Boys I have been sexting blocked me?

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So there were two boys I had been talking to for about a month. One used to go to my school and the other was from bumble. I sexted both of them and they sent back nudes for about a month and I had some conversations with them too. They seemed very nice and I thought there was a little connection with both. Recently, they both blocked me for an unknown reason. I never did anything to provoke this I was pretty nice to both. Why do guys do this, they were both attracted to me and had both expressed this multiple times. Should I just move on and ignore it bc maybe it was not my fault. Give me ur opinion thanks.

PushOrganic · Accepted Answer

I looked through the replies here, it doesn't look like anyone gave you constructive feedback which I know is what your looking for, here's my take from a guys perspective... If I had to guess it seems that they may have caught feelings of jealousy and found out that you were talking to other guys, perhaps banging other guys and they didn't like that. Guy's experience more sexual jealousy where women experience more emotional jealousy. Another other possible reason I'm guessing might be that you may have gotten too clingy and started pushing something more and into relationship territory too soon, which scares guys off. They didn't respond to your requests because ""ghosting > explaining your reason"" .

By the way, this post actually comes at a very interesting time for me because this actually happened to me today. Your definitely not alone, don't feel bad because I wondered the exact same thing, I matched with girl a little over 2 weeks ago through tinder (of all places) and we actually kind of hit it off, we were both physically attracted to each other and swapped nudes on the reg (literally all the time), we swapped voice messages, she'd even snap a video of her fingering herself while moaning my name because of the dirty texting that escalated between us. There was a healthy amount of chasing from both of us - she would chase me sometimes and vice versa.

We however couldn't meet up for 2 weeks because she actually had covid-19 ( with positive tests she sent me as proof ). To cut to the chase, a few days ago, I stayed up till 4am a few days ago to finish up school assignments and after I finished up, I randomly shot her a text to flirt with her and to initiate a meetup. She admitted that she was a little nervous and worried "what if you don't like me when you meet me" Which my reply was "Starting right now your going to start being more positive with yourself. Take a chance on yourself because your worth it" That was enough to get her to come to my apartment, she got to my building around 0430am, and my building unfortunately has a no guest policy right now due to covid. So we just casually chatted outside her car on the sidewalk and it lead to a crazy make out session with a lot of groping and fondling of each other.

If I had to rate the kissing it was a C+ to B-, we just couldn't get a solid rythem you know? Anyway, it was overall positive and we enjoyed each others company, lots of laughing and nice conversation in our brief momment together, at that point she had to leave because it was literally approaching 5am. We texted briefly, later that night and everything seemed to be fine. A day or 2 later, I send out a snap blast like I usually do of the interesting stuff that I come across thoughout out my day and notice that she hasn't responded like she usually does, she then posts to her story a day later her at a hotel. I didn't give any attention outside of me just viewing the snap and I now find out today that she blocked me on snapchat and instagram

Little about me briefly, I'm taking 17 credits in college, work about 20-30 hours, and go to the gym 5-6 days a week, so I'd like to think that I'm leading a well rounded lifestyle and really pursing goals that have interest and meaning to me.

I also am looking to understand, why she blocked me - I feel fine because I'm in abundance, and also I'm really glad to have several girls that I talk to regularly, so that in a sense if/when one falls out of the roster, another one gets more of my attention. That can be relevant to you too, have several guys that you talk to regularly so you can quickly pivot to the next best option (s) when things with the current guy fall out.

Thanks for getting to read this bible of text!! Wow didn't think it would get this long! Hope you find it valuable

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They're cowards. They enjoyed it, but they likely ended up meeting a girlfriend or starting something serious, and instead of having to have a talk, they just decided to pretend like it never happened. I guarantee that's what it is because I've seen it.

Don't think it's you though. No red blooded boy is going to turn down sex when she offers unless he's forced to.

Thatasianlove16 · Accepted Answer

It might just be karma you were talking to both. Or they didn’t take you seriously and found someone that they did. If you could find both on social media they could’ve also found eachother. Regardless you did do something wrong and whether or not they knew what you were doing you deserved this outcome

Hangry22 · Accepted Answer

They probably came to knew you were two timing them

Exc3l · Answer

They coudl have possbly realized ypu were sextig other people or someone gave them a hint that you were, then they probably got jealous or thought you were a slut, not saying you are but...

chriscdi · Answer

maybe they both figured out about each other and somehow came to agreements, the chances might be low but never impossible

Wise4myage · Answer

Did you send them nudes? They probably just got bored with you and moved on.

Browneye57 · Answer

You never do any fukkin thing, do you? I'd block you too. LOL

dudeinohio · Answer

move on.. they likely had someone else they were involved with also

AmeerX · Answer

I think you should not share naked pics of yourself. They can be misused

1DiscreetAmigo · Answer

After squirting, selfishes and egoistes (who haven't got experience) do it

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Hmmmmmm, remarkable. What a rare occasion. That area calls for further exploration

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe they thought thast you were getting emotionally involved

Yulay30 · Answer

So sad for you :( If you want you can share them with me too <3

Anonymous · Answer

This happened to me as well - both women blocked me and when i messaged on insta got blocked there without any reason, maybe they found someone new and you were just there for temporary needs.

Iron_Man · Answer

You reap what you sew

Twenty2 · Answer

You should have sexted with me instead

Dave31989 · Answer

sexting is for losers

TylerM567 · Answer

I’ve been sexting since I was 13

Fuentes · Answer

U can send me nudes tho

PersoncslledPierson · Answer

They can be selfish scum

Coolmanxl · Answer

They can be selfish scum

Anonymous · Answer

Wow even girls sext?

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