Girls how do you generally feel when a guy defends you/takes your side during a debate and such?

[Still-alive]

I 'd appreciate it for the most part

I'd be confused about his motives for doing so

I'd think he's just doing it to "white knight" me

I would be a bit annoyed because i can handle it without his help

No reaction from me at all- just meh

I'd have a different reaction (please say)

I just wanna see results

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+1 y

I assume we all know what "white Knight means but in case a few don't its this pejorative term for guys who help a woman in hopes they will get something in return... usually sex or something.

in my experience though its just something mainly other men-incels- use to demean them

[crazyish]

The thing is that yes there are some men who defend women in hopes of getting something in return but there are men who genuinely share the same perspective as the women they are defending. Too many people use it against all men to discredit their opinions.. like they honestly can't actually be decent human beings with their own values that just happen to match up with women's values.

People are entitled to their own opinions and I highly respect men who stand up for what THEY believe in. Not only are they standing up for the shared initial belief the woman has but they are also defending against bullies as well. It's a very admirable quality and I guarantee that these men do it for other men as well. I more than appreciate it, I respect it.

[Still-alive]

glad you see it like i do :)

[crazyish]

🙂🙂 we tend to think alike

[CrazyGirl2]

I very much appreciate it! It’s nice for a man to have your back. It really sucks being attacked by guys who disagree with an OPINION, and other guys either just sit there and say nothing, or automatically take the first guys’ side, on something that is just a preference or opinion!

[Still-alive]

agreed

hey different picture!

[CrazyGirl2]

What different picture?

[Still-alive]

your profile pic i mean lol. its alright just different

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes! I was SICK AND TIRED of all the men who would DM me with lewd/graphically sexual questions and statements (even though I have a GIGANTIC warning about NOT DM’ing me with sexual questions and/or statements) and they ALWAYS made a comment about “how beautiful” I was… (as if THAT gives anyone the right to sexually harass me)

[Still-alive]

yes i read your warning haha. sorry for those guys. have you tried making it so only people you follow dm you instead? should filter out most of that i think?

cause some guys just don't give a shit even if you put warnings up.

[CrazyGirl2]

Oh trust me, at LEAST one or two a day don’t give a shit about the warning! Is it people who follow me, or people I follow who can only DM me? And where do I turn that on? I just have to make sure that I’m following the people I speak with on a regular basis! Lol

[Still-alive]

yeah only people you follow can message you. its in settings. just tick the box next to "Allow messages only from people I follow" and you're good

[CrazyGirl2]

Thanks hun 🤗

[Still-alive]

np. hey you cool if i send a dm to you sometime? just for funsies?

[CrazyGirl2]

Sure, I know you well enough

[Still-alive]

okayysss

[ChrisMaster69]

I am guilty of doing this, in fact I did it pretty much from day one.

I had never knew it was the girls fault that guys could not get laid, total new one on me.

if any of my male friends from School to present had come out with that I would laughed and taken the piss.

Apparently it’s also not what guys do, as in protect a girl when she’s being ganged up on by invariably Blue Anon Virgins and Pink Anons that are obviously guys.

for me it just felt so twisted and wrong to berate a girl and then that Alpha bollox god that is just a red flag.

Then you have the accusations of this word simping, again a new one on me. I’m like yeah whateva… strangely enough I don’t do it to fawn over a girl, I have a very small followers / following list and a lot of the ‘simping’ has been for Pink Anons lol.

My ulterior motive… fair play, spot of reality, being nice (ok I’m a twat). There are some really nice people on this site, 2 I know have left due to the toxic shit that is GaG and specific blues.

anyhow, not changing what I do and how I do it.

I am partial to Tea and scones though.

[90sVibe]

I really don't care who or what "takes my side" or "defends me" or what their motives are unless they press on about how they behaved and or expect some sort of payback. I think it's a nice gesture but I've learned to never try and read into things like that or to care for the most part.

[Still-alive]

Thats a good way to think about it.

[Kayla45]

For all intensive purposes I appreciate it when just about anybody takes my side, it gives me gratification that what I'm saying holds actual substance to others. I think for most people they would feel quite happy that someone takes their side or defends you.

[Still-alive]

Agreed

[purplepoppy]

Why wouldn't he or even she for that matter tack my side? I'm right after all.

[Still-alive]

cause he wants to be seen as "having a spine"

[TwoToTooTutu2]

She's literally right on every matter. There is no good reason to oppose her

[loves2learn]

I appreciate it! I think it’s a nice thing to do. To assume his just being a white knight is quite jaded.

