Why do I feel like me and my crush at work are twins in a sense?

[Anonymous]

Not literally, obviously.

But it's the vibe I get from him. I feel we are so similar.

We aren't similar in morals. We differ a lot there. But other than that, I feel like we are twinning.

To top it off, we have insanely high sexual attraction.

[SueShe]

Is your crush aware of your infatuation or is it not reciprocated?

A crush is usually one-sided but if you have "sexual attraction", then it is more than just a plain crush.

To put it simply, you get this feeling of being so close because of infatuation and because in this state, you are oblivious to the negative sides of the person and you absorb all the positive things while dismissing the negative ones (morals).

Perhaps that you should talk with him about your infatuation and see what happens.

[Mark83]

When you're crushing on someone you tend to only see the things you have in common and disregard the things that might make you incompatible. Try to take another look, be as objective as you possibly can, and see if it's still the same.

[Avicenna]

Similar erstmaliges? I think the sexual attraction has a lot to do with it

[Avicenna]

* personalities

[Iron_Man]

Perhaps You both Bond well together

[Anonymous]

Maybe you mirror each other in some ways

[Anonymous]

What do you feel are your similarities?