Every "wise, mature and successful" man has this lens that separate women into two categories -
1. FUCK 2. MARRY
Men prefer both of these types to be good looking, attractive - once this part is accomplished, beyond this comes the character part, and that's when the MARRY decision is made. And that's when the quality of the character is required. It's better if the good character is displayed from the beginning but it takes a little while for men to distinguish the illusion of looks from the real woman.
And I said wise and successful men because desperate, unsuccessful and needy men will go for anything
Yes girls are "losing" I'd refraze by saying they are missing out on the quality guys because of modern dating habits and ideals that are turning the quality guys away. Why do you think it's just a matter of choice on my part. If a girl isn't investing in me even if she is quality I'm still walking. Why would I want to chase someone who won't give me the time of day? It's a mutual effort or I'm keeping it moving.
My fiance whom I Met Here, Dear, Nearly Three Years Ago, Together for Two----We feel we are "Quality People". Some Horn Dogs may Chase those Porny Horny girls on those Media Sites for their own Delights. Are into more of That than even Someone who is Real Deal like Yourself---Top Shelf, @luvstoned4him who I have Always Admired. xx
True. Men may consider themselves better than us for not having mood swings and other hormonal effects but they freaking lose their shit whenever they are horny.
Dude listen. I just broke up with the guy who cheated on me twice (the first time he did I gave him a second chance) and had other boyfriends before who were shitty. You guys just get mad when you realize that we won't turn ourselves into your personal little exclusive sluts.
I’ve been wondering about the same a lot lately, as a few friends started dating girls that I perceived as clearly being very shallow gold diggers. I believe the perception of “quality” is very subjective, of course most guys when choosing to date a girl think that’s the best quality (or the best they can get). I believe sometimes both who dates and the onwatcher can give weight to aspects that are a bit superficial. For example, a friend started dating a girl who only talks about fashion, but is extremely pretty. To me the fact she sounds brainless is a signal of poor quality, but he probably is very attracted to her. I also tend to judge people based on the job they have, which I know is superficial, so maybe a boy is dating a girl who is very sweet and caring but has a bad job, and I’ll wrongly think that she’s bad quality...
Different men have different standards to judge whether women are 'quality women', just like different women like different types of men. A man might find a woman to be the most precious person in the world, while another man might detest the same woman.
"Quality" is completely subjective, both in how you view yourself, and others. I think of myself as the hottest thing since thermite... how many people agree with that view is a different thing altogether.
On another note, you know, you can always choose and pursue the men you want, to not simply be a static object waiting to be picked up.
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For what? The answer depends on what he is looking for. Casual sexual relationships have become very common and are the expectation for younger guys who are not interested in a serious relationship or looking to settle down, and standards are lower for that.
When it comes to looking for a mate, men choose the highest quality women they can.
Thing is, many women sexualized and objectify themselves and spread their legs to randoms these days, it happens so much to the point some men forget about quality women and ignore them, then women complain about why guys are so blinded by sex and their dicks guiding them, they are pretty much shooting themselves in the foot when they act slutty, making everyone more shallow in the process from both sides, focusing the modern idea of "quality" in temporary things like butts, boobs, abs, dick size, etc It's increasing and spreading faster than you'd think, therefore finding a good genuine partner becomes harder as society "evolves" like this
Even if a woman's thinking isn't rational, i can agree some woman do open their legs, but the majority don't and not to mention that a lot of woman are sexual assault victims
But men pressure woman into sexual things or even manipulate them into having intercourse or even just sucking their dick and ill tell you what that is its sexual assault
Yeah, men think with their dicks, and many women encourage that with slutty behaviour, men are animals and women are idiots because they make that worse when they show stuff like "hey I'm a slut and I'll let you fuck me for no good reason", and since men are dick-driven dumbasses, they think all other women are the same and the wheel rolls from there
And hey, if women weren't so stupid, they wouldn't get tricked into having intercourse with mindless animals like many men, I wish they were a bit more educated and a bit less emotional
What I'm saying is, both genders are at fault, men are naturally very sexual and would go to extreme lengths to get pussy, and women don't handle that well at all and they keep giving off wrong messages to guys, which is why I hate sluts with a passion And I wish there were more good men out there who actually think with their brains
Of course they do. It's just a matter of finding them. From my observations the best way for both sexes to find quality partners is not to force it. The couples I know that are in long-lasting quality happy relationships met their partners totally by accident, for example at school or work, where they got to know the person reasonably well before an intimate relationship grew.
