We don't spend time together outside of school because we have different groups of friends. He's also not really a "dater". He's private, pretty quiet & shy w/girls. Some nights we stay up texting till 2am. I started crushing on him this spring, but stayed cool because I didn't want to freak him out. I don’t know if he ever found out but it was a little suspicious because he pulled back for about a week and then things between us went back to normal. At one time, I did think he liked me as more than a friend, so I flirted w/him. Sometimes he responded & other times it was nothing!
Last week, I heard that people were asking him things like "What's going on with you two? Do you like her? She's crushing on you." I think he got scared off because he stopped texting me.
I don't think I can talk to him about it because it would make things really awkward. Besides, I’m not bold enough. Is there anything I can do to restore our friendship or have we just run our course? I would consider him one of my best guy friends…we talked about almost everything (but our feelings!).
I think he likes me as a friend ONLY & enjoys talking to me. I also think he doesn't want attention brought to "us" because there's not really anything there. Any thoughts or advice? Thank you!
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