Do guys really get freaked out when the girl expresses..

[Unreallover]

how she feels, like by telling him she likes him a lot or just texting to say she is thinking about him.what do guys think about that kind of stuff? does commitment really freak men out?

[Atomizer]

I don't mind if a girl tells me she likes me, or texts simply to say hello. In fact, I like when girls do things like that occasionally.

However, it would bother me if a girl said (or did that) a lot. If she says she likes me a lot, I wonder why she's telling me the same things so often. Is she insecure and needing reassurance? (reg flag). Is she looking for an ego stroke? (another red flag). Is she clingy? Does she expect me to make her happy?

However, the things you mentioned do not define commitment.

And not all men are freaked out by the idea of commitment.

[Unreallover]

Well its always nice to know that the guy has similar feelings..which from experience they don't usual admit to

[meogE]

I know when a girl tells me how she feels about me it makes me feel great. When my girlfriend texts me randomly to tell me that she misses me it makes me feel like she needs me, which is very nice. However my girlfriend has told me I'm not a normal guy and it's weird that I like all that and that most men would find it obsessive. I do find it very nice when a girl tells me how much she likes me.

[Unreallover]

Is it a good thing to feel needed? I mean is it to a certain extent, what are the limits?

[meogE]

Personally I like a girl to need me just to function, but I'm a bit of a clingy guy myself, I'd say just communicate and see how much your boyfriend likes it.

[ggazelles]

If he's not your official boyfriend, then try and restrain yourself. Guys hate clingy girls. Only text him once for every three or four times that you have the urge to and never text him twice in a row if you don't get a response to your first text.

[4u2nv]

opps.Idk! I do this all the time! I tell him that I miss him& how I feel about him.& how he makes me feel, & my body feel.lol. But I say it to his face also.

[crazydude]

its does not really freak guys out if you txt them and say "i miss you" or something like that. Well unless you do it like every 5 mins. It freaks them out that they have to respond to that with something similar. Say it all you want its nice, just don't expect the same thing back every time.

[gotc147]

Commitment scares a lot of men, but the better man always loves to hear that his girl is thinking of him.

[wally]

No but I'd love you to do that face to face better than a txt or phone call it will mean a lot for me .