Quality, like beauty, is subjective. Well before Conner 4Real (bonus points if u get that reference), i had it in my mind that the Mona Lisa was one of the ugliest paintings in the history of man. But, people have fallen all over themselves at the mere mention of that rag for quite a large number of years.
Granted, as a whole, i think that the amount of quality in quality people has lessened over time.
Tastes change over time. And i dont mean just over generations.
I think both sexes pretty much fail at epic levels due to insecurities why we have so many divorces. I wouldn’t say ones worse than the other I think in America as a culture it normal for people to suck at choosing the right partner
Well, it's often women that do the choosing. If she doesn't want us, it doesn't matter what we want. But it's also hard to get to know anyone well enough to know if they're "quality" or not. Especially in today's world. People tend to make assumptions about people as well without getting to know them in any way. I find this especially with women. They think they know it all. I'm not bashing women, this is my honest observation of a lot of them. It's sad. But "bad" guys have made them this way.
its harder tahn ever to pick a quality woman because sex is so easy to get. i can get nude photos BEFORE the first date nowadays. feminism has ironically given men all the power in dating and they aren't going to use it to find wives they're just gonna use it to fuck
Depends on the guy. Some guys are just deperate and will take whatever will have them.
The other issue you have is women who present themselves as quality women but in reality, they're liars, cheaters and users only in it for the money and will leave the guy when a better deal comes along.
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Every "wise, mature and successful" man has this lens that separate women into two categories -
1. FUCK
2. MARRY
Men prefer both of these types to be good looking, attractive - once this part is accomplished, beyond this comes the character part, and that's when the MARRY decision is made. And that's when the quality of the character is required. It's better if the good character is displayed from the beginning but it takes a little while for men to distinguish the illusion of looks from the real woman.
And I said wise and successful men because desperate, unsuccessful and needy men will go for anything
Yes girls are "losing" I'd refraze by saying they are missing out on the quality guys because of modern dating habits and ideals that are turning the quality guys away. Why do you think it's just a matter of choice on my part. If a girl isn't investing in me even if she is quality I'm still walking. Why would I want to chase someone who won't give me the time of day? It's a mutual effort or I'm keeping it moving.
My fiance whom I Met Here, Dear, Nearly Three Years Ago, Together for Two----We feel we are "Quality People". Some Horn Dogs may Chase those Porny Horny girls on those Media Sites for their own Delights. Are into more of That than even Someone who is Real Deal like Yourself---Top Shelf, @luvstoned4him who I have Always Admired. xx
They do but they cheat on us with the same women they don't consider quality women behind our backs.
Amen to this
It's because guys don't actually have standards. Most will literally take any opportunity to satisfy their needs.
True. Men may consider themselves better than us for not having mood swings and other hormonal effects but they freaking lose their shit whenever they are horny.
Wow I'm shocked you guys think that way all men are not bad
Dude listen. I just broke up with the guy who cheated on me twice (the first time he did I gave him a second chance) and had other boyfriends before who were shitty. You guys just get mad when you realize that we won't turn ourselves into your personal little exclusive sluts.
And keep in mind I never really dated a 'bad guy', my exes were mainly young students like me, and the latest did a regular office job.
I’ve been wondering about the same a lot lately, as a few friends started dating girls that I perceived as clearly being very shallow gold diggers. I believe the perception of “quality” is very subjective, of course most guys when choosing to date a girl think that’s the best quality (or the best they can get). I believe sometimes both who dates and the onwatcher can give weight to aspects that are a bit superficial. For example, a friend started dating a girl who only talks about fashion, but is extremely pretty. To me the fact she sounds brainless is a signal of poor quality, but he probably is very attracted to her. I also tend to judge people based on the job they have, which I know is superficial, so maybe a boy is dating a girl who is very sweet and caring but has a bad job, and I’ll wrongly think that she’s bad quality...
Different men have different standards to judge whether women are 'quality women', just like different women like different types of men. A man might find a woman to be the most precious person in the world, while another man might detest the same woman.
"Quality" is completely subjective, both in how you view yourself, and others. I think of myself as the hottest thing since thermite... how many people agree with that view is a different thing altogether.
On another note, you know, you can always choose and pursue the men you want, to not simply be a static object waiting to be picked up.
