So I've been talking to this guy from work for a few weeks now, and so far it seems to be going really well. We'll talk for hours most days. Given that he is a very quiet and shy guy and I'm a very quiet and shy girl (we both have social anxiety) we tend to do most of our talking over text. But recently after getting to know eachother better, he asked if I wanted to hang out with him outside of work sometime to really get to know eachother better outside of text and outside of the added stress from being near coworkers. At first he suggested we go to the movies on one of our days off, but after thinking about it more, we both realized that the only movie theater in town is a very tiny, hole in the wall movie theater that won't show anything good on a random weekday in early November, and we can't get to know eachother in a movie theater anyways, so he then suggested that if I'm comfortable with it, we could go to his place to watch a Christmas movie and order food. That honestly sounded really nice, but now I'm overthinking it a little bit. If a guy asks you to his place the first time you hang out, what does that mean? Does he really just want to talk and watch a movie? Does he have bad intentions? Is it a red flag? This guy in particular seems to be really nice, making sure I'm comfortable and suggesting that I can share my location with someone I trust if it makes me feel better, but I still want to make sure
There is no such thing as overthinking but thorough situation analysis in this case.
It is obviously a red flag if a guy invites you to his place to watch a movie. Besides the movie, he will also attempt to make a... move on you. That is a guaranteed fact.
I personally would not accept to go to his place alone but try to take a female friend along for your own security.
Men very seldom tell beforehand what is going in the back of their mind and they will try to go several steps further. You should be aware of that fact and also you should tell somebody where you are and that this trust person should call you on periodic intervals to makes sure that you are okay and safe.
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He wants to get laid. Especially since he didn't suggest going out somewhere first.
If he is a true man of God and asks you that, then it's only a movie. If he is not a true man of God, then it's likely he just wants to have sex with you.
Movie? Is there going to be a movie before or after the sex?
Netflix and Chill, y'all!
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Men never mean what they say.
Nope, it is a pretext to sex.
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