What do you think about black men dating non black woman?

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By non black I mean mixed Asian white latina or middle Eastern or Indian. I know so many Black men with non black woman

razelove · Accepted Answer

I get that this is bait, but it does deserve a response none the less.

I'm in an interracial marriage, love happens. You suppress it, or you roll with it. Why judge any adult for who they have sex with? Interracial, gay, straight, trans, whatever. As long as no one is saying "this is how it has to be". This is America life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

I respect and will defend their choice, as I would the freedom of anyone else to be happy and free. It shouldn't even have to be a question. Though I did get strange looks when I was dating a black woman, she wound up breaking it off from that pressure. That mostly comes from family and people close. If a stranger cares so much about "purity" or any nonsense like that, they have too many delusions and too much free time.

Deep down, we're all mutts, there is no such thing as "racial purity". Ever wonder why Italians can get sickle cell? Look at history and how many times all of our ancestors have been invaded, countries have changed hands, cultures have mixed to create new ones? I'm not saying that's the case with inter-racial relationships, just that the idea of races to begin with is ridiculous. We're all just humans trying as hard as we can to make life better for us, and our loved ones. Everything else can be considered simple details.

Jesus_is_the_guey · Accepted Answer

If it’s not my close relative idc but it’s not just black men I don’t care about race matter of fact even if it’s a pocho (white washed Mexican) I wouldn’t want my close relative dating em it’s about the culture Mexicans are very family oriented the speak the same language they have similar interests and they’re hard working race isn’t the issue there are middle eastern black Asian and white Mexicans it’s the culture that I don’t want in my close circle outside of that idc what y’all do with your lives

Kaeleigh1 · Accepted Answer

I think that people should date for the purpose of trying to find a marriage partner. I think people should be compatible enough on all levels and be 100 honest about who they are, what they want out of life and their values. I just personally believe that people shouldn't use each other for anything,.. emotionally or physically etc. I think this is what matters most. If its a serious couple they will face BS if they are interracial because people are ridiculous and think they have a right to pressure two people who want to be together. I think it takes a higher degree of compatibility to make it if its an interracial couple because you have to deal with cultural difference and some society bs.

menina · Accepted Answer

For me it depends on why they're dating a non-black woman. I don't support their dating choices if:
- they're dating these women because they think they're superior to black women
- they're dating these women because they see them as "trophies", to show off to their friends and family
- they're dating these women because they hate being black and want to have light skinned kids
- they're dating these women because it gives them a sort of an higher status.

However if they're in these relationships because they truly love their girlfriends and if they're not together for these reasons, then I see nothing wrong with it.

Account · Answer

I think nothing of it. It is like asking: "What do you think about people dating each other?" Nothing. What do you expect us to think?

jasmine_0603 · Answer

It doesn't matter. We're all people and as long as they get along - what's the problem? I wouldn't mind dating a person of any ethnicity. People who think that people of different races can't date simply support racial segregation, which is toxic as heck.

MCheetah · Answer

I'm a black male and I have no problem with any race dating any other race. To argue over race is incredibly stupid, in my opinion, and a sign of a simple-minded tribalistic moron. AKA, most human beings.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I think: 1. Stop seeing people as a color and just see them as a person2. How's that anyone's business but the two people involved...3. Stop posting/adding to race baiting

KneeDragger · Answer

In all honesty I don't think anything about it. Number one, it doesn't effect me personally so I'm not going to care. Number two, there are all kinds of different beautiful women of all different ethnicities. Dudes are visual creatures and I might look at another lady, but I don't hold that opinion for long. There are so much more important details than what one other couple looks like.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

My opinion doesn't matter on this, its their personal relationship and since im not the man or woman in the interracial relationship it would be irrational to concern myself with other people's preferred race for dating. In a nutshell, WHY SHOULD ANYONE CARE?

Dontaaa · Answer

Doesn't matter to me on what other people do in terms of dating.

But what I will say that as a black dude who has dated outside of his race in the past is that I'm tired of dealing with racist parents who won't let their daughters date black people.

Wowie101 · Answer

I THINK IT DISGUSTING... that people would even have to ask this question... it is perfectly ok in every way

CakesNCream · Answer

You see, I have a life. So I don't really have an opinion over things that don't effect me in the first place.

FlutteringFeelings · Answer

I believe everyone should date those they feel attracted to and possibly see themselves falling in love with. Everyone should keep their options open and see what’s out their beyond what their familiar with if that’s their interests. The entire talk of who dates a specific race is dry. As long as that individual isn’t bringing down another race just to uplift another then there isn’t an issue. I’m not losing sleep over who dates who because I’m trying to figure out my own dating life lol !

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I hate it. Looks ridiculous. People should stick with their own people and cultivate love with their own people.

Secondly, those black men typically end up with low picking fruits or fruit on the ground. Those non black women are typically throw aways from their own community of men that don't desire them.

Katebfun · Answer

My mom remarried my step dad who was a black man I'm white. I've known him since I was 8 years old and I have one brother same mother same father. Doesn't matter to me at all people are people regardless.

JDavid25 · Answer

Just two humans dating each other.. It has happened since the dawn of time..

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Ethnicity, sexuality, religion, body type etc etc just do not matter when someone is dating or even married. anyone against people from different backgrounds dating is simply a bigot, racist, etc.

kkirk4442 · Answer

I don't care what color people are, when they date each other.

