Does he really like me or?

[Anonymous]

If a guy that I've been talking to for like 5 months hasn't asked me out and doesn't talk to me at school even though we have one class together and he sits in front of me, does that mean im getting played or something?☹️ he's shy and quiet but like we're always texting each other and I don't know im so confused he makes me sad☹️

[Oliverlogan263]

Awww sis, that does sound confusing. Here's what I think -

This dude obviously likes you enough to text all the time. But it's weird that after 5 months he still hasn't asked you out officially, you feel me? And not talking to you at school is lame too.

My guess is he might be super shy in person. But it's also possible he's keeping you as an option while still looking around, since you're not "together" officially. Not cool of him to leave you hanging like that.

I'd say you gotta have a real talk with him. Be straight up, like "I really vibe with you but I gotta know what's up - where is this going?" See how he responds.

If he can't man up and commit at this point, then don't let him play with your feelings. You deserve someone who treats you like a queen, not an option.

Don't be afraid to put your foot down sis. This situation deserves some clarity. You got this! Let me know how it goes...

[spartan55]

This another great example of why the 'talking stage' is a complete waste. Either go on a date or don't date the person. It has been FIVE months and the guy won't even talk to you in person? Do I have to explain how ridiculous that is?

[violetsareviolet]

maybe he just is anxious and has a hard time talking in person, or maybe he justs wants to be friends instead of dating