How does a guy get hard just by being around me?

Question

I don’t understand guys that well. There’s this guy that gets hard; even if we’re not even doing anything sexual. Is that normal? He tells me I make him so hard. I don’t get it

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

Personally I had this issue...

Not since I was 12, but I had the issue. Most guys do at some point, but before they have any experience beyond the onset of puberty. I was a dancer - ballet - so I was around girls in very little clothing a lot and learned to control it very quickly. Most guys don't have that advantage.

It's possible he has some twisted idea that telling you this is some sort of compliment. Like if Trump grabbed your genitals. Personally I think there are better ways to tell a lady she's attractive. You know, ways that don't come with restraining orders or sexual assault charges...

The_Sal · Accepted Answer

Dude sounds like a horn ball.
Or maybe you dress very sexy or provocativly and just don't realize how sexy you look. Guys are about visual stimuli while women are about mental stimuli. That's why there are all those romance novels and for men it's just porn.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Well obviously I'm not a guy, but even I know that if you were to look in a mirror you would very clearly see and understand just why this guy gets hard.

Bidensucks2020 · Accepted Answer

men are vision oriented , women are more with words

ohshee · Answer

Hannah get to MAGNETS 1 in each hand first finger and thumb roll them around each other but don't let them touch ok MAGNETS have 2 sides ,, now flip them over and do the same thing don't let them touch of now focus on the feeling your getting from the MAGNETS and in your hands from the MAGNETS. Thst is energy. We are made of energy. Thst feeling you are feeling. From the MAGNETS. Well if u ever really stop and pay attention. We as people do the same thing and feel that same feeling between each other thst why that happened to guys. Test it out try it and u will understand it more

DJ1998 · Answer

1. You are stunningly beautiful and i presume you have a great body to go along with your face 😂😍
2. he's a guy and being around girls as beautiful as you, no matter how you act or what you say, will het his imagination going and start his wishfull thinking 😂
3, guys are weak and we get thrned on extremely easy 😂

God_of_Thunder · Answer

It's not that unusual, honestly.

There's been plenty of times I've gotten hard just being around a girl. He probably just has a high sex drive, and obviously finds you attractive. Probably checking you out. It's fairly normal.

MCheetah · Answer

Guys get boners when we're attracted or aroused by someone. I've had it happen to someone I near instantly felt infatuation for, in a college library and I had to pretend to take a phone call and turn my back to her so she wouldn't see the huge giant erection I had talking to her. They can be pretty awkward, but there is no "lying" about them. Dude obviously really likes you, and that can go beyond just looks or sexual attraction. (And to be fair, you're pretty hot. Probably tall, too.)

Jenom · Answer

He's likely really into you. This used to happen to me with my first love. It's like when you love someone your emotions go crazy and can cause erections and other chemical reactions. I bet he's super into you.

JPrez · Answer

Men are visual creatures and that goes directly to our brain then to our equipment. All it can take is him seeing you in a certain outfit or swimsuit or lingerie for example.

Avicenna · Answer

Because he’s physically attracted to you and may be imagining what it would be like to have sex with you

CameronStark · Answer

Are you and this guy in a relationship? If not, he's sexually harassing you. If you are in a relationship, it's pretty normal. He CAN control himself and not tell you about it, though. It's not your problem. This guy sounds like a creep.

serious · Answer

Well, if a guy has unusually high levels of sexual desires then I suppose it can happen if he sees a sexually attractive woman. Possible.

Finchie40 · Answer

He finds you very attractive and wants to have sex with you

pigoat · Answer

Yeah i inow i got hard next to the last girl i was talking to I just wanted to fuck her I don't understand

lightbulb27 · Answer

it's what he's thinking about, either he's messing with you or very attracted.

jeremy_09 · Answer

if we say you make me so hard it doesn't mean we're literally hard right at that moment, just that you're really hot and we jerk off to you or want to fuck you

Gedaria · Answer

It's quite easy. Some women are sexy. But others are such a turn on even with their clothes on. I get this with Jennifer Aniston even more so if she is showing her nipples through her top.

Jerre · Answer

Some girls just make a guys cock hard, even with no sexual matters involved. Next time, rub his cock through his pants and see what happens. Will also give you a good idea how big is cock is..

AFellowWeeb · Answer

how hot would u have to be for that to happen? there are only 2 reasons i can think of: 1 - he's trying to avoid masturbaiting, so he gets hard easly; 2 - u remind him of his favourite porn star

Massageman · Answer

He uses his imagination when he sees you. He may also be doing some kegels to get the blood flowing down there.

Alexalex92 · Answer

Of course we can get hard like that. Because you're sexy

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

It means he gets turned on by the way you look. He finds you sexy.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

I wouldn't let it bother you guys get turned on by all kinds of things or why would they stare at other girls well they have a girlfriend

Guardian45 · Answer

Direct connection from eyes and other senses to the subconscious brain 🧠 to the dick! VOILA! INSTANT BONER!

gandolph3 · Answer

every guy has that one girl that does it for him, whether he admits it or not. he just gets so horny at the thought of her , it is worse being near her. you are his

joeblow123 · Answer

Your question could fit into two categories: "Guy's behavior" and "how do I look"?

winterfox10 · Answer

That's normal... he just finds you extremely attractive. You probably smell and look good.

larry69 · Answer

Because you look beautiful and he is sexually attracted to you.

SilverRain92 · Answer

That's very natural for a guy to feel aroused by a girl whom he likes

MM442 · Answer

I would get my dick hard being around you, your a beautiful girl!

Paulychicago10 · Answer

Not completely normal. He probably only sees you as a sexual object

AlexDeLarge · Answer

It just means you really turn him on. He must be really attracted to you

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

It is not normal. He sounds like he has over-active sexual hormones and may even get hard if he sees a 99 year old woman removing her diaper!

Jakeofalltrades93 · Answer

because he is thinking about doing sexual things with you

Valnac · Answer

From the way you look in your profile would explain it. You are one hot lady.

dsrice1966 · Answer

Yes, guys are very visual, you would make most guys hard as you are very gorgeous.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, maybe because you told him you think about him when you use your vibrator?

BobbyC65 · Answer

Doesn't your nipples get hard when you're around your boyfriend when there's no sexual stuff going on you'll see why his penis gets hard?

jakey70 · Answer

I can see that happening. You're so very cute and sexy.

bclbn77006 · Answer

Because he always thinks of sex even consider you a sex object.

dpy87 · Answer

Its hard being a guy, literally. Your cock gets hard at the slightest sight of a female and it happens throughout the day. You can't control it.

GloriousGlen · Answer

Do you show off skin? Do you have a naturally flirty voice? Your guess is as good as mine

Iron_Man · Answer

Because he sexually aroused by you

msc545 · Answer

Just looking at you is probably enough...

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

cause he's want to fuck you

hellknight666 · Answer

Your a drop dead hottie so maybe that's why

Dman19 · Answer

Look in the mirror honey🥵🤤

Larson7 · Answer

Well look at you!!

OddBeMe · Answer

Do you get wet without stimulation, and in public?

Anonymous · Answer

It's hard to believe your 23 & still this naive

TheMeditativeOwl · Answer

Wear something really revealing

Smf1989 · Answer

Its ur beauty

jordnaus · Answer

lmao what the fuck

johnkena · Answer

Yes its normal

Anonymous · Answer

I would

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