I have been fuckbuddies with this guy for over a year.
He is really hot, and better than anything else I can (bother to) find at the moment.
He hardly put in any effort ever, so I'm getting pretty tired of that.
Like a month ago, he really crossed my boundaries sexually, so I have kind of cut him off for a month now, and kind of lost interest.
He tried to booty call me two weeks ago, where I rejected.
Now he asked me to sleep over and cuddle and have normal sex (where he doesn't try to pressure/disrespect my boundaries...).. He is not a cuddling-type-of-person, and i LOVE cuddling, and crave cuddling so much these Corona days. He has never ever offered to cuddle, only.. well fuck.
I couldn't resist, so I said "not tonight but maybe sometime"
I thought to myself, it he seems like the is finally trying to make an effort, and set things right.
Now today he has texted me, at 2pm, asking me to come over. Like duuude. I'm not going to just forget it all, and go back to his low effort booty calls. I texted him like "Forget it, I want a sleepover with cuddling one night like you said ;)"
He was like "alriight"
What should I do from here? Should I say yes next time, and collect some cuddles, or just make up some excuse?
He is really hot, and better than anything else I can (bother to) find at the moment.
He hardly put in any effort ever, so I'm getting pretty tired of that.
Like a month ago, he really crossed my boundaries sexually, so I have kind of cut him off for a month now, and kind of lost interest.
He tried to booty call me two weeks ago, where I rejected.
Now he asked me to sleep over and cuddle and have normal sex (where he doesn't try to pressure/disrespect my boundaries...).. He is not a cuddling-type-of-person, and i LOVE cuddling, and crave cuddling so much these Corona days. He has never ever offered to cuddle, only.. well fuck.
I couldn't resist, so I said "not tonight but maybe sometime"
I thought to myself, it he seems like the is finally trying to make an effort, and set things right.
Now today he has texted me, at 2pm, asking me to come over. Like duuude. I'm not going to just forget it all, and go back to his low effort booty calls. I texted him like "Forget it, I want a sleepover with cuddling one night like you said ;)"
He was like "alriight"
What should I do from here? Should I say yes next time, and collect some cuddles, or just make up some excuse?
Updates
+1 y
Today he hit me up at 8pm, asking if I would come over.
I texted him "yeah a bit later" (as I would need to shower etc)
he was like "hmm"
So I was like "well, no then"
he went "well maybe" ?
I went "but it's a no from me"
and hw went "Why? I just dont want to go to bed late"
I answered "Well then you could hit me up with a longer notice"
He didn't reply to that
I did a good thing, right?
I texted him "yeah a bit later" (as I would need to shower etc)
he was like "hmm"
So I was like "well, no then"
he went "well maybe" ?
I went "but it's a no from me"
and hw went "Why? I just dont want to go to bed late"
I answered "Well then you could hit me up with a longer notice"
He didn't reply to that
I did a good thing, right?
