Was my cousin saying that I wasn’t attractive?

[pink_and_inlove]

He was telling me that my supervisor probably didn’t like me and that he was sexist and only talked to attractive women. And I kept on asking him if he was saying that I wasn’t attractive or something or if I was ugly and he just said “I meant attractive to him” and then when I asked him if I was ugly he told me “you have big brown eyes and a funny smile and you pull off bangs” he also said that he was only attracted to tall girls and that that’s just weird because we’re related by blood lol but now I feel bad and I’m questioning what he meant even if he is my cousin I worry about how I look to others in general which is dumb I know.

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Guys he’s not a jerk I just don’t know what he meant. He’s never insulted me or anything

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Guys what he said was that the supervisor man didn't like me because he is sexist and he only talks to attractive women. I really don't think that I was overthinking here?

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol, there is nothing wrong in what he said.

I think was going to say in generic that your manager might go for more attractive girls like you can understand that like who will only work on themselves to her benefits out of it and don't work much.

But when you put him on spot like asked him of thinks you are uguly or attractive that he felt embaressed as well as he tried to boost your confidence by saying attractive parts of you which fall under considerably and appropriate ways.

His your cousin and he just blabbered that he find attractive tall girls so you should not think he finds you unattractive that's it.

[ZackBan]

It's a taste thing you don't have to be pretty to everyone. But you are pretty to many.

[pink_and_inlove]

Do you think that i was overthinking?

[ZackBan]

Yes of course. You really need to work on caring less what people say no matter who they are

Alwyas remember others don't necessarily know better, be it a cousin a parent a friend anyone you don't Alwyas have to analyze people's words like they were philosophical preachers

[Paolaa988]

Im the same way girl.. i can totally relate. Don't let him get you down. It sounded like it but he's just a jerk and a total hypocrite if he's bullying you. You're beautiful in your own ways and don't need anybody to tell you any different💕

[pink_and_inlove]

Thank you girl lol but the you’re beautiful in your own way thing is kind of what they tell ugly people 😭😂

[Paolaa988]

Im in no means trying to say you're ugly at all. I find you very beautiful. What i mean is You have you're own special unique features that stand out and show your beauty. Im sorry i don't mean it like that though.

[pink_and_inlove]

Thank you ❤️ also thank you for defending me lol I’m pretty sure that guy has told me the same thing before I don’t know why he kind of hates me or something I blocked him though

[loves2learn]

I don’t think he was calling you ugly. Just talking.

[Jjpayne]

I have a tendency not to trust your families opinions, they seem too unhealthy to me. I'm not sure his intent but I'm hesitant to say anything because your family seems a little judgy sometimes. And you need to talk with other people rather than get your confidence from them. You have to assume that talking with your family will have a tendency to make you feel bad about yourself

[Jjpayne]

I understand the update but it still sounds a little insensitive... I would hope your cousin would have thought that you were attactive. Now saying it a different way like dressing or acting a certain way would have sounded better to me

[slatyb]

Your cousin is insecure and feels better by making other people feel worse. Pay no attention to anything he says.

[pink_and_inlove]

I don’t know. I don’t know why he said this. So did it mean what I thought it did?

[pink_and_inlove]

I don’t know why but I just kind of want people to think I’m pretty lol 😭 they probably don’t

[pink_and_inlove]

I mean I put on lipstick everyday

[Veegmiester]

I think you are pretty

[pink_and_inlove]

Thank you

[Pogi-Paddy-2]

Nope he just sounds like how most family members act.☯️

[pink_and_inlove]

Lol thankfully I took it as a joke though

[Justaguy30]

He wasn't insulting you.
I actually think he was trying to say he finds you very attractive but felt weird for it...
Do you WANT him to find you extremely attractive?
message me please

[Justaguy30]

Do you want him to find you attractive?

[pink_and_inlove]

No but i just dont want people to think im ugly i just want to be pretty lol basically

[Justaguy30]

Ok. Well you are absolutely gorgeous. In my opinion. Most guys I'm assuming as well. Even if you wanted him to find you attractive, that is perfectly OK

[pink_and_inlove]

I have a boyfriend already

[Justaguy30]

That's ok. I'm just saying if you want him to find you attractive it really is OK

[Justaguy30]

Your boyfriend doesn't need to know if you want your cousin to find you attractive

[pink_and_inlove]

Thank you

[Justaguy30]

Do you want him to?

[Justaguy30]

Honestly?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Your cousin has some issues he needs to solve. There is nothing wrong with the way you look and with family, they say all kinds of things about us :) (( Hugs ))

[devil_8888]

Lolz don’t listen to him. Whether he meant it or was joking, don’t pay attention to him. You know how pretty you are. That’s what matters more.

[pink_and_inlove]

The thing is I don't know lol

[pink_and_inlove]

I care what people think

[ohshee]

Oh he was kind of rude but I've been worried about it you look fine your beautiful

[ohshee]

If I was you I would just look in the mirror and smile you're beautiful don't worry about it that other people whatever they want it's called jealousy

[COMMODOREII]

Girl you are thinking too much into it. Lol your cuz probably thinks you are attractive but because you keep pushing him you are making him feel awkward. After all you are cousins. Lol

[Wise4myage]

No, I think you are just over thinking what he said because he did compliment you.

[Bklynbadboy12]

He meant wjat he said but not in a bad way. Your his cousin so to him your not attractive but trust me your very attractive

[princeofromance]

No, He is telling you that your supervisor is a disrespectful pig who doesn't deserve his position.

[Anonymous]

your family is fucked up. your cousin, your uncle are insulting pigs and they are probably gay homosexxual.

[Sam_The_Savage]

He is right you're not attractive at all..
Trust me.

[Paolaa988]

Looking at your photo you dont look attractive and look older than 24

[Sam_The_Savage]

Wow that's awesome

[pink_and_inlove]

Well he always says this and this is also not my best picture it doesn’t show my features and the lighting is awful

[pink_and_inlove]

Have I done anything to you that you always have to comment these kinds of things?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

No idea