Guys, Why does he keep pushing me away? And what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Me and my partner broke up after an argument a year ago, since he's stated he loves me but isn't ready for a relationship cause he's scared of hurting me. (Granted he's had a lot going on in his family this last year), why does he keep asking for space and pushing me away? I bearly message every other day now with "have a good day" but it still seems to be too much for him. But then he says it's not me and he still wants me around. It's really mixed messages and I can't tell if he is doing it deliberately to get me out of his life without being the bad guy or of he's dealing with something and it's a guy thing? Male insight would be appreciated

[Waldoe]

wait for him to message you, do not send him a friendly Good morning... Nothing. If he doesn't send you a message by 3 pm you will have your answer... he really isn't interested but is too weak to tell you the truth. Do NOT break down and Do Not send him a message... Wait...

[Adam1978]

Give him his wish and walk away. People like him needs to learn that actions has consequences and he can't choose day by day what relationship he will have with you. If he can't manage that, he should remain single.

[Searlas]

Because he doesn’t want to be with you, to him, some on your previous engagement that led to an argument was a red flag. We as humans tend to see faults in others but not ourselves. Time to move on.

[Avicenna]

It's probably a combination of things. Most people don't deal well with adversity and conflict in a relationship and give up too soon.

[In_Trance]

Walk away

[JesseJayNeak]

Internal conflict