I get that this is bait, but it does deserve a response none the less.
I'm in an interracial marriage, love happens. You suppress it, or you roll with it. Why judge any adult for who they have sex with? Interracial, gay, straight, trans, whatever. As long as no one is saying "this is how it has to be". This is America life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
I respect and will defend their choice, as I would the freedom of anyone else to be happy and free. It shouldn't even have to be a question. Though I did get strange looks when I was dating a black woman, she wound up breaking it off from that pressure. That mostly comes from family and people close. If a stranger cares so much about "purity" or any nonsense like that, they have too many delusions and too much free time.
Deep down, we're all mutts, there is no such thing as "racial purity". Ever wonder why Italians can get sickle cell? Look at history and how many times all of our ancestors have been invaded, countries have changed hands, cultures have mixed to create new ones? I'm not saying that's the case with inter-racial relationships, just that the idea of races to begin with is ridiculous. We're all just humans trying as hard as we can to make life better for us, and our loved ones. Everything else can be considered simple details.
If it’s not my close relative idc but it’s not just black men I don’t care about race matter of fact even if it’s a pocho (white washed Mexican) I wouldn’t want my close relative dating em it’s about the culture Mexicans are very family oriented the speak the same language they have similar interests and they’re hard working race isn’t the issue there are middle eastern black Asian and white Mexicans it’s the culture that I don’t want in my close circle outside of that idc what y’all do with your lives
I think that people should date for the purpose of trying to find a marriage partner. I think people should be compatible enough on all levels and be 100 honest about who they are, what they want out of life and their values. I just personally believe that people shouldn't use each other for anything,.. emotionally or physically etc. I think this is what matters most. If its a serious couple they will face BS if they are interracial because people are ridiculous and think they have a right to pressure two people who want to be together. I think it takes a higher degree of compatibility to make it if its an interracial couple because you have to deal with cultural difference and some society bs.
s For me it depends on why they're dating a non-black woman. I don't support their dating choices if:
- they're dating these women because they think they're superior to black women
- they're dating these women because they see them as "trophies", to show off to their friends and family
- they're dating these women because they hate being black and want to have light skinned kids
- they're dating these women because it gives them a sort of an higher status.
However if they're in these relationships because they truly love their girlfriends and if they're not together for these reasons, then I see nothing wrong with it.
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I think nothing of it. It is like asking: "What do you think about people dating each other?" Nothing. What do you expect us to think?
It doesn't matter. We're all people and as long as they get along - what's the problem? I wouldn't mind dating a person of any ethnicity. People who think that people of different races can't date simply support racial segregation, which is toxic as heck.
I'm a black male and I have no problem with any race dating any other race. To argue over race is incredibly stupid, in my opinion, and a sign of a simple-minded tribalistic moron. AKA, most human beings.
I think:
1. Stop seeing people as a color and just see them as a person2. How's that anyone's business but the two people involved...3. Stop posting/adding to race baiting
In all honesty I don't think anything about it. Number one, it doesn't effect me personally so I'm not going to care. Number two, there are all kinds of different beautiful women of all different ethnicities. Dudes are visual creatures and I might look at another lady, but I don't hold that opinion for long. There are so much more important details than what one other couple looks like.
My opinion doesn't matter on this, its their personal relationship and since im not the man or woman in the interracial relationship it would be irrational to concern myself with other people's preferred race for dating. In a nutshell, WHY SHOULD ANYONE CARE?
Doesn't matter to me on what other people do in terms of dating.
But what I will say that as a black dude who has dated outside of his race in the past is that I'm tired of dealing with racist parents who won't let their daughters date black people.
I THINK IT DISGUSTING... that people would even have to ask this question... it is perfectly ok in every way
You see, I have a life. So I don't really have an opinion over things that don't effect me in the first place.
I believe everyone should date those they feel attracted to and possibly see themselves falling in love with. Everyone should keep their options open and see what’s out their beyond what their familiar with if that’s their interests. The entire talk of who dates a specific race is dry. As long as that individual isn’t bringing down another race just to uplift another then there isn’t an issue. I’m not losing sleep over who dates who because I’m trying to figure out my own dating life lol !
I hate it. Looks ridiculous. People should stick with their own people and cultivate love with their own people.
Secondly, those black men typically end up with low picking fruits or fruit on the ground. Those non black women are typically throw aways from their own community of men that don't desire them.
My mom remarried my step dad who was a black man I'm white. I've known him since I was 8 years old and I have one brother same mother same father. Doesn't matter to me at all people are people regardless.
Just two humans dating each other.. It has happened since the dawn of time..
Ethnicity, sexuality, religion, body type etc etc just do not matter when someone is dating or even married.
anyone against people from different backgrounds dating is simply a bigot, racist, etc.
I don't care what color people are, when they date each other.
There’s millions of people out there lol I mean I don’t care. It’s whatever.
I’m a black guy. I don’t see a problem with it. A problem with it only prolongs segregation, which helps nothing.
I don't have an issue with interracial dating, so fine by me.
It's kind of funny watching people loose their shit over interracial dating in general.
Eh its cool interacial relationships has been legal for years I mean like my girlfriend is Italian and I am black but we don't really care about the difference
Why don’t racist women complain about white men doing it? All I hear you guys do it with black men. Black can be Hispanic you dumbass. I have very dark skin and most of background is from the Dominican Republic. I have a lot of Latin women ask me all the time if I’m Dominican. I mean if you’re obsessed with skin color people would most likely see me as African American because they don’t know shiz about cultures
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