What’s your take on a male being in touch with his feminine side, as apposed to gay?

[clampfan101]

What makes a man’s actions, feelings, etc. one or the other?

I’m as straight as an arrow. However, I’ve been mistaken as a girl on other sites in the past that didn’t show my gender or face. 😕
My only guess as to why is because of the anime I love, particularly Clamp manga. (hence the name clampfan101) I like sweet romance and cute stuff like magical girls and slice of life. ❤️
(If not that, perhaps my respect for women? 🙄)

[JackSmy]

Some women have thought I was Gay, because I want to understand them, and understand how they feel, and be able to relate, better!
In college, most of my guy friends thought I was Gay, because I LOVED, going shopping with girlfriends!
What "Straight Guy" does that, right?
A LOT, if they have any sense!!
By "shopping" she meant EVERYTHING, and it wasn't just "hold my purse" shit!!
Sneaking into dressing rooms, and helping her try on things, and having a 'moment' and so MUCH FOREPLAY FUN!!
Of course, Victoria's Secret, and trying on things, and yeah, sneaking in, with her, as she tried things!!
Liking watching her try things, and not liking some looks, but loving others! Liking "fashion" as a guy? LOL!!

[clampfan101]

I certainly wouldn’t mind helping my future wife try things on.

[princeofromance]

I think it is perfectly okay for a male to be in touch with his feminine side. You should always be yourself, even if it is a male who is in touch with his feminine side.

[clampfan101]

Thanks. :)

[Smashingdoozy]

Men being more "feminine" is attractive af. It's something a lot of women are attracted to.

[clampfan101]

I hope that’s true.

[Smashingdoozy]

Yeah for most women I think. Men think women are attracted to muscular manly men but in reality that is attraction through the male gaze not female. Women are far more emotionally connected and are attracted to features that align with that. Men are attracted to physical features.

[clampfan101]

Well, good for me. lol

[clampfan101]

If I wrote a dating profile, what would be a good way to tell the readers of my feminine side?

[eatmycupcake]

I think it's adorable and sweet and don't ever change! Love, Ailbhe ❤️

[clampfan101]

Thank you very much!

[Adam1978]

The whole concept is weird. And guys will be mistaken as gays as soon as they don't show interest in women the way they want it. People has thought I was gay more then once and I don't act feminine at all. I just don't go around hunting skirts. So just do you and don't wonder what other think.

[clampfan101]

It’s very weird...

[Adam1978]

Yep I don't see anything in a personality as either male or female. I can be a caretaker without being feminine, I can care about others feelings without being feminine. I just do it my way.

[The_Maphio]

Liking cute is a norm. I also like cute.
But I also like blades, martial arts and violent videogames.
Romance feels nice, and so does rowdy sex.
You just happen to like the softer side of things more. That doesn't make you gay in the slightest.
Just more sensitive and potentially a nice guy. Which by this very board contents doesn't have many chances with women as opposite to a complete piece of shit.
You must be nice to hang around with, though.

[Anonymous]

I've been accused of being gay. That accusation is merely a complaint.
The feminine side is my X chromosome. My weakest chromosome.
I respect women who respect others.

[clampfan101]

What’s it a compliant about?

[Opinion Owner]

Your unwillingness to think with your penis.

[clampfan101]

Sounds more like a compliment. 🙄

[Opinion Owner]

Women like horny men.

[clampfan101]

People ask questions like “how horny are you” all the time, but I don’t know how to measure that. Is it even possible for a virgin to know for sure?

[Opinion Owner]

Trust yourself as the standard.

[clampfan101]

What does that mean?

[Opinion Owner]

You are the man.

[Doflamingo1]

I think it might be the emjoies that are giving off that vibe.

[clampfan101]

Using emojis,(which by the way I rarely use more than one of if any), makes me look gay?

[Doflamingo1]

Not gay, your choice of emojis give off that feminine feeling. I didn’t see any issue with the way you communicated online but, the emojis give off that Disney Princess sort of feeling.

It’s kind of hard to describe. In your description, If I didn’t know that you were a man I would think that a 17 year old female wrote it because of your use of emojis.

The only emojis that I’ve seen other guys use online are mostly these 🙏🏾💪🏾💯🥶🤣♨️

[clampfan101]

So I don’t seem gay. I just seem like a 17yo Disney Princess. Good to know. >_>;

[Anonymous]

"I’m as straight as an arrow. However, I’ve been mistaken as a girl on other sites in the past."

Press X to doubt.

[anylolone]

Gay is liking dick.