Is a taken guy laying his head on another girl’s lap considered flirting?

[samcorgis]

My boyfriend laid his head on one of his female friend’s lap the other day. One of his friends took a picture of it and I saw it. The girl that he laid his head on he used to like. I asked him about it and he didn’t see anything wrong with it. All of our friends see and say that it’s obvious the girl still likes him. Is this normal? Is it normal for a guy with a girlfriend to lay his head on his old crush’s lap? What should I do?

Updates

+1 y

So I talked to him about it and we sorted it out. But today he broke up with me saying he doesn’t feel committed enough. He’s been spending more time with the girl so I don't know. Anyway yeah that’s what’s happened

[Nik1hil]

Relationships fail when you try to own your partner...

Relationships succeed when you love and let your partner Live..

Just say...
To his face "I hated that you put your head in her lap.. But I was not there for you at that moment so it's okay... Just next time call me and take my permission before doing something like this..."

Ask for his honesty...
Don't own him.. Let him live.. Same applies to him.. He shouldn't control you or own you...
He should give you freedom to meet your guy friends and wear the dress you like including revealing dresses and bikini too..

[bowenw]

It sounds like he's flirting with her. It's not normal to do something like that when you already have a girlfriend. You can tell him you don't like him doing it or do it yourself with another guy and see how he likes it.

[bowenw]

Sorry to hear about the breakup. You are better off without someone like that.

[samcorgis]

Thank you 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If I had an ex-girlfriend and currently dating and in a relationship with a girl I will be dammed if I would lay my head on the lap of my ex-girlfriend that is way too much

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@samcorgis I'm sorry this happened to you , it will take some time to heal best wishes :)

[samcorgis]

Thank you for your best wishes :)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@samcorgis You're Welcome :) 👼🙏

[Still-alive]

It is a little odd yeah. Did he have any feelings for her ever?

[samcorgis]

Yeah, they liked eachother for a few months but never dated because they wanted to get to know eachother more. This was only a few months ago.

[Still-alive]

Id be sus of it ngl

[es20490446e]

If I laid my head down to my someone's lap, how do you think they will respond if they weren't into me?

[RealMarek]

It is abnormal, disrespectful to his girlfriend, and a bit more than flirtatious.

[CallmeTheKnight]

If you laid your head on another man's lap he's going to have a problem with it. Yeah it's disrespectful and chances are he's trying to give himself some options with this girl that likes him

[CreamySeed]

It’s not that big of a deal but i wouldn't let him anywhere near her anymore as this can escalate to a full blown pussy and dick sexual encounter nip it in the bud

[Anonymous]

that's fucked up. so he likes her and plans on cheating on you and dumping you for her

[BakedBeanieBabie]

... I'm the baaaaad guy.

DUH.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, I’d say it’s flirting

[spartan55]

Sure, perfectly normal... wow

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

he knows its wrong