What do you think about black men dating outside of their race?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

I encourage any black man to date outside his race--should that specific black man want to date someone who happened to be of a different race.

Relatedly, I also support white dudes; brown dudes; yellow dudes (and women too) who find someone who they'd like to date who happens to be of a different race.

There's nothing wrong with ANYONE dating anyone else, regardless of their race. Why would there be? Unless someone sees race-mixing as problematic... and there's a word for people who feel that way. Not trying to get into some online back and forth with you here... I don't know where you're coming from. For all I know you're an Indian chick with a black boyfriend... but this question is pretty fucked up.

[humpbackjack]

Just like I told my daughters you date whoever you want just don’t date a knucklehead and there’s knuckleheads out there of every color and back ground which means there’s also good guys of every color and background. So far I’ve got one daughter that hasn’t brought me grief

[AmandaYVR]

They can do whatever they want. No one can force someone to date someone they don't want to. Free will, free choice.

This woman told him to leave, and then berated him for trying to leave. Earlier in the same day, they argued yet again. He's far from perfect himself, but at least he doesn't have rage issues. His number one complaint about her is her volatility.
She says she has abandonment issues, but them blames men for leaving her because of her vicious temper. She antagonizes and erupts on her new husband all the time.
If he chooses to date a non-black as his next relationship, it's his choice.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/B9LZ-qE8AKQ

[lilyanony1]

Absolutely nothing.
They're a couple. That found love.
I'm not interested in why their obvious differences brought them together because I assume as a person living in the same country born and raised have more than one thing in common.
That's life really.
We connect with people for all manner of reasons.
Race is probably the smallest part of it.

[lilyanony1]

Thanks for mho x

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Its a known fact for a very long black men who date outside their race are self hating coons who desire to get close to whiteness or light skin non black women because they place very high value on such skin color and loath their blackness and the womb they come from.

As soon as these fools get money through sports or music instead of giving it to their black women so she can enjoy it, he goes and gives to the non black women who is using him to exploit him for his money.

I seriously dislike coons. They are abominable to me. I will never respect them nor like them as men.

[Fuentes]

Lol "coons" ? You racist af

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Fuentes: Even if I was a racist, what you're gonna do? It's not illegal to be racist.

[Fuentes]

It's funny cause you claim to be a christian and are racist towards blacks and im just gonna keep calling you out about it, come to Cali tho we serve racist out here

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Fuentes: I don't like black men that are uncle Tom's, sell outs and turn their backs on black women that brought them into this world.

I don't like nor respect suckas like that.

[Fuentes]

You called them coons, that's a racial term & no man your racial hate is deeper then that you just use that as a disguise. Do you really think you're going to heaven with a segregation mindset and hate for a race without reason. Hating on God's creation but claim your such a huge christian, that's one big contradiction.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Fuentes: You trying to guilt trip me is 100% futile. You can think I'm the devil, I won't feel guilty. I stand 100% about what I said in my original comment.

[Fuentes]

Im guilt tripping you with the truth, you must think David Duke and the rest of his KKK posse is getting into heaven with you you have deep hate for gods creation & have an issue with humans dating other humans outside their race is a deep rooted racial issue inside yourself, so again do you really think your going to go into heaven?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Fuentes: No where in the Bible teaches that I must support a interracial dating or marriage I don't agree with.

[Fuentes]

So you think Hating on God's creation is your ticket to heaven?

[bredtaleth]

Hispanic-Cool-Guy, it's all in your head. Your surroundings might have told you to place certain values on race, but a lot of places in the world, people date between races without it ever being an issue or even a topic.

I'm sure that some of the trends you describe are true. After all, what has often been described as systemic racism has obviously left some scars on the psyche of many people. Sure, some black people feel inferior because of the stigma that their race carries and somehow aspire to "whiteness". Nevertheless, the conclusions you draw based on this are twisted by your limited world view. If someone decides to date another person, their race does not matter, as long as they are happy with that person and able to find what they want. To somehow hold onto the skewed notion that race holds any importance in this situation, only helps perpetuate racism and the idea that something sets us people apart.

So, be happy that people find common ground across races and create lives together. It's a beautiful thing. However, don't be afraid to voice your opinion, if you see people doing it for the wrong reasons. Just keep in mind that often you're not truly in a position to know what motivates this other people and what their motives truly are. You only have your own shallow interpretation of the situation you see before you. So, keep that in mind, and be humble :)

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@bredtaleth: Please who you think you're fooling? Black men have always thirst after white skin and European features because they highly value it.

Black men after slavery petition the Supreme Court of the U. S. to have access to their women and the white man told him NO.

Most black men will ditch black women in a heart beat to be with non black women if they can.

Look at rich black athletes and entertainers, as soon they get money they go after the non black women for them to enjoy their riches while the black women gets left behind struggling.

One reason I like and respect LeBron James a lot is because he loves his black woman and isn't a damn little coon.

