So! Yesterday! A co-worker told me that she has a crush on me and asked me if i could go to her house this weekend for a ''visit''The girl is very pretty, attractive and awesome too, i told the Mrs. about it too. I responded with: I appreciate you honesty and bravery dear, you are an attractive young lady (24 years old) i like your charisma but am sorry i don't share the same feelings back, I have my lovely wife (they met many times and they are friends out side of my work) we have been gone through things together , things that none any other woman will do for any other man and i love that. I am not sure if the girl will let it go, but she texts me all time and she explained that she is in need for a man she can trust and her heart has been broken few times that she can't trust any other guy anymore. She says that she likes how mature i am and how i handle things with a twist of sarcasm , she is pretty funny too but i don't see her as a potential girlfriend or partner because am already married and she is 14 years younger than me, i find it very difficult to be with someone that is younger than me this much.
Me speaking as you— “I’m married so she wouldn't have had my personal phone number anyways. If its work related, she can email me. If she continues to flirt after i said stop, then i’d block her. If she continues to do so in person, then i’d report it to HR or get the spouse to whoop her stalker ass”
An unmarried one. She kept showing more than platonic interest so at that point, she didn't deserve your friendship. But whatever, you do you. Im just speaking for myself at this point
That will never happen from my side and if any one does that will not end well for them. My wife is a warrior that i shall always love, take care of and keep her by my side.
Too early to tell. She apologized today, she needs a shoulder to lean on. We are all menally tired and in need for a friend and i have my wife for that, but some have no friends and can misjudge kindness but her case is a little bit more. We will give it some time
Are you being serious J. This is so random. Wtf she knows your wife. All I can say is you've said all needs to be said. Don't be alone with her. Document this in the event things turn nasty... Thats what I'd do.
Very strange. But I guess when people are lonely and sad any kindness can be misunderstood. Feel a little sad for her. I know what that's like I have been known to get a little giggly around some guys. Even though I'd never make an actual move or say those things.
I had one woman at work do that. Her husband was in the military and she would tell me that he's away and I should stop by for coffee. I just said "Maybe I will bring my wife and stop by sometime to visit." She never said anything after that.
Lol I remember a guy somehow finding me online but knew my husband lol he swear he didn’t existed and that I was making it up. He thought he was a better fit for me than him lol treated me like shit by the way. Lol he didn’t see him anywhere on my social media
Well! Her and the wife had few (ladies night) . She is mentally exhausted and in need for a friend. I have no interest in such and it is not my first rodeo either. This one came out of nowhere
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