Is it normal to text with a guy friend every night for hours?

[Anonymous]

Me (24) and my guy friend (26) text each other every night for hours (like 3-4 hours) is this normal in a friendship between a guy and a girl?

[Arik_jade]

Obviously it is normal dear... everybody used to chat at night with their partners for hours

[Arik_jade]

Thank you for Superb Opinion

[Anonymous]

Only simp spend hours in chatting without benifit...

[Asker]

so he has a thing for me?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think you're just a timepass i guess

[Asker]

i know he likes me a lot, i just don't know how

[spartan55]

See what happens when he gets a girlfriend.

[LunarEclipse433]

If you are interested in each other yes

[Anonymous]

Depends on what you're texting about

[Asker]

we text about each others days, and tell stories about our memories

[Opinion Owner]

That seems quite normal
But how long is this happening?

[Asker]

we have done this for 3 months, i don't know if it is normal
between a guy and girl who are just friends

[Opinion Owner]

3 months?
Yeah you're right thay doesn't sound just friends stuff
The main question is: Do you wish that it's not just friends stuff?

[Asker]

i don't know, i feel confused, I have become attached to him that's for sure and it was clear in the beginning that he saw me just as a friend because in his texts he would say "my friend" but that stopped after like a month, I have never had this close of a friendship with a guy before

[Opinion Owner]

"Confused"
Say no more 😅

[Asker]

the thing is, he has never given me any signals, we work together and one day a lady coworker (she is 60 years old) told him "isn't she always so beautiful" and his answer was "really, you think so?" I was in the room. The thing is if it were any other person he would call them beautiful, but he could not say that about me

[Opinion Owner]

I suggest that you must start giving signs back in the texts or directly and see how he responds

[Asker]

i think he would just be uncomfortable hahah he is quite introverted like that

[Opinion Owner]

Haha, start with really small signs and increase intensity progressively
I see absolutely no reason for a guy to chat with a girl for 3 months just based on friendship to be frank

[Asker]

i know that i am his closest friend, he does not have many

[Asker]

also, he only texts me at night, like 23.30, i we text that time he responds within 10 seconds, but if we text like during the day it will take him hours to respond, but I know he is quite busy

[Opinion Owner]

Very nice
10 seconds, that's awesome
Well you'll never know unlese you try
So give it a shot!

[Asker]

i don't know, he is from India and I heard from a coworker that he needs to marry an Indian girl, so I don't know why he invests so much time in me

[Opinion Owner]

Where are you from?

[Asker]

i am mixed from many countries hahah but I am from Europe

[Asker]

I just don't know why he wants to get to know me, and he remembers every detail I have ever told him

[Opinion Owner]

Oh
Damn I am an Indian man myself and I thought we were quite hated lol

[Asker]

hahahahhaha no not at all

[Opinion Owner]

He must me quite handsome lol, usually we are not that handsome for a girl to be interested lolol

Well there's no rule that Indian guy must marry an Indian girl unless he or his family is very religious and wants a girl from same religion but such a backward thinking traditional families or men are quite rare these days lol

[Asker]

He is sikh, and I know his family is traditional like that, also I think it is important for his family that his future children speak the language

[Asker]

I just wish I knew why he invests so much time in me

[Opinion Owner]

Oooh Sikh.. I thought he's hindu like me
Well I am not very sure about their customs but I know they tend to be quite traditional
Does he wear a turban type thingy like most sikhs?

[Asker]

no hahah no turban, he told me that personally he is not religious but at the same time he follows the culture, he is vegan, does not drink alcohol and things like that

[Opinion Owner]

Oh
No turban means he is not that too traditional type sikh I guess
I've seen Non turban sikhs eat meat and drink alcohol but it's great he doesn't!
Sikhs are literally one of the best kind of people !
So again, my suggestion would be to go for it! You'll never know.. maybe he's madly in love with you and asking similar questions here or somewhere else who knows ( I am not him lol)

[Asker]

hahhah the thing is I have been hurt in the past, so I would never go for it if I know know how he sees me. But from my description would you say he sees me as just a friend or something more?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I am really sorry about that
From description, of course this is more than just friendship
Well my point is you'll never know unless you try
Maybe not get hopes high as you said, but unless you give some signs and analyse his response we'll never know ykwis...

[Asker]

okay, thank u so much, this helped a lot :)

[Opinion Owner]

I am so happy to see a girl have a thing for Indian men
Thank you so much for the talk
All the verg best 😊