My husband said my hot cousin looks exactly like me, am I overreacting for feeling weird about it?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been married a few years now, I’m 26 and he’s 32. My cousin is 25. He’s known her a few years and they have hung out a few times without me when I’m busy (she lives far and has come to stay with us a few times). Im not going to lie, my cousin is drop dead gorgeous. We have been told we look alike, but she’s honestly annoyingly beautiful. I’ve had 2 kids so my body is not in the best shape, but she works out all the time and has the perfect body. The other day we were hanging out my husband suddenly stared at her and said “you know, you guys like so much alike it’s insane,” and just kept looking at us and saying it. I felt a little weird about it and I don’t know why, I just feel like she looks better than me but even him saying we look alike makes me feel like he thinks she's the better version of me. Am I overreacting for feeling a bit hurt? I guess I just kind of get a vibe that he thinks she hot. He Snapchats her sometimes too

[D_Bone_Steak]

My side chick got mad because I said her TWIN SISTER is hot. She accused me of thinking she's hotter than her.

My male brain response: "oh that pissed her off." So I responded by banging her friend. She can get mad all she wants, but I have the D Bone Steak.

They look exactly alike because they're literally identical twins. Logically it's nothing to get pissed off about. The problem with chicks is they put all there eggs into one fucking basket. Looks and looks alone is going to make them overthink anything about that one thing.

Become a cyrpto mogal or something. Maybe develop a hobby like building cabins. Stop overthinking looks unless you start hitting the gym and making money off your looks on onlyfans.

[Twalli]

If you look the same to him, he finds you hot too. He didn't say that you look the same but she's hotter. You only think she does, because you notice all of your small flaws. She has small flaws that she notices too, you don't notice the small flaws in each other.

[slatyb]

Why are you hurt? Maybe he does think she's hot. I think a lot of women are hot. I'm not going to leave my wife to chase one of them and she knows that. It sounds like he thinks you are also very hot.

[FilmGuy93]

The Snapchatting is a bit weird; I would speak with him about that, if I were you. I don't think you have anything to worry about with your cousin though.

[20yearsolder]

You are overreacting, you need to work on your insecurities.

[andreasderjuengere]

I'd say that saying so, he gave you a huge compliment.

[Wise4myage]

If he said she looks hot, than you should be concerned.

[Mafia24]

Watch out girl before your marriage broke...
Red flag..

[BarryLiverstone]

You are overreacting. Did you feel badly when he said that?

[Avicenna]

He shouldn't have said that

[Anonymous]

Break up with the guy.