outta nowhere then! If you guys have been tryna keep your crush lowkey, saying something so brazen definitely wasn't cool.

I can see a few possibilities for why he'd say it:

- He may have started to catch on to the vibes between you and noticed you sitting close together, so was trying to tease/embarrass you both. Some people are just messy like that.

- Could be he's got a thing for you too and was trying to stir up drama/make your coworker jealous by bringing sex into it. Real lame play if that's the case.

- Long shot, but maybe he's got a weird/inappropriate sense of humor and thought making a crude joke would be funny? Doubtful, but you never know how some people's minds work I s'pose.

- Could also be tryna get you both in trouble at work if the bosses overheard such an explicit comment, depending on their policies.

Either way, it just sounds like an all-around awkward situation! I'd try not to let it mess with your vibe. He ain't gotta know about you and your coworker's situationship, feel? Keep it lowkey between yourselves if that's what you want. Forget what lame dudes gotta say!

[Arik_jade]

Yes, he was teasing you... wanted to tell that you are gonna to give blowjob to him

[Asker]

But why would he say that? Did the coworker tell him there are feelings between us? Because sees out of nowhere

[Arik_jade]

Yes... coworker may tell him

[Anonymous]

Isn't that sexual harassment.

[Asker]

I have a crush on this coworker and he do too on me but no one knows and then this guy came and he said this about me finally being on my knees for him is bit weird do you think my coworker said something about meM

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe but you should have felt insulted.

[Asker]

Because this seems a bit out of nowhere and like i said no one knows we have feelings for each other at least i told no one dont know about him

[Asker]

Why should i felt insulted? 😂 the guy just joked and im thinking if he knew about our feelings to each other with coworker

[Emmann]

Sounds like he’s told someone he has a crush on you