Does my coworker have a crush on me or am I making it up in my head?

[Anonymous]

~3 Months ago my coworker started staring at me. He whistled a song every time he walked by me and once he had realized I was at work, he would keep popping up in my areas.
But…he also has not talked to me once. And he came in today on his day off with 2 girls to go grocery shopping. So I think that’s a bad sign.
Am I reading into this too much? I feel kinda crazy

[_Maya_]

I think you are reading into it also. First thing is don't date coworkers. It can be hell. Even if you like the guy it can get messy at work if things don't go well. Saw it happen to fellow bartenders. One finally quit. So anyway I don't think that he has a crush. I think you are just noticing these thing because you want to think he does so in your head you think there are all these signs. I am in the camp that it is coincendence at this point unless some pretty obvious flirting was going on.

[Asker]

Thanks for your response :)
& Yes dating coworkers can be hell haha speaking from personal experience. I didn’t have a crush on him when I started noticing his stares but after a couple weeks I got one and it’s just been festering since.
I think it’s the fact that he holds his stare unlike the rest of my coworkers & the customers.
😬🤷‍♀️

[_Maya_]

There is always a chance but just from what you write I didn't think so. I'm not there though obviously.

[JonesT10Apr]

true...
coworkers or love friends or friends boyfriend... no a big big no

[boobliker]

it sounds like he has

[Iron_Man]

Time will tell

[Nikki1989]

Never date a coworker. It rarely ends well.

[Awomaninlove93]

Go with your gut