Poll - do you have baby fever? Why I have baby fever and depressed?

[Anonymous]

I’m turning 25 in few months & been having baby fever. I get jelaous seeing girls with baby happy. I can’t stop thinking of babies. I’m not ready this year have baby but maybe mid to end next year be pregnant and have baby born by age 26 . I’m 26 end next year. I’m not financially stable rn, my business has no sales at moment, I’m barley trying get savings, have $200 saved rn and want $5,000 saved by December. Then next year save even more so I can use it for my baby buy everything he or she will need. I’ve been feeling depressed empty in life I live alone, I’ve been feeling like a loser as I have no special baby of my own. I see women pregnant or with guy and baby and I wonder what makes them deserve a baby? What makes them deserve get pregnant by a guy and I don’t deserve get Pregnant by a guy? Like how is the women so special n amazing to be able get huge belly n have so much sex so many times with boyfriend to get baby. Why im not worthy have this too? Im not a party girl, I want move to a big condo apartment , and raise my baby there in our blissful home. I feel my purpose is have baby not just be stupid women living alone empty working that’s it. My life is to have my own family 😔& true happiness with my own new family.

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Lol like always men vote no they don’t have baby fever it’s normal for ALL MEN to not want babies but when the girl is pregnant men have no choice n to suck it up lol.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Definitely, I've had baby fever for a few years now, in a sense I can relate to what you're saying. A lot of the adults in my life either are having children or are already raising little kids. I just want to have a daughter who i can teach and take care of, family life sounds so beautiful (and occasionally messy). Of course, I'm not going to be pregnant any time soon, if anything, I'm planning for when I'm 19 or 20 years old. Still jealous of those who are still able to be mothers. Dw, you'll probably be able to eventually have a child and cover the basics, at least you still have some time left before you're 27. Having a stable environment and parents would be the most important for the parent. At least a baby won't ask you to buy the latest xbox 😂 lol.

[Asker]

My family don’t understand my baby fever , they think girls never have sex until age 35. And they think u only have baby wen u marry but that’s not true all girls ik have boyfriend and baby. They think I’ll be forever doing nothing no baby just work that’s it lol so stupid

[letuswaltzforthedead]

It is a problem, especially since its harder to conceive when you're in your 30s. Getting married is understandable, since its usually seen as a safety net for the family but it isn't always necessary. Plus, why procrastinate on something so beautiful as having a bouncy beautiful baby. They're so adorable 😊

[LazerBean]

Kind of yes and no. My friend has a baby that is just like the freaking cutest baby ever, and I'm so obsessed with her. So it definitely excites me to have a baby, but at the same time I still want to wait two or three years because I enjoy being able to do whatever I want and go wherever I want with my husband too much for now. Plus we are wanting to build up our baby fund a little more.

[EmmaMary]

I'm currently six months pregnant with our second child. 🙂

[Asker]

Did u have depression like me wen u had baby fever?

[EmmaMary]

Not really, as we had already planned as to when we wanted to have children.

However, as this will be our last child, there's probably a strong possibility that I shall suffer like you in later years.

[Asker]

Suffer with what?

[EmmaMary]

With depression and baby fever of course. lol

[Asker]

What advice do u have for me based on my story?

[EmmaMary]

None, other than to keep working on your dreams and aspirations in getting yourself in the right place with financial security and stability... Wishing that all your dreams come to fruition. ❤

[faithgrace4u]

You could adopt a baby and God will provide all the $ if you feel a calling to babys then maybe you should adopt a baby

[mermaidcancermoon]

I dont gave baby fever, I watch a lot of kiddos for friends, so seeing how much energy and time kids take, puts me off to having one.

[Putriz]

I don’t want to have a baby and I won’t get pregnant either ways, so I can’t relate.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I would like to start a family.

[Asker]

me too it’s making me depressed

[Anonymous]

Yes. It is depressing to want kids and not have any.