Does MY work crush feel a thing for me?

[Anonymous]

Okay! I've known this dude for a year now but it wasn't until half a year ago we got close. Since we got close, he has always poked me at random occasions and he lets me borrow his pocket knives that are his distractions when he's bored. Also, he always places me in stations close to him (because he's a manager BUT NOT OLD). At times when I'm next to him he leans his head on my shoulder and puts his body weight against mine. When he leaves he always gives me tight hugs, just recently when we worked he gave me a hug AND lifted me up as he did that. On Snapchat I'm his #1 bestfriend but there's a catch.. He has a girlfriend. And by the way, they live together. But what I know of her, she is very controlling and has always been overzeleaous, accused him of being gay for texting guys weird BUT this dude is 100% straight, you can see it clearly. I've just always been confused about if he even feels a thing. I've gotten him pins for his uniform, he wears them at the front center where everyone can see. Recently, I've also gotten him his first matching pin with me it has a tiny heart and I told him clearly that it would match mine and asked if he's okay with it, his response.. "Well let me see yours to see which one I like more." I'm MIXED on this situation.

No

Yes

He's just friendly.

[Anonymous]

I feel like he is into you, but at the same time he might be scared to start somethin with you because as ya said he has a girlfriend who is very controlling and all, so give him some time, if he thinks the time is right and that he enjoys spending more time with ya he will automatically dump his girlfriend for ya, trust me haha

[Asker]

Thank you so much!

[boppity]

I mean. Sounds to me like he is into you. Like the whole putting his head on your shoulders and leaning his body weight against you really makes me think that he is into you. In my opinion, if a man is putting his body weight up against you, then he is probably very into you. Guys usually only do this with a girl to try and give a sign. If somehow he actually only likes you as a friend, then that is a 1 in 10000000 relationship.

[boggboss]

Sounds like he is into you but thats irrelavent if he has a girlfriend unless your looking to be with a cheater

[Fineasaaa]

irrelevant*

[boggboss]

Lol ty for being my personal spell check I guess 👍

[Fineasaaa]

Anytime for your irrelevant opinions!

[boggboss]

Lol upsrt because it's a opinion u disagree with thats not involving you thats pretty funny 😅

[Fineasaaa]

ok🙂

[boggboss]

😁😁😁

[Asker]

I always wonder that too, the cheater part, he seems like he'd be different but there's the.. "once a cheater always a cheater" phrase.

[boggboss]

At the end of the day it's just bad taste I completely get him feeling trapped in the relationship he is in but at the end of the day ehat he is doing is not OK or fine and unfair on you and her as he is flirting with u and making it clear he likes u yet thats the extent of it and he goes home to her to pretend to be a boyfriend if he wants to do somthing with u he needs to and should end his relationship simple

[Asker]

Honestly, you're right. I have been trying to stay away but clearly my efforts at it are trash. I'll try harder to stay in the friend lane then and have a conversation to him about it all. Thank you.

[boggboss]

Thats the thing tho u ain't in the wring he is

[Asker]

I know but if he's stubborn about everything when I make it more clear then I'll leave and he loses more. My win would be getting him out of my head,

[boggboss]

No thats fair enough

[RuthlessAggression]

It's not a good idea to work with your boyfriend, for a multitude of reasons but I can't tell you what to do since I'm not your boss.

[Guy13]

Yes, the Boy “Nike Air” lift and sit-dunk

[Guy13]

I woukd guess that he is interested in you. That’s a little risky in these days. You must be petite. If not petite then for sure he just can’t stand not to be close around you.-MY guess.

[Iron_Man]

Ask him