I have a child that he has seen, but I introduced him as a friend not a boyfriend. He also sometimes came over night but went before my child would wake up.
Now he asked me to come over and have sex. I said no, because it has been awhile since my child has seen him and my child wakes up at night so I don’t want to do it like this if I am bringing him inside my life, home, while my kid is around.
To that he said okay, so I am going with someone else and then he said bye see you tomorrow (I am going for his birthday party). I know he talks and how we can joke. But he sounded semi angry/dissapointed/sad/surprised and I feel sad and like I don’t actually want to go tomorrow. He is really kind otherwise and easy to talk to and not judgmental, but if he can’t respect my boundaries and say he will go with another girl (even if he might be half joking) I feel it isn’t worth it. What do you think?
