Why are all guys at school staring at me?

[Anonymous]

So there are plenty of guys at my school who keep on staring at me. They never approach me though and it is weird. I get told that I am pretty by many people any age. Most guys approach me via social media and chat with me there but the same guys never talk to me in real life. Am I that intimidating or are they just not interested? I get told that I have unique characteristics and do not look like anyone else and that it is a really good trade. Also some guys are being mean to me at school for no reason even though I am trying to be polite with them. Some guys move away from me when I seat nearby. Girls also avoid me and talk to me only when they need something from me. I have few friends but they are great. Some girls stare at me with disgust and it weirds me out. There is also one guy at my school who I consider the most handsome face wise and body wise. I reached out to him online and told him that I would like to get to know him as a friend for now -as I noticed him staring every day and pointing his body towards me- but he told me that he doesn't see a point getting to know me for now and if there will be a chance we will get to know each other in a different situation. He also walks near me sometimes. When I walk past his company they stop talking for a second to look at me. I am so confused about why guys act so weirdly towards me.

[Interstate]

We are talking teenagers here. Immature and generally stupid-acting. Ignore them, keep your head high, look straight forward and walk with a grin on your face. That displays self-confidence and they will never see it coming.

[slatyb]

Cute picture. I'm guessing a lot of them are crushing on you but are too scared to approach.

[Asker]

Do you think so? It just that they act weirdly I don't notice the same with other girls..

[slatyb]

They are ordinary. You are special. They all want you. Do you want any of them?

[Asker]

I don't know maybe... But some of the guys are a bit imature.

[slatyb]

They can sense that you aren't too impressed by most of them. They are busy thinking "she's out of my league".

[NightHawk99]

They think you're cute but won't approach you out of fear you'll judge them harshly or worse. Simple as that. Just find the one that puts an everlasting smile on your face. :)

[Asker]

Thank you very much!! That was so nice of you to say.

[ChrisMaster69]

Most likely nervous and she, guys often are at that age,

it’s really a case of living with it or making first move in chatting to a boy.

[Texasguy99]

From your profile you look very pretty. Maybe they are intimidated. I say go get what you want.

[Asker]

Thanks!! I mean I tried talking to one of the guys but he told me that he doesn't want to get to know me online.. This is kinda weird but ok. At school he stares and if i ignore him he gets a bit sad (from his expressions) I mean maybe I am doing something wrong?

[Texasguy99]

Not at all. I’m guessing he’s just shy. Instead of online you should ask him out. I’d ask you out.

[Asker]

Yeah i also heard rumours that he had a girlfriend and they broke up because she turned out bi lol... A Really complicated story XD

[Texasguy99]

Want to talk about it more over dm

[Asker]

With you? Or did I understand you wrong?

[Texasguy99]

I meant with me. Yes

[jasco]

Nervousness can do a lot to men and women. Of course so can jealousy. Of course their could also be other reasons not sure

[Wise4myage]

Take the bull by the horns and start approaching the guys who appeal to you.

[DWornock]

It is all in your imagination and you are overly conceited. Who are you that everyone should be watching you?

[Asker]

I know what I am talking about. We women sense things that men don't and also I see where their eyes are directed and also I see with the corner of the eye that some guys turn their heads in my direction so... I am not conceited.

[Asker]

Also some of my friends tell me that this guy is watching you or something like that lol

[Asker]

There is a huge difference between conceited and self confident. And why shouldn't i think this way? If it makes me feel better? Also I am not ugly duckling so that guys won't look my way! Sorry if i seem mean I just state some things I consider facts.

[Asker]

Also I dont think i am better than any other girl. I just observed some type of attention from guys and don't get why they only stare even if i heard some of them complementing me from afar in a group of guys they were looking in my direction and i looked around to see if there was another girl standing behind me... There wasn;t any girl so they were staring at me. This is it. I acted like I didn't hear them and continued walking... I don't know why though. I am a bit shy.

[DWornock]

Certainly, guys notice and look at pretty girls and occasionally guys will do what you refer to as staring if they think you are not aware. However, that applies to all pretty girls and, if you are pretty, it includes you.

Guys notice pretty girls, whether or not they have the confidence to approach. By mid to late teens most guys have learned that girls out of their league are not going to be receptive to being approached. They will look and hope but they likely they will not approach since rejection is painful. Better to think you might be rejected than to approach and remove all doubt.

[Asker]

Yeah I agree with you. There are so many pretty girls out there. I think they just have other crushes on other girls and this is why they only stare at me and never approach. They just like the aesthetic of me and not me u know... That's what I concluded tbh. Because you can't be liked by EVERY guy every guy has a different type.

[Iron_Man]

Is this high school or college? How do you talk to these people how do you dress and how do you act?

[Asker]

So I try to be sweet not too sweet you know. I dress casually jeans, cute t-shirts, sometimes chokers and style my hair differently. I am in High school:)

[Iron_Man]

The reason why I asked because your age is wrong on here. Probably because the chokers that you wear and the different colored hairstyles that you put up

[Asker]

Yeah the age is different because i thought that under 18 is not allowed here lol

[Asker]

the hairstyles are not different colors they are different styles. Sorry that i confused you my bad

[Iron_Man]

Your picture doesn’t look bad at all it doesn’t look like your renegade maybe you’re too beautiful for those guys there to shy

[Asker]

Yeah maybe. And thank you for the complement by the way )

[Iron_Man]

You’re very welcome there’s nothing wrong with you at all you look very good

[Asker]

Again thank u!

[Anonymous]

Maybe they attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

You are very cute.

[Asker]

Thank you! :)

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.