Soft and Cuddly? HELL YEAH!! Love the 'wiggle' in her backside, as she walks wearing tight yoga pants. Society has kind of screwed up the natural normality, of the 'cuddly lady'!
If I make a special effort, to get a reservation, at a GREAT restaurant, and she barely eats anything, then what was the point!!
I love when she is comfortable, and eating, and not thinking I am judging (not at all!) and enjoys our time together!
I get's cold, where I live, so having someone that is soft and cuddly is really nice, in the winter!! :)
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Of course. I like girls in all shapes and sizes. Honestly if you start getting picky by saying "I normally don't go for 6 foot tall girls or girls who are plus size" then you are just shooting yourself in the foot by excluding a portion of the female population. For all you know some of those women who you normally wouldn't go for could be some of the most fun and amazing women you would have never met.
Life is far too short to be that picky. Every woman is beautiful in her own way.
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I like girls with a big glorious ass. That is nearly impossible without at least a moderately big belly but also comes with the side benefit of larger breasts. So in that context yes. But if you can't achieve a big ass to go with your big belly then I'd advise to reduce your weight until your ass is bigger than your belly. Many girls with a larger belly have small breasts. On some girls a big belly looks out of proportion if the breasts don't match. regardless, if both your ass and breasts are bigger than your belly most men will find your body sexy including this man.
Only a guess, but I have to say (please don't block me for my answer) in most cases, with the way Americans eat, and with the rate of overweight/obesity, most guys like a 'bit of tummy or fat" simply because THEY have a LOT of tummy fat ! Look around us, and you cannot miss it. I personally struggled with (what I thought) was too much fat on my abdomen, while most girlfriend said I needed to put on weight !
I became a Yoga practitioner in December 2019, and lost about 15 lbs, which included all of my abdominal (or core fat as we call it) and now have a very flat, fat free stomach. Since I lost my 'core' fat, and have a very flat stomach, I look at women AND men differently, since it was very difficult for me to trim down, and have a very hard abdomen.
So, with ALL of the blah, blah, blah above said, I think most guy do want a bit of fat on a girls tummy for the reasons above.
BruceDo we like women who just happen to be a little bit overweight? Sure. It's not a deal breaker. But the attraction would be a lot stronger if she had a flat tummy, so there's no sense in lying about it. And it's not like we're demanding six- pack abs or anything, just relatively lean. Women in general look their best at about 20% bodyfat, no matter their shape or fitness level, and I don't think that's too much to ask. Especially when you compare that to the fact that men generally look their best around 8%, but with a decent amount of muscle, which takes exponentially more work and time (and sometimes extra chemicals) to achieve.
I'm into fat chick's, and I never lie about it...
Sounds a bit harsh but it is what it is...
If I would call them just big girls, I just get the ones who only think they are big, while the girls I'm actual interested would feed on them just for breakfast...
Imagine that conversation...No problem.
I like girls a like chunky girls. I'm sure most guys do in some sense if they have realistic or healthy views of the female body. The question is rather ambiguous though. What looks good on one girl may not on another. And what one guy considers fat is the same as thick to another... And most guys like thick girls
1. Make sure your standards of what counts as tummy is realistic. My younger sister for example thought she had fat thighs somehow, when in reality she had very little fat.
2. If you realistically do have a big belly then reality is most guys won't like that. However will plenty of guys like you in spite of that? Sure, assuming you are somewhat attractive and have a decent personality. Very few guys specifically want a girl to have a big belly.Lol, no. Normally when someone says "a little tummy" they look like a giant bipedal guinea pig with a thyroid problem waddling around in search of more food complaining that they just feel a little bloated right now. I know the tricks of the lard-ass.
Do I like girls? Yes.
Do I like fat? indifferent.
Do I like girls with a little fat? Depends.
If I like a girl do I care if she has a little fat? No.
There are far more important things like faith in Christ. I'm about 10lbs overweight, but I'm tall and it isn't as visible. I'm not down on a chunky woman, but preferable we both will try to be the healthiest we can. There is a healthy range and either end can be desirable.A bit of tummy fat is okay but not a lot. Tummy fat is correlated with poor health outcomes for women, so men are evolutionarily tuned to find large amounts of fat on a woman’s tummy to be unattractive.
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