Is u and Ur long distance guy friend texting everyday is weird?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Maybe a little

[btbc92]

When your friends with people, especially people that you like in general, you want to speak with them all the time or whenever you can. But if you think there's something going on, and I had that happen to me, it's very possible that they have other intentions which is not platonic. And you're going to have to figure out if it is or isn't.

[Asker]

@btbc92. I thought so too, that they might be interested in me romantically but he keeps saying the friend word often, so I thought that I might be the one who was overthinking the situation, what did u do to figure it out,?

[btbc92]

When they start asking me did I have a boyfriend.

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, every day implies something else. Especially when a girl is involved. Have you asked him why he likes to text so often?

[Asker]

@wise4myage We started out talking once every 3 months... but now he ends up texting everyday , it is not often a full conversation sometimes a vdo or meme , sometimes something we talked about.. but I get a message... I thought he liked me but he kept telling how much of a good friend I am too him... so I really don't know what he is thinking

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he’s just really lonely?

[TommyMountainFigure]

A friend of mine moved to Canada. We talk a couple of times a year to catch up. Every day? Yeah that seems weird to me.

[Asker]

@tommymountainfigure... yeah I thought he like me to be honest , I had a crush on him but I don't think that's the case , coz he sees me as a friend , at least that's what he says

[TommyMountainFigure]

The only way to really know for certain though is to ask him what his plans are for the future. Don't put words into his mouth regarding you. Just see what he says.

[Asker]

@tommymountainfigure , I did and it never included me in any way... So I think we know now 😅🤷

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm sorry to hear that. Like you said though, now you know, so there should be nothing holding you back when looking for someone else.

[Magnum615]

No, if it makes you both happy why shouldn't you.

If you genuinely enjoy talking to him then no it's not weird.