Why does he always take sooo much time to reply to my texts?

[Anonymous]

I think he plays a mind game with me and play it cool not answering for days and leave my messages on „seen“. But most of the time he instantly reads them, even when I’m still typing (I can see that he opens my message while I’m typing on Snapchat. Why does he do that? There were times when he immediately texted back or every day. Now no answer since 6 days... before no answer since 5 days... he started to reduce texting since Christmas or since I‘ve been away on holiday with friends...

[Bakry123]

Simple as he likes u 😅 thats how someone stole my ex by acting busy , he try to show u he is not needy and he has life and busy and knowing other girls or so , so u chase him back , also try to notice if in his replays not closing the subject between u two , and try to notice if he want to open conversation between u try ignore him for long long time if he send u thats means he likes u (leave him for two moth or more and be busy or just answer him simply if he come chasing or ask thats means he care !

[Asker]

I guess you’re right. I guess he’s pissed off/jealous of me having fun with friends (maybe make friends). But I don’t know what’s going on in his head. Maybe he wants to seem interesting and busy now and make me jealous in return. Or maybe he’s simply done with me and moved on to other girls on Instagram or has finally decided for himself that he only belongs to her. Or his girlfriend found out about other girls/ me... found pictures/ messages on his phone or maybe they are about to break up or fighting at the moment. Who knows. 🤔

[Asker]

*male friends

[Bakry123]

If u dont mind i have a qustion want to ask opinion for , my ex left me for someone i know , she tried to reach me but i always anwered her coldly and left her messages for long to even look at her also i did cut all releation connected me to her family cause iam hurt but i didt show her that , now i didt reach for her almost 4 month but during all this time she been act weird !! First she write this word on her whatsapp about "whatever💁‍♀️" then she has been block and unblock me repeatedly but i didt react at all acting like iam forget all about her dont know why she is doing this while she is with someone new?

[spartan55]

All of this about a guy who has a girlfriend. You are gross.

[Asker]

His girlfriend is HIS responsibility, not MINE ;) also, he cheated on her 2 times, I know about that. One time, he said some girl was grabbing him inside his pants at the club, HE has Instagram and flirts around there, HE had Snapchat long time before I’ve had it. But his girlfriend didn’t have Snapchat. So he’s the one who seems to look around for other women. If I’m one woman more or less, I guess, that doesn’t count anymore. I’ve never seduced him. He himself asked me to send him nudes or to meet in a hotel room. It’s just texting between the two of us. We never took it any further. I’ve said no several times in the past, because of his girlfriend. HE wants to know my whole personality, asks me personal questions that shouldn’t bother him if he has a girlfriend. My boyfriend already cheated on me. I don’t have the responsibility to be faithful to someone. Also I didn’t meet or him or had sex with him.

[Elsa143]

Honestly he's not getting to touch you physically or have any sort of sexual activity. That's why he's avoiding since the time you have been away on holiday with friends.
I've seen many guys turn cold and aloof when they don't get their needs satisfied.
Block him forever. You shall leave this average shit behind your life. If you don't then he will show you why you should have done it sooner.

[Asker]

Yes, you’re right. But we never had any physical contact. Because he has a girlfriend. I guess, he has found himself a new „love interest aka hot girl“ on Instagram, where I assume him to flirt around without the knowledge of his girlfriend or me. I guess, he’s looking for some girl to be his side chick to get over his current girlfriend. Or until he takes me or I was this option for him, before he started chasing on Instagram.

[Radmondd]

No answer since 6 days? Not a good sign. Yeah we do play mind games like girls. But never for days. Do you do the same to him or do you give him late replies? Maybe a Revenge. Maybe he's busy. If not both, need an investigation.

[Asker]

No, I don’t do such stupid things. I thinks that’s really immature and not worth my time to count the days till when I shall reply someone. To me he just seems immature and indecisive. I guess, I have enough.