How do you know if a guy wants to marry you because he likes you or he’s doing it because of social pressure?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

You got to first really ask yourself are you prepared to get married, and do you understand what it requires and text to upholding marriage let alone what a marriage is? You got to have serious talks about this because he could speak about marriage a lot but if he doesn't seem like he's even ready for that you do not want to get married to a person who is not prepared to have a lifelong Union with you. Because it's a union, you got to talk about kids, you got to talk about sex, you got to talk about possibilities of the good and the bad, what do you both have to offer, are you both still working on, what you both desire for the future, there's a lot you got to think on. If he's not speaking in a manner that shows that he understands and knows what he's doing or he at least desires to explore and learn that Together with you, that's how you know. Anybody can just say what they want to get married, but you gotta understand what they want to get married for parent because marriage is tough, it's not easy, and it's not a game. It's very serious. And both of you have to be prepared so what you got to do. Unlike how it was back then , you have time in a sense, and you have more choices. Nobody should pressure him, and neither should anybody pressure you, unless you both are already in a relationship that you shouldn't have been or you're doing things that you really shouldn't before you even married. I'm not even going to assume. But again have serious conversations with an individual. There's nothing wrong with talking about it, but planning for these things without even having an idea of how to take the concrete steps is not something you want to fool around with.

[Anonymous]

If you can't tell the difference between the two, you don't know him well enough.

[Asker]

Yea he doesn’t talk much but he mentions marriage a lot..

[Laciandmaci]

Go by if he treats you like a princess!!!

[In_Trance]

ask him