My capricorn boyfriend is a fast replier but now replies to my texts every 4 hours?

[Anonymous]

He usually replies to my texts fast unless he’s pissed off from me he would reply late and usually when he’s pissed off he wouldn’t tell me the reason why , i just figure it out
but now he was pissed off because several times he wanted us to meet or have sex and i would just refuse or ghost him ( i know i’m wrong ) but we talked about it and i kept saying that i want him and i’ll see him soon and so on that was about a 5 days ago , 2 days ago he said he’s not pissed off anymore but he keeps replying late and so on
is he still pissed off or is he losing interest or wants to break up? ( we broke up before and he said directly that we are done )
even his replies now is cold
note : he always thinks that i don’t want him or don’t love him
enough
so am afraid he’s overthinking or something

[spartan55]

Gee, why would he think that? You sound like a high maintenance pain in the ass.

[Asker]

Hello can i message you in private to tell you the whole story so you would tell me your opinion, i really need help

[spartan55]

Sure, I'll be happy to help.

[EmmaMary]

Just what difference does it make with him being a Capricorn?

[Asker]

Yeah you’re right it doesn’t

[EmmaMary]

I regret to say that it does sound at times like you're probably just leading him on... Like have you actually had sex with him, do you want to have sex with him or not?

[Asker]

I had sex with him several times and yes i want to but i didn’t feel like it when he wanted to my fault is that I usually agreed then i cancel it at last minute or something but now i need to understand is he still pissed off because of that because it’s been a long time like a week or is he losing interest and wants to break up?

[EmmaMary]

Regrettably there's the strong possibility that he is losing interest, and quite rightly so if you continually keep cancelling at the last moment... Just stop and consider for a moment how you would feel if the boot was on the other foot.

Maybe it's time you sat down and prioritise just precisely what you do want, and stop wasting other peoples time.

[Asker]

I told him that we can meet today he said he can’t today so what i should do now , i don’t want to lose him

[Asker]

I mean should i just leave him talk to me whenever he wants to or he thinks that i don’t care , am afraid if i double texted he’ll think am being needy and push him away even more

[EmmaMary]

What I think you both need to do, is to agree a time or place completely acceptable to both of you, and sit down and thrash this situation out once and for all... No cancellations and no backing out.

[Asker]

So I shouldn’t double text now?

[EmmaMary]

Double text him with my suggestion and see what happens.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.