When a guy wants a woman pregnant with his child, he finds her atttactive?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is over 30years old
We been together for over 2 years
So we been talking about wanting to start a family
He really wants a kid and be a father
And told me he wants me to be his baby mama

Does that mean he finds me attractive enough?
Since the kid will have both our looks

Yes

Not necessarily

[MTC29]

I realize I'm older than most on this site, but this whole baby mama business strikes me as a free ride for the guy. He's going to marry you and commit to being with you to raise his child... right? If you don't have that commitment, then read some of the posts here from single mom's raising children all alone. My own mother was a single mom. Although she was an amazing mother- to this day, I worship the ground she walks on, I wouldn't wish that situation on any young woman. Have your boyfriend make his intentions clear before you consider having his child.

[jahaims]

Him dating you means he thinks you are attractive lol

[Laciandmaci]

Some guys like my cousin said men just does that to show off and say hey I got someone pregnant, just for the fun of planting what they all "their seed". My one step brother said he got his girlfriend pregnant just for fun, but he always insults her saying she is ugly and only good for sex. But the kids looks nothing like her they look all like him. They have 4.

[BakedBeanieBabie]

Or he's getting old and realizes he won't be desirable or capable of fathering children later, so he's found a young woman and feels pressured to unload his seed and create a legacy as soon as possible. SHRUG.

[Kas19]

I feel like you should not have children if you're asking this question.

[kyleelyn199723]

Tell him putting a ring on it sounds more attractive than being called a baby mama.

[karaspara]

I guess so