How does a guy get hard just by being around me?

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand guys that well. There’s this guy that gets hard; even if we’re not even doing anything sexual. Is that normal? He tells me I make him so hard. I don’t get it

[DJB72]

Personally I had this issue...

Not since I was 12, but I had the issue. Most guys do at some point, but before they have any experience beyond the onset of puberty. I was a dancer - ballet - so I was around girls in very little clothing a lot and learned to control it very quickly. Most guys don't have that advantage.

It's possible he has some twisted idea that telling you this is some sort of compliment. Like if Trump grabbed your genitals. Personally I think there are better ways to tell a lady she's attractive. You know, ways that don't come with restraining orders or sexual assault charges...

[Asker]

Well, he didn’t just tell me. I saw for myself and he didn’t even lay a hand on me yet at that point

[The_Sal]

Dude sounds like a horn ball.
Or maybe you dress very sexy or provocativly and just don't realize how sexy you look. Guys are about visual stimuli while women are about mental stimuli. That's why there are all those romance novels and for men it's just porn.

[Asker]

I was wearing my work uniform so not sexy😅

[The_Sal]

We will get to bottom of this dilemma ✊

What do you if you don't mind me asking?

Girls look sexy in anything, remember men are visual creatures😅

[Asker]

What do I what?

[The_Sal]

What kind of job uniform is it?

[Asker]

A waitress. So an apron and slip resistant shoes. He says I always make him hard and I don’t know what I do 🤷‍♀️

[The_Sal]

The apron is the culprit.
Do some role play with him like act like you're his waitress then serve him food then pour some whip cream on your chest and give him his "dessert" lol

I donate plasma and fantasize about the lady phlebotomy there with their lab coats and face Shields 😅.
Guys are savages.

[The_Sal]

Phlebotomist**

[Asker]

Do you really think it’s the apron? What if I’m wearing “normal” clothes and he still gets hard?

[The_Sal]

Then he must be crazy attracted to you. 🤷‍♂️

Probably something about you that drives him absolutely nuts where he just wants to rip your clothes off and go full cave man on you.

[EmmaMary]

Well obviously I'm not a guy, but even I know that if you were to look in a mirror you would very clearly see and understand just why this guy gets hard.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[ohshee]

Hannah get to MAGNETS 1 in each hand first finger and thumb roll them around each other but don't let them touch ok MAGNETS have 2 sides ,, now flip them over and do the same thing don't let them touch of now focus on the feeling your getting from the MAGNETS and in your hands from the MAGNETS. Thst is energy. We are made of energy. Thst feeling you are feeling. From the MAGNETS. Well if u ever really stop and pay attention. We as people do the same thing and feel that same feeling between each other thst why that happened to guys. Test it out try it and u will understand it more

[DJ1998]

1. You are stunningly beautiful and i presume you have a great body to go along with your face 😂😍
2. he's a guy and being around girls as beautiful as you, no matter how you act or what you say, will het his imagination going and start his wishfull thinking 😂
3, guys are weak and we get thrned on extremely easy 😂

[God_of_Thunder]

It's not that unusual, honestly.

There's been plenty of times I've gotten hard just being around a girl. He probably just has a high sex drive, and obviously finds you attractive. Probably checking you out. It's fairly normal.

[MCheetah]

Guys get boners when we're attracted or aroused by someone. I've had it happen to someone I near instantly felt infatuation for, in a college library and I had to pretend to take a phone call and turn my back to her so she wouldn't see the huge giant erection I had talking to her. They can be pretty awkward, but there is no "lying" about them. Dude obviously really likes you, and that can go beyond just looks or sexual attraction. (And to be fair, you're pretty hot. Probably tall, too.)

[Jenom]

He's likely really into you. This used to happen to me with my first love. It's like when you love someone your emotions go crazy and can cause erections and other chemical reactions. I bet he's super into you.

[JPrez]

Men are visual creatures and that goes directly to our brain then to our equipment. All it can take is him seeing you in a certain outfit or swimsuit or lingerie for example.

[Avicenna]

Because he’s physically attracted to you and may be imagining what it would be like to have sex with you

[CameronStark]

Are you and this guy in a relationship? If not, he's sexually harassing you. If you are in a relationship, it's pretty normal. He CAN control himself and not tell you about it, though. It's not your problem. This guy sounds like a creep.

[serious]

Well, if a guy has unusually high levels of sexual desires then I suppose it can happen if he sees a sexually attractive woman.

Possible.

[pigoat]

Yeah i inow i got hard next to the last girl i was talking to


I just wanted to fuck her

I don't understand

[lightbulb27]

it's what he's thinking about, either he's messing with you or very attracted.

[jeremy_09]

if we say you make me so hard it doesn't mean we're literally hard right at that moment, just that you're really hot and we jerk off to you or want to fuck you

[Gedaria]

It's quite easy. Some women are sexy. But others are such a turn on even with their clothes on.
I get this with Jennifer Aniston even more so if she is showing her nipples through her top.

[Jerre]

Some girls just make a guys cock hard, even with no sexual matters involved. Next time, rub his cock through his pants and see what happens. Will also give you a good idea how big is cock is..

[AFellowWeeb]

how hot would u have to be for that to happen?
there are only 2 reasons i can think of:
1 - he's trying to avoid masturbaiting, so he gets hard easly;
2 - u remind him of his favourite porn star

[Finchie40]

He finds you very attractive and wants to have sex with you

[Massageman]

He uses his imagination when he sees you. He may also be doing some kegels to get the blood flowing down there.

[Alexalex92]

Of course we can get hard like that. Because you're sexy

[Asker]

Do guys get hard around many girls?

[Alexalex92]

We could

[MysteriousDarkness]

It means he gets turned on by the way you look. He finds you sexy.

[pizzalovershouse]

I wouldn't let it bother you guys get turned on by all kinds of things or why would they stare at other girls well they have a girlfriend