What is the first thing that turns girls on?

[edwin88]

What is the first thing that turns girls on about guys?

[the-love-guru]

Physical attraction is usually first, but not neccessarily THE most important. I'm a sucker for a good haircut and kind eyes. After all, the eyes are the window to the soul. To me, I just like guys that are well put together. They take effort in their general appearance- well groomed, smell clean, fresh clothes, nice teeth, etc. You don't have to have the expensive stuff, but putting in the effort will DEFINENTLY get a girl's attention. We notice the smallest things.

A guy could be smoking hot, but if he's overly-cocky or rude to those around him,I'm gone... but an average looking joe will win my heart with a bubbly personality or great sense of humor. THAT is what creates chemistry and leads to a lasting relationship.

[felicia]

Just personal turn-ons/offs in no particular order.

- I second accents. Anything non-RP and non-posh. Lancashire & 'younger generation' London are music to my ears.

- A relaxed manner - not taking things too seriously or getting worked up too easily, able to tease & have fun.

- Intelligence - not in terms of knowledge necessarily, but being sharp & quick-witted, and not letting anyone take advantage.

- Broad shoulders & good poisture

- The less facial hair the better - long hair & bushy body hair are turnoffs

- Long hand fingers

- Dark skin

- Slim faces

- Slitty eyes

[ALWAYSclassy]

First thing, he should have a nice face.

Then a good smile

Nice body, good style. I like muscles and tone but not overboard.

He should smell good and take good care of himself

Personality: he should be easygoing and friendly. I like a guy that's not trying too hard but genuinely makes you feel good when you're around him

[marisa]

I might be crazy but I look at his teeth! I've always had a thing for teeth, probably because I'm obsessed with my own smile. At any rate, smile and, I'd have to agree, body. Then clothes...if a guy is well dressed, it shows he cares enough to make an effort.

[JackOslan]

So basically no matter what you do you're simultaneously going to be turning some people on and others off no matter who you are or what you're doing because everyone is different.

[XXPepperXX]

-he's cute, but not too cute

-he has a nice, funny, intelligent personality

-he doesn't smell bad

-he cares about others

-he is honest and would nvr cheat on me

-he's weird in his own special way

-he's got a great smile and a good sense of humor

there's a lot more, but in general, I'm looking for some1 who's a lot like me :)

[GruffBalloon]

What do you mean too cute?

[XXPepperXX]

As in he's not *too* good looking. is that a bit weird? x) ha ha in general I just want to be with someone average.

[rainydaydreamaway]

Lots of things... I could go on forever, but the main things guys should know:

I (and most other people) can sense when a guy is comfortable with himself and I can sense when he is trying to be something he is not. Even with shyer guys who might be less confident, I find them more of a turn on than guys who feel the need to put on an act or be the center of attention.

[A-R-Norman]

It all depends on the girl -- for me --it's his eyes. The eyes are the window to the soul. They let you know if a person is intelligent, open, fun, mean, angry or hiding something.

After that it si his smile and the way he carries himself--to me a man who is confident is sexy no matter his height or weight.

[emzy-89]

1. musicians are just INCREDIBLE! especailly a guy who can sing/play guitar and piano...divine!

2. intelligence

3. facial hair, different styles suit different men/longer hair (dark hair)

4. great smile makes me melt

5. nice dark eyes

6. can hold a conversation

7. is interested in more than just one thing

8. caring/protective

9. honesty/respect/loyalty

10. nice arms, from the tips of his fingers to his shoulders

11. smells good

[rocket]

His body type...if he's in shape and shows it off just a tiny bit. Then I look at how he's acting...if he's laughing and smiling, that's a turn on. If he looks sad or stuck-up, that's a turn off.

[rosynante]

It's how he makes me feel...if he makes me laugh or blush, I get turned on. If he makes me uncomfortable or insecure in any way, I want to get away as fast as I can!

[totherescue657]

amazing perfume.

if a guy walks past with a really good fresh smell and it's not too strong they become automatically irresistable

i'd suggest

DKNY be delicious

BULGARI homme - its a dark green bottle

PACCO ROBANNE - black xs

[Hollister78]

Guys wear cologne girls wear perfume

[ashleakate]

I might be odd,

But accents!

Like I love a London or American accents.

But I don't really like Yorkshire accents, even though that's where I'm from!

[iheartwishstars]

Physically: eyes and a good smile, it's also good to be different, to have a style all your own

Personality-wise: a good sense of humor (goes hand-in-hand with the smile) and confidence

[Cotton-Candy-Summer]

A guy who is laughing, smiling, and having a good time with all of his buddies, but will make me feel like I'm the only one in the room when he talks to me is DEFINITELY wonderful!

[tailgate]

I agree with the body type...I also look at eye color and hands. I'm not sure why I look at hands but I do!

[Asrai]

Lols, I've always liked height. If they are taller than me... and broad shoulders. Yeah, shoulders are a big turn on for me. I have no idea why. xD

Frankly though, I'm into a guy with a little bit of edge. Someone who catches my attention... and keeps it.

[Standingpretty]

How happy he seems. If I look at a guy from a distance and he looks happy and sociable, then that's the first step in attraction.

[starbucksaddict14]

Someone who has amazing eyes and cute dimples when he smiles. :)

Also someone who doesn't try too hard to look good.

[jessi02]

Looks matter first...then personality..then eyes...then whatever else I find attractive in a certain person..may vary.

[Anonymous]

a couple things . . . .

1 broad shoulders, narrow hips-- make me shiver

2 smiles. seriously.

3 you gotta talk to me, don't sit there and make flirty eyes at me, talk to me

4 FUNNY. if you can't make me laugh I don't want anything to do with you

5 fun, the whole point is to have fun right? be adventurous, please!

6 weird as it is, if a guy is comfortable enough to jokingly make fun of himself, it's great

way way more, but I'm tired.

[Anonymous]

Whenever it looks like a guy is laughing or smiling, it's definitley a turn on, and it makes you easier to approach, or want to get to know. Also, a nice smile is bonus points!!

[miki94]

Dark eyes and broad shoulders. =)

Just initially of course.

[xsarahxsceleticx]

His scent. And there's something about watching a mans hands in work (such as working underneath the hood of a car). I don't know what it is but it's just so sexy.

[rainydaydreamaway]

Yes, I have an overwhelming hotspot for guys who can fix or make or take apart things or figure them out. I am endlessly fascinated by this.

[lila243777]

His humor, his personality as a whole. someone who helps you when you drop your books or comes up to you when you look depressed and asks if you are okay. someone non-self absorbed.

That would turn me on.

[fanofphan]

If he's a gentleman, but not condescendingly so. For instance, he holds doors not just for you but for everyone, other males included. But only if this is really him. Trust me bradas, a girl can smell a fake a mile away.

[luckoftheirish33hot]

Quadratic formula, nice

[Anonymous]

cocky guys are the biggest turn off. don't act like you're the s***.

[Airbornesally]

I'm all about personality! If a guy has a great personality and I can tell from the moment I met him its a major turn on! I also LOVE a good smile. My favorite body parts to check out that turn me on is arms and neck.

[cutenblonde]

They're body, then it goes to the eyes, then the hair! then clothes! any more ? just ask me!

[Anonymous]

Personally for me I like athletic boys. if he likes football and has good hair he's hot.

[sodar]

Size of his...feet! hahaha

[Anonymous]

Arms, I love guys arms.

[Anonymous]

Teeth, definitely! Clean, white, straight TEETH!