Why would a guy want a girl to notice him?

[Anonymous]

Why would a guy want a girl to notice him and try to get my attention?

he has purposely put hinseöf in a position where we wouod cross paths or We would walk past each other. Sometimes he holds the eye contact and sometimes he quickly looks away when I look at him.

also if guy does that does it mean he’s really interested?

[RawIronhide]

Yeah he likes you, it just feels good to be around someone you like and it gets way better if they like you to. The problem is that gets annoying so older guys loose intrest and stop acting that way.

[Asker]

Me and my crush don’t work together/ go to school together etc at all. We actually barely know each other. He tries to be same place (in public) where he has seen me before (exact weekday and time) it’s like he hopes that we cross paths lol.

Also he’s a guy in his late 20s.

[RawIronhide]

It's mutual? You like him as well?

[Asker]

Yeah... why?

[Asker]

Im not sure if he likes me though xD

[RawIronhide]

Lol yes he does. That's good, if you didn't like him that would be real creepy lol. Congrats you're in love with your stalker haha.

[Asker]

So you think he’s a stalker 😂😂?

[RawIronhide]

Lol not if it's mutual, that's more like role play 😆. No it's fine I think you should probably just make yourself more available.

[Asker]

He has me on instagram... why isn’t he messaging me there instead of trying to bump into me in public?

[RawIronhide]

🤷 can't say for sure, maybe he wants to make it more personal by seeing you in person, I know I'm better face to face. It's nearly impossible for me to flirt over text.

[EllieFayre]

Well maybe he wants to talk with you or maybe he's interested in you.

[Wise4myage]

Because he finds you attractive.

[Asker]

Isn’t it kinda obsessive?

[Wise4myage]

No, I wouldn't think so.

[Asker]

by the way this happens in public place. We don’t work together/ go to school together etc at all. We actually barely know each other. He tries to be same place where he has seen me before (exact weekday and time) it’s like he hopes that we cross paths lol.

[Wise4myage]

Ok, thanks for the update. That would make him more of a stalker, so be careful.