Like the title mentions, why would a guy meet a girl and want to get her pregnant since the beginning? I have met at least 2 guys in the last year that were so eager to get me pregnant so quickly. Im not sure if its because they have huge narcissistic qualities, if they really just want to be fathers, or if they just really like me lol. guys any ideas? and girls have you been through this before?
1. They have no intention of using protection so they'll lie and talk about how great being a "father would be"
2. Being a father is a pretty easy job in the world, particularly if you have every intention of being a terrible one (one who maybe gives money only when asked, one who continues to sleep with other women, one who expects the woman to pick up all the effort of child rearing).
3. They love getting the "social benefits" of an outwardly stable life, while still maintaining a side piece (trust me, they'll find one as soon as you aren't "in the mood anymore"). It's amazing how some men's lives never change after becoming a "father." A deadbeat knows this, and will continue the cycle, cultivating more kids who eventually resent him.
Huge red flags first of all not only is it a sign of severe control issues, it’s also a sign that they lack those important qualities to be a father/good partner when it gets real, and it’s very narcissistic. A child is a huge responsibility and everyone knows that regardless if the man is very caring (which studies show most men cheat and disassociate during their partners pregnancy) a lot of responsibility falls onto the woman. To try and impose that and just spread his seed without actual thought into a commitment like marriage is reckless.
I would avoid them because they’ve already tested the waters by voicing it, unless you want to be a baby mama and find out later whether they had good intentions.
Wanting to get you pregnant right away has nothing to do with being a narcissist. Not sure where you got that idea. Hopefully you are not having sex with those guys because they will not stick around, and you will be raising that baby alone. It's not a sign of really being into you when a guy says that, it just means he is a selfish moron.
I can't wrap my head around how stupid some guys are, that is just a fucked up thing to say. Since it's happened more than once maybe it's time to reevaluate what type of guy you want as a partner.
All of those are conceivable (pun unavoidable). Another is that, if they do want to be fathers, then having children when both and either parent is younger means a lower chance of lifelong challenges for the child, such as autism or autoimmune diseases. That said, wanting them quicker than in 6 months and without committing to staying with you at least until those children were independent, indicates desperation, and desperation greatly increases the likelihood of errors.
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Because they are boys with no concept or understanding of how serious the bringing of a little human into the world is. They either have no plans of staying, or are so desperate to lock a woman down they want to create this connection. Either way, immature beyond words, irresponsible, and it’s horrible and should be a red flag of the highest order.
Sounds like a huge redflag especially if they talked more about getting you pregnant but not about being a father it´s probably a sign that they never intended to be fathers. I think they had an idea they got from somewhere and wanted to try it out, what you describe doesn´t sound like guys that are ready or genuinely interested in being a father in a family.
No idea… same thing was said to me a few weeks ago… I’d assume it’s some type of dominance he wanted over me. I would suggest just asserting boundaries and taking it slow.
I would guess it is just because they don't want to wear a condom. I don't think that they actually want to be fathers haha.
If I met a guy that wanted to do that to me, I'd be away from him in less than 2 seconds and jump back into my parents' car.
Pregnancy entrapment. It’s a sign of toxic masculinity and misogyny.
That's usually a black guy thing. White guys absolutely don't want pregnancy.
Do NOT trust those type of guys. They have no intention of being fathers. They’ll say that and abandon you once they find out you’re pregnant.
Probably just want bragging rights rather than fatherhood
He tries to get every girl pregnant. He probably jumps town if he succeeds... Motherfucker is setting up franchises...
The only sort of man that would do this is an idiot that has rocks in his head.
Having kids is no joke especially in this economy stay protected.
Only someone very irresponsible would do that.
THATS VERY WEIRD AND THE LAST THING I WOULD WANT TO DO
Stop dating Nick Cannon.
Why? Because they're losers and assholes, that's why.
It’s a dominance thing. They want to get as many women pregnant as possible but have no intention of being a father.
They are trying to baby trap you
The world is full of crazy.
u Who would do that
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