So I have a crush on a boy on my uni course and we talk in lessons and get on but I am unsure ifhe just wants to be friends or he feels the same way. Obviously I want to take it slow and he might aswell (if he’s interested) but I am unsureif he likes me or not, a few people I have told said it might be possible but I am unsure.. we both have a fair few things in common, he smiles when he talks to me, he even addressed me by my name last week and he’s not done that yet before, we’ve only been like friends for like a month at uni (we don’t talk a lot outside of uni yet, only a tiny bit on Discord- I messaged him a couple of times and he replied and even apologised one time for replying late)
The thing is he’s a possible socially awkward like me. I feel like sometimes I see him glancing over but he doesn’t always talk (its almost like he doesn’t know what to say) he opened up to me about his mental health and we’d only been friends for like a week at that point, he told me about his ex but didn’t go on about it a lot, he does his work more when I am with him it seems and he always seems to try be positive around me. Is it possible that he could like me? I need some advice?
We’ve known eachother a month and say hi to eachother in lessons and sometimes have conversations and he smiles a lot at many things I say.. I was planning on asking him in a couple of weeks casually if he wants to do something over the summer, the thing is I don’t know if its too soon and I also fear rejection but if I don’t ask, I won’t see him until September as we break off late May and thats like over 3 months, it is a long time! any meaningful advice on what I should do? i want to take things slowly (I don’t even know if he feels the same!) but I do know he has anxiety and depression as he opened up to me about it (keep in mind that was only literally a week after we properly met/ had a conversation. (He has been in my class a while but we never talked before). I don’t know what to do😫
The thing is he’s a possible socially awkward like me. I feel like sometimes I see him glancing over but he doesn’t always talk (its almost like he doesn’t know what to say) he opened up to me about his mental health and we’d only been friends for like a week at that point, he told me about his ex but didn’t go on about it a lot, he does his work more when I am with him it seems and he always seems to try be positive around me. Is it possible that he could like me? I need some advice?
We’ve known eachother a month and say hi to eachother in lessons and sometimes have conversations and he smiles a lot at many things I say.. I was planning on asking him in a couple of weeks casually if he wants to do something over the summer, the thing is I don’t know if its too soon and I also fear rejection but if I don’t ask, I won’t see him until September as we break off late May and thats like over 3 months, it is a long time! any meaningful advice on what I should do? i want to take things slowly (I don’t even know if he feels the same!) but I do know he has anxiety and depression as he opened up to me about it (keep in mind that was only literally a week after we properly met/ had a conversation. (He has been in my class a while but we never talked before). I don’t know what to do😫
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He also talks to me more when we are alone or when it is quiet, for example, we had a good conversation for a few minutes last week and that was when everyone was leaving to go home and only half the class was in that lesson anyways
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The worst thing is… we only have 3 weeks left at uni and that is only 9 days and we are only in 3 days per week. It’s making me so anxious incase nothing happens and is affecting my mental health badly, I forgot to mention I am autistic so tend to overthink things massively and get paranoid thinking I am being too much or annoying etc
