Girls are you married at age 25? Why I don’t deserve be married?

[Anonymous]

I’m the last young child left in family. All my step siblings are older than me and brothers wife’s 4 sisters all are married now. The youngest sister 28 got proposed to this week. I’m not 28 yet but I worry by that age I won’t be married at all. I feel it’s not in my destiny to be married never. I feel like a loser as everyone in family is stuck up now rich perfect life with husband and im loser little girl. That show I feel. I have a boyfriend & live alone in an apartment. But to me she 25 is like a grown women I want be proposed to start living with a guy now fast. I use a horoscope app and they have said since last years it was seen 2023 I’ll be pregnant. So I’ll just have baby not married (yet)? I know many girls marry til after they have baby. I don't know y god want everything backwards for me and he choose only them be happy and he wants me unhappy in life. I feel lonely I’m a black sheep I can’t show off to anyone my beaitful apartment & how happy I am with boyfriend, they only care of their life. To the point I’m ignored and they only talk of their life so I’m distant from all of them forevever. And try live my own life alone with boyfriend. 😞 I did marry when I was young but it was a guy that used me & since he was tall & I was extremely short had baby face, he treated me like I’m a stupid little girl & not an adult women. I’m divorced soon this year, still with same boyfriend. But boyfriend and I are short so he treat me like a women never is judging me. And that guy is now with a. Super tall women like him. So for sure that guy wasn’t for me and boyfriend maybe is for me.

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[Guy13]

All this positive energy will not help you.

[Anonymous]

yikes, when i was 25 i had no idea what i wanted and i was just starting my relationship with my now partner. young marriages usually end in divorce. quick marriages (only a few years of dating) usually end in divorce. rushed marriages end in divorce.

stop comparing yourself... you are not your brother, brother's wife, your sisters, etc... you don't need to be married at a certain age. believe me, i used to think that too. but marriage is about LOVE, not about WHAT AGE YOU ARE. if you really think about it, that sounds ridiculous. i have a friend who was stressing so much about getting married before 30. she pushed and pushed and this was during covid. she would NOT reschedule the wedding for a more appropriate day... it was ridiculous! who wants to be around someone like that?

also horoscope apps are nonsense. don't put all your energy into that...

besides that, i'm very confused with your question, especially towards the end... all i can say is, count your blessings. at least you have a boyfriend...

[Asker]

Yea I was rambling at the end lol. The issue is my parents compare me to all those people. They will be mad I’m not married and why ebeyone else is married?

[Asker]

My brothers wife’s sisters or step siblings Aren’t in my life at all but each time I visit parents they talk about all of them and compare me to them. And think they have perfect life and not me. Only they are successful as they married not me. If I have baby one day now at 25-27 they will beat me cuz I’m not married like all of them.

[Opinion Owner]

why do you care what other people do with their lives tho? focus on your own.

[Asker]

I don’t care the issue if wen I visit my mom, she begins show off talk about all of those people, 😑😑😑😑it’s annoying

[Asker]

Care of them*** typo

[Opinion Owner]

tell her to knock it off or don't visit as often

[Asker]

Girl she doesn’t change she wants control me and my life be how she wants goody goody angel girl never have baby never pregnant never living with my boyfriend no tatoos , only marry no sex never.

[Asker]

And she tells everyone I moved out but coming back to live with her. Wtf? I’m never coming back 😂 I’m Guna have my first baby and live with my boyfriend stsrt new chapter in my life at 26.

[Asker]

That’s my dream.