I have this situationship, or had. (He keeps coming back)
Me and him been on and off lately and we’ve been seeing each other since August.2020 and talked on 5 months before meeting via socials. We had a great time and spent every moment together. We practically lived together at some point. And I saw him as a good friends of mine and one of my closest.
We’ve been honest with each other and we both agreed on that we’re not ready for a relationship. But there’s this, many things changed. He’s been pushing me away but keeps coming back to me. last time we spoke together he felt sorry for being an a**hole and he knew he hurt me by just not wanting to be friends, being mean, care etc. for the past few months. He said that if he could he would come back thousands of times. He repeatedly said “I don’t know” and he said he doesn’t know what he want but he always end up back to me at some point. He also said a part of me want this but a part of me don’t”. He kept saying the problem is not me as i’ve always been there for him at his lowest and always been kind and that he loves and cares about me but he’s so confused by everything.
After this conversation I was wondering to myself, has he gotten feelings for me and trying to push it away? Is he scared? I can’t talk to him either cause he blocked me again for the 4. time.
Because you keep letting him. You really need to ask yourself: do you really want to keep riding the yo-yo he has you on or are you done riding it? The only to get off it probably means cutting him off completely. Also yes some people do like to screw with other peoples emotions. So he could be screw with your emotions because he likes doing so. It's not a pleasant thought. But that does mean there isn't some truth to it. So it's like a said before do you really want to keep riding the yo-yo he has you on?
I have no contact with him now, as he said he doesn’t want anything to do with me. But we had the talk the day after that he knows he is hurting me but doesn’t know why he keeps doing it… I’ve been straight with him too that this isn’t okay at all. But i guess he removed himself out of my life. It’s just matter of time when he’ll come back again
So you have sex with this guy but he won't commit to you?
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Anonymous
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He does seem very hot and cold but then again sometimes people do push others away when they're under a lot of stress. I'm not really vibing with the fact that he's blocked you a couple of times tho, kinda childish
I’ve been telling him, but he has me blocked again and again said he doesn’t want contact. But me and him knows he coming back at some point. Told him he was childish keeping up that way but he’s cold on message
