Does he really like me?

[Sugar123soso]

There’s a guy who keeps staring at me every time he sees me.. he keeps staring at me with a cute smile I can’t smile back cause I feel shy everytime he stares at me.. I think he’s crushing on me but I’m not sure cause he added me on FB but he doesn’t talk at all. Should I text him or wait him to do? i Mean he keeps looking at me and he added me so what is he waiting?

[caring__1]

He may be just as shy as you. Is there a reason the responsibility for this potential relationship lies solely on his shoulders? You say your can't smile back. More accurately, you choose not to smile back. You have the ability to smile. Both of you fear rejection, so neither makes the first move. If you want this potential to die before it has a chance to live, continue your pattern. A relationship is a partnership. That means both people choose to be active equal participants.

If you want to open the door without fearing rejection, a smile is an opening without a promise. Ask him to help you with something. Guys tend to like feeling they can help others (as long as they don't feel they're being taken advantage of). Ask his opinion, showing you value his opinion. You can say he made the first move by smiling. What are you willing to do to take the next step?

[Sugar123soso]

I confessed my feelings to someone I liked before and I get rejected that’s why Im Confused if I have to take the first step or not. I want to smile with him but I dunno I get shy when he stares at me in that way so I low my gaze that’s what I do ☹️ .

[caring__1]

You can lower your gaze and still smile. We're not talking about wearing your heart on your sleeve and sharing your innermost feelings from the start. We're just talking about opening the door to see if they are interested in entering. You don't need to be vulnerable with the first step. It can be as simple as asking him to help you reach something on the top shelf.

[spartan55]

He's waiting for you to at least crack a smile so he knows you MIGHT have interest. Do you think all you have to do is stand around, look pretty, and do absolutely NOTHING?

[Sugar123soso]

Yes you totally right

[spartan55]

Well then get to it before he loses interest.

[Siren777]

Yes he is. He seems shy though, are willing to make a move?

[Sugar123soso]

O dunno I’m afraid to be rejected

[In_Trance]

If he really liked you, you'd never feel the need to question it

[stitchlover19]

I think he’s waiting for you to show that are interested

[Luckycharms12]

Seems interested

[Sugar123soso]

You think?

[Luckycharms12]

Keeps looking at you. And added you on social media