For what? The answer depends on what he is looking for. Casual sexual relationships have become very common and are the expectation for younger guys who are not interested in a serious relationship or looking to settle down, and standards are lower for that.
When it comes to looking for a mate, men choose the highest quality women they can.
@Anon thanks for that
Sure thing. Good luck, hope you find a quality guy.
Thanks man. Same to u as well.. well a quality woman for u
Thing is, many women sexualized and objectify themselves and spread their legs to randoms these days, it happens so much to the point some men forget about quality women and ignore them, then women complain about why guys are so blinded by sex and their dicks guiding them, they are pretty much shooting themselves in the foot when they act slutty, making everyone more shallow in the process from both sides, focusing the modern idea of "quality" in temporary things like butts, boobs, abs, dick size, etc
It's increasing and spreading faster than you'd think, therefore finding a good genuine partner becomes harder as society "evolves" like this
Hope you know it has been scientifically proven that men think with their dick, while woman think with emotion
Even if a woman's thinking isn't rational, i can agree some woman do open their legs, but the majority don't and not to mention that a lot of woman are sexual assault victims
But men pressure woman into sexual things or even manipulate them into having intercourse or even just sucking their dick and ill tell you what that is its sexual assault
Yeah, men think with their dicks, and many women encourage that with slutty behaviour, men are animals and women are idiots because they make that worse when they show stuff like "hey I'm a slut and I'll let you fuck me for no good reason", and since men are dick-driven dumbasses, they think all other women are the same and the wheel rolls from there
And hey, if women weren't so stupid, they wouldn't get tricked into having intercourse with mindless animals like many men, I wish they were a bit more educated and a bit less emotional
What I'm saying is, both genders are at fault, men are naturally very sexual and would go to extreme lengths to get pussy, and women don't handle that well at all and they keep giving off wrong messages to guys, which is why I hate sluts with a passion
And I wish there were more good men out there who actually think with their brains
Of course they do. It's just a matter of finding them. From my observations the best way for both sexes to find quality partners is not to force it. The couples I know that are in long-lasting quality happy relationships met their partners totally by accident, for example at school or work, where they got to know the person reasonably well before an intimate relationship grew.
I agree
Quality, like beauty, is subjective. Well before Conner 4Real (bonus points if u get that reference), i had it in my mind that the Mona Lisa was one of the ugliest paintings in the history of man. But, people have fallen all over themselves at the mere mention of that rag for quite a large number of years.
Granted, as a whole, i think that the amount of quality in quality people has lessened over time.
Tastes change over time. And i dont mean just over generations.
Guys choose quality women... but sometimes douchebags choose them too and mess up. The quality women ends up hurt.
@alyssa11 I believe that
@luvstoned4him true story!
They can't get quality women lmao, it's not up to them
@ally247 the women choose the men.. yup
this is why its hard to find good men for a lot of women
Because they're few and far in between
No its because quality men want intelligent women not idiots
lmao
Then its ur fault, not ours @luvstoned4him
Quality women want quality men, and very few of those exist.
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I think both sexes pretty much fail at epic levels due to insecurities why we have so many divorces. I wouldn’t say ones worse than the other I think in America as a culture it normal for people to suck at choosing the right partner
What makes you so sure that you're a quality woman? Seems like ever single woman would claim themselves as such.
Qualities
I do.
Don't put me in the same category as those, who choose beautiful bitches over quality women.
@Unit1 I won't. Seems like those are the type running around mostly
Those types of men care only about looks n tits n pussy.
Yep..
Well, it's often women that do the choosing. If she doesn't want us, it doesn't matter what we want. But it's also hard to get to know anyone well enough to know if they're "quality" or not. Especially in today's world. People tend to make assumptions about people as well without getting to know them in any way. I find this especially with women. They think they know it all. I'm not bashing women, this is my honest observation of a lot of them. It's sad. But "bad" guys have made them this way.
its harder tahn ever to pick a quality woman because sex is so easy to get. i can get nude photos BEFORE the first date nowadays. feminism has ironically given men all the power in dating and they aren't going to use it to find wives they're just gonna use it to fuck
Depends on the guy. Some guys are just deperate and will take whatever will have them.
The other issue you have is women who present themselves as quality women but in reality, they're liars, cheaters and users only in it for the money and will leave the guy when a better deal comes along.
So some of us do try but don't always manage it.
I don't know. Depends on your definition of "quality women", your environment, among a whole host of other factors.