Hey fellas, I’m 22 & had 3 boyfs & 2 dating-friends right? After ending each one, their friends still compliment me what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I’m being passed around cause it’s happening so much however I’m a very respected and beautiful young woman so I doubt that’s the case; maybe they’re just super friendly? I don’t know how a guy thinks so I won’t assume.

Thanks for the help in advance.

[USMC-Crossroads]

Yes, but no. They are "technically" passing you around, but they are not doing it because they think you are worthless. This has happened to me and my group of friends multiple times. No, I have never "passed" a girl around, just so we could all fuck her, and high-five each other afterwards. Especially if you're in the suburbs or a small town, at that age, (and if you are cute), people date. The truth is, it's more likely that all of them see you as a viable dating option. And that's what you do in your early 20s... you date. See if there is anything really there, blah blah blah.

Now, if you are putting out fast to each of these guys, that is a different story. But if you are just doing regular dating things, movies, hickies, coffee, pool, etc., then It's much more likely that you are a cool chick to hang out with, and the guys are just doing what we do - trying to go out with pretty girls, until we find the right one.

If there are other things that stick out to you, or make you uneasy about them, let me know. Otherwise, just do what they're doing; Dating people around you.

[Asker]

This was right on, thank you!

[USMC-Crossroads]

Anytime.

[spartan55]

So because you break up that means his friends can't compliment you? I don't get what you mean?

[Asker]

They’re very extra when they compliment. On top of that, I thought dudes didn’t do that out respect for their bro ( I guess that’s what I’m asking for clarification on)

[spartan55]

What do you mean 'very extra'?