[Still-alive]

Well so far only one person found this annoying

[Kaneki05]

Mostly i just correct someone if there factually wrong or trying to impose a false hood on to someone.
I am not really thinking about the person i am defending with what i said more just in it to tell the other person there wrong. So whether the girl appreciates it or not i shall do it anyway.

[FreyaRed]

It's annoying and unnecessary in most cases. In persuasive enough in my native language to handle any verbal situation by myself.

[Still-alive]

Noted

[myname604]

It depends on the situation!
Guys wouldn't understand if they do not already get it.

Make some guy friends and learn how to be a man and eventually they will understand what is what.
Most important is to rid their minds of feminist brainwashing and TV propaganda.

If its a young guy, maybe date an old woman willing to teach them. When they are ready, then date a younger woman whom they can be happy with.

There is no right answer!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I don't feel any certain way... It's nice if people share your views, or stick up for someone if people are rude or attacking someone for no reason.

[Arivor]

Yeah, I hate it when I see someone being rude to anyone I may even so slightly know, and I will call them out on it. Then again, if I don't even know you... I don't have time to be jumping in with the number of rude comments on here. 🤷‍♂️

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Arivor Right! More rude comments, insults than actual advice or conversations

[PaynefulPleasures]

I would appreciate it as long as his intentions were good ✌️

[Gwenhwyfar]

I like it assuming he’s not just doing it to get with me

[ChrisMaster69]

@gwenhwyfar nah never

[Gwenhwyfar]

@ChrisMaster69 😂😂😂

[S3ntnl]

simps do that

[SamA_nold]

It depends why they were doing it.

If a guy shares my perspective and wants to join in the discussion, I appreciate the teamwork.

If he's doing it just because he thinks I'll give him something in return, that's not how I work.

[menina]

I would be suspicious and I would assume that he had ulterior motives, unless he was gay.

[Still-alive]

wow really? even if there was nothing that happened after the debate? and he flat out says he just wanted to say something?

[menina]

No, in that case I would trust him.

[Still-alive]

ok thats good.

[menina]

Yeah, I guess. But it rarely happens.

[Still-alive]

yeah i don't know if i've ever seen you debating anyone on here anyways

[menina]

I have done that, but now I rarely do it. Most guys attack me on debates because they don't want to hear the truth.

[Still-alive]

yeah people hate me for that too lol. i got a lot of blocks :P

[menina]

I know what you mean Lol
I've been blocked by misogynists and racists. And I also blocked some of them.

[Still-alive]

yeah i think of it as badges of honor really lol

[menina]

Lol

That's a good way of seeing things. They're the ones who are wrong, not us.

[pajamasam]

Questions not directed at men but I wanted to toss my 2 cents in. I thought most women would react in a negative way, not be appreciative. So the results kinda shocked me a bit.

[collie22]

if he's doing it cause he believes i'm in the right it makes me feel more powerful

[Still-alive]

You dont assume ulterior motives on his part?

[collie22]

i don't know could be

[electromagnetic]

It’s appreciated if I have all the correct facts. If it’s based on opinion I’d rather they have their own or just say they agree with me.

[Jaylaaa2000]

I don't mind it.

But usually rarely debating on here.

Certain topics i will but most the time i ignore people.

[clampfan101]

Some people have accused me of being a white knight, but I never am. I’m just trying to be nice and believe in gender equality, but apparently that’s so rare that both genders have called me a white knight in the past.

[Anonymous]

Why does the gender natters? I appreciate anyone who defends my points.

[Still-alive]

some people (mainly incels) think that a guy might just want to do it to get int o a woman's good graces in hopes for sex.

[Opinion Owner]

It rarely happens to me. Many guys who defend my points did not even dm me and want anything in return

[Still-alive]

yeah like i say its usually just a way for incels to demean a guy or emasculate him

[Anonymous]

Everyone should take my side; because my arguments are the best, obviously. ;P

[PeacefulRainDrop]

It makes me feel empowered!

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I dont just appreciate it... but if he has a cocky know it all attitude then id rather handle it myself.. but if I say something some else speaks against it and he comes back at them in my defense.. I feel empowered and justified much more than appreciate it

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

I'd rather he express his own opinions

[Still-alive]

he can still do that while still supporting yours.

[ceraunophile]

It makes me wanna hug him 💖

[SandandWaves]

I appreciate

[faye_girl]

I like it 😆

[Still-alive]

great! maybe i'll help you out sometime

[faye_girl]

Ok next time I get into it with someone.. you better be there!!!

[karaspara]

Appreciative

[HHHHIHHHHHIHHHH]

I feel special

[Chthou95]

That picture is hilarious

[lefleurlotus]

i think i’d fall for him with my lonely ass