Black men collective have never done ish for black women but give them single motherhood, poverty, struggle then go around making videos mocking and embarrassing them on social media how all other women are better than them. Ridiculous.

[bredtaleth]

It seems you ignore the core of my comment. As said, some of what you said might how true for some situations, but I'm sure we can both agree that you, not knowing the details of all these relationship, are hardly in a position to generalize why exactly people find love in the places that they do. It feels a bit as if you're deflecting feelings that you might hold or battle with yourself. You're making race an issue, when really love should be the only essential issue in a relationship.

As I said, if you know someone, and see they're in a relationship for the wrong reasons and don't think it's healthy, by all means, let them know. However, don't assume you know everyone else's issue, and don't reduce them to an agent of their race.

Who the fuck cares what Lebron James is doing? He's just some celebrity. Instead, look at the people around you and relate to them. That's what matters and what you can affect in life. I hope that if your black friend starts dating a white woman, you don't think less of him simply from that fact. If so, it would be due to you having a race problem, rather than any problem of his.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@bredtaleth: Listen dude. Black men statistically date and marry outside their race more than all other races of men combined. That should tell you something about how these men think and feel.

If love is blind then why is black men love for non black women more blinder than all the races of men?

It's not about love, black men don't like being black and desire to wash away their blackness hoping their kids come out not looking like them which isn't going to happen since black people's gene and phenotype tends to be strong so they reproduce kids that might be a little light skin bit still have black people's hair texture and facial features.

[bredtaleth]

Once again, you're somehow making race this issue. Instead, the issue you describe is based on these people having; a weak identity, and a hard time facing how society sees them. That's a very relevant issue, and certainly one worth discussing. However, don't try to generalize, and make it an issue that someone dates outside their race. That in itself is not an issue. Institutional racism and stigma against black people is.

[NopeWhatTime]

People should be able to date whoever they want regardless of race unless they personally wish to only date someone of a certain race

[Robbey]

I don't spend much time thinking about it but they can date whomever they want. It's no one's business.

[DJB72]

All those couples are the same race: homosapiens.

I don't think anyone, regardless of the melanin levels in their skin, should date outside the human race

[Asker]

Why not? I prefer aliens

[Sam2021]

Exactly

[ShadezMcgee]

Any particular reason this has been asked again? Nothing wrong with it. Stop trying to start shit.

[Enhaut]

I mean as a black woman at first I was probably against it

[Enhaut]

But then I realize that I don’t own black men and a black man don’t like me I can’t force them to want to be with me

[Enhaut]

If they want to hate me go ahead but I just stick to my own thing

[DizzyDesii]

I dont really pay them any mind. I pay attention to the ones who are into ME

[Neosporin]

It should be us Asian men being successful instead!

[FictionalCharacter]

You’re Asian?

[Neosporin]

@FictionalCharacter yes why?

[FictionalCharacter]

I didn’t know

[toiletpaper]

what does that even mean lol why can't both of you guys be successful?

[Neosporin]

@toiletpaper ok both that’s fine with me too

[Asker]

Lol dating outside of someone race is not being successful and Asian women are lovely

[Neosporin]

Well ok I won’t try to speak for all Asian men so I’ll stop talking.

[Anonymous]

I don't blame them. They believe breeding with another race, will improve THEIR race.
Really, I'm only okay with them dating East/SE Asians, because I don't care for those. The rest I want them to stay the hell away from, especially Indo-European races, because if THEY breed with a Black man, it will downgrade their race.

I'll tell you one thing though, I ain't fucking no bitch after a brotha's dick has been in her.

[Fuentes]

Lol!!

[Neosporin]

Us East Asians are way better than you slimy mongrel

[Fuentes]

@Neosporin sure you are

[Neosporin]

@Fuentes talking to the opinion owner

[SmokinAces2000]

So stupid, tisk tisk

[anylolone]

I don't care. It's not really outside of your race because it's not really different races...

[savannah02]

I think this subject is unnecessarily overanalyzed. I think people should just date whoever they are attracted to, its none of anyone else's business

[BrosephBrostar]

It's definitely fetishized, and some people get awfully defensive when they get called out when it really looks like they're trying to push a fetish, but aside from that I don't care.

[Anonymous]

They have such a great track record with black women that they should spread the wealth of fatherhood

[Anonymous]

You mean with like cheetahs and muskrat and walrus and whatnot?

[toiletpaper]

I think it's fine as long if they don't start insulting black woman all willy nilly for no reason

[beernbacon69]

Who the hell cares, date who you want. Hell I'm white and I've dated "outside my race"... skin color does not matter.

[JessIsStillHere]

Men or women of any race should feel free to date people of any other race. As a white woman who has dated black men I'm all for it.

[Anonymous]

Girls are hoping for the BBC so the black dudes in many cases would get lucky

[GoldenCage]

Let them date whoever they want to

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Nothing is wrong with it