Do you feel the pressure to get married before you turn 30?

[Babygirl_S]

Yes

No

[Saiesh30]

It actually was never that prevalent on my mind otherwise yeah I'd say that's a favorable age to get married. You'd get enough years to live by yourself and your partner then enough years to plan a baby (or multiple) haha and so on and so forth.
That being said this is a matter of individual preferences. What applies to one can't apply to others. The needs and desires in life of every individual varies. I, however find the majority unstable without a partner so getting married in this age seems like the best bet.

[Flatmanlewis]

I did once. I fell to the pressure and accepted a relationship which I probably wouldn’t have put up with otherwise. Later, when it flamed out and ended in divorce I realized what a catastrophic mistake I made by allowing my mind to get caught up on such silliness.

[Sirenboobzilla]

Now at 27 I feel like I'm more pro marriage than I was 4 years ago right before I started dating my boyfriend. However it's not something we're pressured by. We've had a few conversations on the matter and have a mutual agreement that we don't need marriage to be committed to eachother. For taxes and certain medical benefits it would make some sense, but that's it.

[4ngelic]

i dont feel the pressure to be necessarily married before 30, just to have found my future husband and to have been dating them seriously for some time by then. personally ideally i would want to be get married around 30-33 with someone i would have been in a very serious relationship for 4-5+ years before

[Caroline91]

It has to be the right person and the right time. I was young -- 22, just graduated from university. I think my husband being older by 15 years made a big difference bc he was already well established in his career and very ready for marriage and a family.

[LostSouls_]

Na that’s a terrible reason for marriage. If I ever did want to get married it would be for the right time and right person. Not rushing to get there before being 30

[exitseven]

Yes, you have a greater chance of being killed by a terrorist than you have getting married after 30. This came out 30 years ago and is even more true since Biden allowed thousands of terrorists from a dozen middle eastern countries to just walk into the country

[RebelinSteel]

Nope, only when I feel like I’m ready, I may never get married but just live together.

Trying to rush things is often silly, and brings a later regret.

Bonus to those who do find the person early.

[katiesmuff]

In my case I should say Did I feel any pressure and that answer would be NO. I was 30 before I got married and never getting to that age did I get any pressure from anywhere to hurry it along.

[nastyb]

yes I do. but unlike what you're thinking, its not due to societal pressure. I personally want to get married at some point in life. I can't imagine spending the rest of my life dying alone.

[KostasKouvalis]

I'm already 31. 32 almost. I don't have my correct age on here. I honestly didn't start feeling the pressure 'til this past year. What about you?

[Babygirl_S]

I feel the pressure 🥺

[KostasKouvalis]

What age do girls usually get married in your country?

[Babygirl_S]

It depends on their socioeconomic status. On an average, they are 21-22 and rich urban people are about 28-31.

[KostasKouvalis]

You still have a couple years then

[thegreenyogi]

Not at all. I'm 33 still single and in no rush to marry as of yet.

[mandyfire98]

Not at all. It's on my to do list along with having children at the very very bottom in very fine print.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Not at all.

I had numerous goals in mind.

Marriage wasn't one on those goals then.

[PeachyPie93]

I used to, now it's like I don't care anymore. All the best men are taken so you will only end up with a left over anyways.

[molonski2]

hahahaha not now !

But , back in the day I married my 19 year old bride at age 28 , she was pregnant.

[Nikki1989]

I never felt any pressure. I got married because I that is what I wanted. It was all on me.

[Peridot25]

Nope! If I let pressure get the best of me, I would not make very good decisions and end up being miserable. Also, I wouldn’t be doing it for myself. I would be doing it for the wrong reasons.

[SotiCoto]

I'm impervious to social pressure. I've always lived as a pariah and I'll die as one.

Besides... I've been married... and divorced. That tends to shut that topic down pretty quickly.

[LiZiqiLiZiqi]

I don't have such pressure. I'm 32 years old and have no plans to get married at the moment. I'm even still single.

[Sugar100]

I’m 26 and I don’t think I’ll get married I still never had a first boyfriend. God is taking too long to give me my partner my person.

[DishLady]

Yeah. And you know what it led to? Divorce a few years later. Please… just move at your own pace….

[Texasgal95]

I’ll be 30 on January 19 . It will happen when it happens

[butterly248]

By my mother yes. No longer speak to her. We can't afford a wedding anyways. We are looking at civil partnership

[DarkWinterNights]

I did a little bit from friends, but that boat has sailed lol.

[ProbablyClueless]

Never felt any pressure to, but I did kind of assume that I would be married by now.

[DrPepper12]

I was first among my friends at 25. Zero pressure.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Lol. If you aren't married by 23 you're way too late.

[Babygirl_S]

Lol what? Most people don't even graduate that early

[thisAppIsGarbage]

In what country? In America we graduate at 17 or less. At 23 you are already past your breeding prime and by 30 it's over.

[Babygirl_S]

Most people go to college in my country and many guys are interested in women with a good career.

[Peridot25]

@thisAppIsGarbage Funny this coming from someone with a username like that 😂

[Peridot25]

@Babygirl_S Don’t listen to him. He’s projecting that no girl wants him.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

College is a scam. The average trades man makes twice as much as the average college grad and has zero school loans.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Baby girl I'm married with a girlfriend and have 6 kids.

[Peridot25]

So you’re a cheater

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Cheaters break rules and I have not broken any rules set up between me, my wife, or anyone else

[Libarena]

Well, I'm 32, so no.

My sister was a few months short of 34 when she married.

[nawtee_me]

I was 34 when I got married. Although I almost did it at 17. lol.

[MaaikeVee]

No.

We get married next year in our late 30s.

[SugarSugarplum]

Of course. I want a lot of kids.

[sheikalana]

I got married at 32.

[DJB72]

No, but I'm 52... And married...

[Unit1]

😆😆😆

No

[renodnol32]

Yes. A lot of pressure.

[Asian-male]

28 to 32 is best age for marriage in my opinion..

[avery58]

For yourself or do you think for both genders?

[Asian-male]

Female should marry more early than us

[Peridot25]

@Asian-Male Why?

[avery58]

Yeah tbh

[Adogdog]

Me too, it's not looking likely though lol

[avery58]

@Adogdog just keep your hopes up, what matters most is to find the right one instead of just settling for the sake of being married. We just have to remember that.

[Adogdog]

Aww thanks, if you ever wanna chat feel free to message me. :)

[avery58]

@Adogdog okay, thank you :)

[Account]

I never did.

[IslaTheWitch]

I didn't

[Booklover_90]

Not at all.

[AngryCarl]

Not any more.

[HurremSultan]

Not at all

[shortster]

I did