Hannah_le · Answer

There’s millions of people out there lol I mean I don’t care. It’s whatever.

Grubhub · Answer

Why don’t racist women complain about white men doing it? All I hear you guys do it with black men. Black can be Hispanic you dumbass. I have very dark skin and most of background is from the Dominican Republic. I have a lot of Latin women ask me all the time if I’m Dominican. I mean if you’re obsessed with skin color people would most likely see me as African American because they don’t know shiz about cultures

Devlaw5 · Answer

I’m a black guy. I don’t see a problem with it. A problem with it only prolongs segregation, which helps nothing.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I don't have an issue with interracial dating, so fine by me. It's kind of funny watching people loose their shit over interracial dating in general.

dtweed1996 · Answer

Eh its cool interacial relationships has been legal for years I mean like my girlfriend is Italian and I am black but we don't really care about the difference

anylolone · Answer

Same as anyone else dating anyone else.

For one example, depending on the black man and the woman I can think "SUCKER, better him than me."

Pretty much, like anyone else, it depends on the character of either. (That I know off, otherwise it's just blank.)

aarnasen · Answer

I mean we're all free to consensually date who we want, so I just don't see why it should be any different for Black men.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Don't see an issue with it. Let people go for who they want.

elvitto · Answer

I am black myself. I strongly preffer black women over women of other ethnicities. I find them moer attractive and culturally and spiritually more simmilar. But i am very open to dating outside if I don't find a good black woman to marry with.

Honesttguy · Answer

I think nothing of the guy, I think "ooh female going for the big black D" even tho I know from statistics most black guys dont really have that big black D we see in porn, but I still like to entertain my though that way.

Coulis · Answer

Nothing. Where are they what do you think about Latvian men dating Chinese women posts. AALLLLAWAYS an issue with black people dating anyone.

genericname85 · Answer

nothing at all. 2 people dating. i don't give a damn.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Interracial couples are normal now. It's not 1959 anymore.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

I have no particular opinion on any particular race dating any other particular race. If a woman is attractive, heterosexual men will wanna date her, simple as that.

DaisyM23 · Answer

Yeah there are lots of black people especially shown in the mainstream media who date non black women. And yeah, I kinda do think it feeds into white control but it’s up to them who they wanna date

msc545 · Answer

I don't think anything about it. I can't imagine why you would even ask this question. I think when people are dating skin color is the last thing that matters. Your question feels really racist to me.

princeofromance · Answer

It is perfectly okay with me. All that truly matters is that they love one another.

estoydorado1 · Answer

As long as he's not harming anyone, why should it concern me? Thats what I think.

xXiTacoXx · Answer

No one cares as long as y'all keep black women out your mouths.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

I'm a black guy; it's nobody's business if I should date a black girl or a non black girl. Love and Race can't occupy the same space.

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Who the hell cares, let people date whoever they want, as long as they are happy.

jasco · Answer

Well I don't see why it matters. I don't date black women simply because the majority of the ones I found had something that was a deal breaker to me or to them so yea

alexander3244 · Answer

Not my business but I'll surely ask her about how they met, what did they found interesting about each other, paying attention to how authentic she sounds. If all indicates that it all started because of sex, then I say goodbye to her and move on.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

What I think: it's not my business to think about it :)

DizzyDesii · Answer

As long as i still have a black man dating myself, i really dont care what the rest do

Madhatter920 · Answer

Cool, I guess. Don't really have an opinion on it. Doesn't matter to me.

K-I-S-S · Answer

I have exactly the same amount of issue with it as with somebody who mixes their own chocolate ice cream with a vanilla ice cream.

RelevantJ · Answer

Plenty of single men in the world. Idc bout someone else's man and his actions.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Nothing really. I do kinda wonder if the girl is into black guys though. No issues if they are. I just wonder. I have a few friends that have no gone back. Lol

Anonymous · Answer

I think u should date whomever u want, no matter the race

pleasestopthis · Answer

They can date whoever they want, everyone is entitled to have their own preferences

Citizenkirk · Answer

Is this a true, false, or multiple choice question?

Browneye57 · Answer

Are you really asking racist questions? Anyone can date anyone they like. It takes TWO to tango.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like it. It's disgusting and sad. Those girls have no shame. They're tainting their race. I'd never fuck a girl after a brotha's been in her

NikolaiIvanov · Answer

Can't blame them, black women are too unattractive anyway.

PhillyMike1776 · Answer

Color shouldn’t be s Factor, the heart wants what the heart wants!!

ToastyOats · Answer

Their trying to trade up, and before your get mad... why else would they? Really. ALSO, I'm not going to respond to stupid statements on this issue.

Jazzybear12 · Answer

As a black woman I feel that sometimes black men will show more love or find Beauty in other races but their own but not all black men though

Anonymous · Answer

The women like getting blacked raw. That’s actually my first thought lol

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think anything about it, most black women have bad attitude tbh.

Pallavi37 · Answer

Colour should not be issues. Even I would love to date black guy.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

No problem, anyone should can date anyone they want.

RSStevedmj · Answer

Love is, well, love. 💟 No, not a damn thing wrong with different races, genders or religious beliefs falling in love.

lorenzomichael · Answer

The same as I feel when an Asian woman dates a Mexican man.

Maspolomas · Answer

I don’t care I’m white and my girlfriend is Spanish and our kids are mixed

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