Is it a red flag that I asked him where he sees himself in 5 years and this was his answer?

[Anonymous]

He said he wants to progress in his job and travel more. He didn't mention marriage or kids though

We've only started talking but he's 33 and I'm 31

What do you think?

[LogicalGal123]

No its not a red flag. Some guys have different goals and don't think about marriage or children. For example, the guy I'm seeing, doesn't mentioned about marriage and kids and neither do I. he's 42 and I'm 34, however, he does have a daughter who is grown and in college. We don't see ourselves in marriage nor having kids. For me, I dont see myself having kids. I did asked him if he wanted anymore children, he said no and he's done. Which is great for me because I don't want any. He did asked me why, I explained to him that I feel like having children isn't for me. As much I love them, I just feel it's not for me. He understood it and respects my decision.

Overall, it's what u want. If u know what u want and the person doesn't agree or be in the same page as u. Then u should find someone else. Don't settle for less, if u 2ant to be married and have kids, find a person that feels the same way. Dont waste ur time trying to change a guy who only sees their way. It takes two to tango on the the dance floor. Find someone who enjoys dancing with u for the rest of their life

[sheikalana]

Maybe that's not a priority for him. Doesn't mean he's a bad guy. If you really want to know if he wants to have kids and get married ask him. In case he says no and if that's something you want in the future perhaps that means he's not the right guy for you.

[spartan55]

It's a red 🚩 flag that you would think that's a red 🚩 flag.

[Asker]

Is that because you're still married without kids?

[spartan55]

Hahaha, nice try. You don't know anything about me.

[Asker]

Actually I do, I know more than you think. Isn't is funny that people can find people they know on here:)

[spartan55]

Sure thing pink anon. Any other stupid questions?

[spartan55]

Tell me all about who I am then... that's what I thought.

[Asker]

Why are you having a conversation with yourself?

[spartan55]

I'm not, I'm having one with you, idiot.

[Asker]

Not really

[Anonymous]

It's a red flag that you asked such a dumb question.

[Luckycharms12]

Guys never say married with kids

[Asker]

Why?

[Luckycharms12]

Girls growing up for most part think about that guys think about being a sport start or whatever there are in to