Back in July I met the most gorgeous navy guy. The first date there was obvious chemistry, he couldn’t take his eyes off me. We would talk all week, go out every weekend. After 2 months we ended up having sex, really amazing sex, he came twice (he didn’t know he could do that). Things were great, I thought he would maybe ask me to be his girlfriend. Nope, one day ghosted me & blocked me out of his life without reason. It’s been 5 months, out of nowhere I received a text from him. Said he missed me, begging to see me. I said yes, within 10mins he showed up at my house. (I later found out he was waiting nearby my house hoping I’d say yes). We went out for burgers & ice cream, catched up. Apparently he’s being deployed next month. Next thing I knew he kissed me, & had sex at my place. Sex was different this time, he was passionate, kept kissing & looking into my eyes. At one point I had whispered “I missed you” in his ear, he kissed me, looked at me and said “I love you”. After the 4th time he came, we cuddled & watched tv. Further into the night he said “this is what I love about you, you’re always so easy to talk to & drama free unlike my girlfriend. Sex with you is like no other.” I paused & confronted him about having a girlfriend. He apologized and said “I’m confused, I just don’t see it going anywhere. I was going to take her to meet my parents, but she started drama about not wanting to meet my parents. I don't know, I feel like an ass cheating on her. She’s a good person, a spark is still there, but I’m only 22. I wanted to see you, I missed you. I even told my commander “I hope she texts back” when he asked why I was glued to my phone”.. After that he looked confused & left..
I’m so confused & hurt that he deceived me, cheated on someone, very heartbroken that I was never good enough to have been his girlfriend months ago.
Can someone please give some logic as to why he hurt me like this? Why did he do this? Why did he lead me on? Just... why?
I’m so confused & hurt that he deceived me, cheated on someone, very heartbroken that I was never good enough to have been his girlfriend months ago.
Can someone please give some logic as to why he hurt me like this? Why did he do this? Why did he lead me on? Just... why?
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