Why do guys like to grab or touch my neck when they go out with me?

[Anonymous]

I noticed a few of my dates like to grab or touch my neck when we go out, what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

Your neck must be so sexy that they can't resist thinking about kissing it

[Asker]

No my neck is covered by my hair

[Opinion Owner]

Your neck being covered does not mean it's not sexy!

[Anonymous]

It's a private space. Controlling men would enter that area frequently. Sounds like you have a type.

[Asker]

Lol.. oh
So does it mean they are controlling?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd say it was a sign of dominance. Look at animals. They grab the female yo mate with them, hold them down. We're talking primal forces of nature here. She likes wild ones.

[DrPepper12]

Could be you've been claimed by a neanderthal. That or they like closer contact and PDA.

[The_Sexpert]

Because neck is easily one of the most erogenous part of a woman's body and women love being touched there? (From someone they like)

[Asker]

So why do they touch it? Because they think I’ll like it?

[The_Sexpert]

Yes probably
At the same time I don't think it's a good idea for him to do that unless you two quite close

[Asker]

Does it mean they just want to touch my body? lol like a pervert

[The_Sexpert]

LoL I won't say it's necessary pervert-ish... but most probably a red flag on first date
Also depends on how he touched
I think a light touch from behind is cool but touching from the front as if he's about to choke you or something is too touchy for the first time

[Asker]

Ahhh.. most guys did it on the first date :-/

[The_Sexpert]

Well.. quite weird
If you're cool with being touchy then it's all good
Maybe they're just touchy and not perv.. unless they try to touch a lot

[Asker]

What about touching arm and back a lot?

[The_Sexpert]

"A lot" is.. a red flag I would say..
In my opinion Men need to have some respect for her personal space and not break the touch barrier too early on

[Asker]

So if he breaks touch barrier, it most likely means he wants physical things?

[The_Sexpert]

I mean everyone wants "physical things" to be honest... but seeing a person just as a way to sexually satisfy oneself is what's wrong
And yes.. I think if he's touching you a lot when you two are not close enough can mean that he is more interested in your body
Depends on the type of touch too...

[MrWolf03]

It all depends on how they do it, but usually, it's just a way of physical intimacy, like holding hands or hugging.

[KrakenAttackin]

Maybe you have a very sensuous neck.

[Asker]

No my neck is covered with my hair lol